Iingcali zengqondo ziqinisekile, uninzi lweengxaki zethu zihamba kwasebuntwaneni. Xa siba ngabazali, sinethuba lokuphepha iimpazamo ukuba abazali bethu bavunyelwe, asihlali siqaphele ukuba, ngamanye amaxesha siya kusixelela ukuba zeziphi iimpazamo ezenziwa ngumzali wesibini.
Uyamxhasa umntwana
Ngomntwana wayo nayiphi na iminyaka yobudala, akukho ibinzana elibi lomzali "andikuthandi / sabela." Ukuba uhlala ukhumbuza umntwana ukuba uza kuyeka umthande ukuba awuzalisekisi imiyalelo yakho, umngcipheko wokukhula umntu ongakhuselekanga uya kuqinisekisa kuphela kwinto enye-uthando kufuneka lifanelwe. Kwiminyaka yobudala, umntu uya kuhlala emeyisa abanye abanokuguqula babe lumbono obonakalayo.
Ungumntwana omkhulu kakhulu
Ukuze umntu abonakalise inkululeko, kwinqaku elithile, umgcini-sicelo kufuneka o buthathaka. Abantu abadala abasenxunguphele akululanga ukwakha umsebenzi ophumelelayo, ukuze bamisele ubomi bakho.
Akukho sidingo sokwenza kumntwana ukuba angazenzela umntwana, akhuthaze naliphi na inyathelo, umzekelo, nje ukuba umntwana uvakalise umnqweno wokucoca isitya, ngaphandle kwetyala elingevayo.
Khuthaza ukuzimela
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Awufuni ukuthatha inyani yokuba umntwana wakho ngumntu
Kwenzeka ukuba abazali bangaziboni iziyobisi nje abanomdla bomntwana, bekholelwa ukuba kuphela abazi ukuba yintoni amandla kunye nobuthathaka bentombi okanye unyana, kwaye bakhethe isifundo esingathanda ukuwenza, hayi umntwana. Ukuba ulandela amaqhinga anjalo, musani ukumangaliswa yi-riots kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukulahlwa ngokupheleleyo konxibelelwano kunye nawe xa umntwana bezimele ngokupheleleyo.
Khulula ukhathalelo
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