Akukho mfihlakalo yokuba icala lesithunzi lomtshato alisoloko lihlala lusebenza kakuhle nabazali babo ngesiqingatha sabo esigqibeleleyo. Zingaphi iintsomi kunye neentsuba ezikhoyo kwesi sihloko! Kwaye zingaphi iifilimu kunye neeseti ziyasuswa! Sele ndithe cwaka ngenani elibekiweyo lamahlaya malunga nomkhwekazi obenobungozi kwaye akabikho umolokazana obe yingozi okanye umkhwekazi ombi kunye nomkhwenyana otshutshisayo. Ngokubanzi, kwintetho eyodwa, esi sihloko asidingi. Indlela yokujamelana nobubi obungenakufikeleleka? Ndiza kunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa.
Okokuqala, gcina umgama. Inketho efanelekileyo ayikokuphila phantsi kophahla olufanayo. Nokuba kuya kufuneka ufudukele kwiimeko ezingakumbi - ungalilibali eli thuba. Ngapha koko, abazali kunzima ukuyeka umntwana odunandi, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kuphazamisa ubomi bakho. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kunzima kakhulu ukudala usapho lwakho. Ukuba akukho ndlela yokuhamba, enokubakho kangako kwizinto zethu zaseRussia, zama ukwakha imida ecacileyo kuwo onke amabakala obomi. Kuya kufuneka ube nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwentsapho. Ukuba uthatha imali kubazali bakho, emva koko ube ngamatyala kuphela. Igumbi elahlukileyo ophila kulo kwaye libuhlungu kuphela kwaye umyeni wakho uyadingeka: gqiba kwelokuba ubeke ntoni, kwaye awubandakanyi abazali ngaphandle kokunkqonkqoza. Unokuba namashelufa akho kwifriji. Uzimele uqhuba ngokuzimela, hlamba izitya, ucime iimpahla. Iingxaki zakho kunye nomyeni wakho zixoxa nje kuphela.
Imibuzo malunga nendlela yokuphakamisa nokufundisa umntwana, nayo, yenza isigqibo ngokwakho. Lo ngowokuqala wonke umntu, nakwesibini - umzukulwana wabazali bakho. Nokuba uyithumela kwikhefu kunye notat'omkhulu notat'omkhulu, ukuba angatya, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba unxibe, ukuba yeyiphi na iincwadi ezinokufundwayo, uthatha isigqibo. Ungalibali imeko ebuhlungu - abazali bomyeni wakho akufuneki bafune nantoni na. Rhoqo kukho inkohliso yokuba umsebenzi ngqo katatomkhulu noomakhulu kukuhlala nabazukulwana. Kodwa oku akunjalo, banobomi babo kunye nezinye izinto onomdla kuzo, ukongeza kubazukulwana.
Yiba nombulelo kubazali beqabane ukuba babonelela ngenkxaso kwaye bakuncede. Kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngapha koko, ukuba baziva beswele kwaye banexabiso labo, baya kuyibona ngakumbi ukugxeka kwakho. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba thethathe ngayo yonke into.
Musa ukubukela ukungavisisani kwakho. Yonke into edidekileyo okanye iyacaphukisa, iyimfuneko ukuba ibize. Ngaphandle koko, iya kuba yibhombu yokuhamba kancinci. Mhlawumbi into ongayihambelanga akulungelanga awuyiyo ngokusisiseko kubazali beqabane lakho, kwaye baya kukulungele ukunikezela.
Kulumkele ukubeka umyeni kubazali bakhe okanye ubeke ngaphambi kokukhetha "okanye mna, okanye bona." Oku kuyakwenza i-voltage eyongezelelweyo kwaye ayizukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho nomyeni wakhe kunye nomkhwekazi kunye nomkhwekazi kunye nomkhwekazi.
Ewe kunjalo akunakwenzeka ukuba uphephe ukungqubana nokubhalwa kwezinto-kuba ungowahlukeneyo kwizizukulwane ezahlukeneyo ezikwindlela enyanzelisiweyo. Kodwa wena umanyaniswe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu- uyamthanda umntu omnye. Umzuzu wokuphelelwa lithemba kwaye ungenathemba, zama ukujonga kwikamva. Khawufane ucinge ukuba nawe unomntwana okhulileyo otshatileyo. Oko kukuthi, omnye umfazi obalulekileyo uvela ebomini bakhe. Uziphatha njani kule meko? Uziva njani kwaye ufuna ntoni? Mhlawumbi uyalikhumbula into? Yintoni ekhathazayo? Uyicombulula njani ingxaki kunye nomthetho-ntombi? Yintoni ekuqhubayo? Lo msebenzi unceda ukuphakamisa kancinci ngemeko kwaye uyijonge ecaleni, ukuphazamisa kwaye kupholile. Sonke singabantu, kwaye abantu bathanda ukwenza iimpazamo. Kwaye ukuba asikwazanga ukuxolela, ukufezekisa ukuqonda okunye, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu.