Xa umntwana wokuqala evela kusapho, abazali abancinci bafumana iingcebiso ezininzi kubahlobo abanamava ngakumbi, oogxa bakhe kunye nabantu obaqhelileyo. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa abantu abanokuxela ukuba ubomi bomama abancinci buya kutshintsha njani emva kokuzalwa komntwana wesibini. Sigqibe kwelokuba sixele malunga nezibakala ezingalindelekanga ukuba ii-moms zabelana ngazo nazo zabiwa kwiintsapho zabo bakhule kuzo abantwana ababini.
Uya kufumana imvakalelo enkulu yetyala
Ngokuqala komntwana wesibini, kuya kufuneka ufumane ibhalansi phakathi, ngoku, ngabantwana ababini, nganye ifuna ingqwalaselo. Uqala ukuzingcikiva kwinto yokuba isabelo sengonyamakazi sihamba ngomntwana wesibini, esifuna ukhathalelo lwexesha lesibini, ngamanye amaxesha umama osemncinci anxunguphele kangangokuba amandla angabi ngamandla awoneleyo. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba yingxaki echaseneyo xa uzigxeka koko kunokunika ixesha elingakumbi kumzuzwana, umntu okhulileyo ngakumbi.
Awunakho ukuba namava awoneleyo
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Awunakho ukuba namava awoneleyo
Ewe, sele udlule ekuncanciseni kunye neediski eziguqukayo kunye nomntwana wokuqala, kodwa akuthethi konke okuphinda onke amanyathelo afanayo nomntwana wesibini. Umntwana ngamnye uyakhula ngokukodwa. Abanye abazali banemvakalelo yokuba kuqala oomama-ubomi bahluke kakhulu ngomntwana wokuqala nowesibini.
Iimvakalelo ziyinto encinci
Uba ngumntu omntu ngamnye, kodwa le nyaniso ayibangeli ntuthumelo kunye nokuqonda ukuba ngoku ebomini bakho into iya kutshintsha. I-Euphoria idluliselwa ngembonakalo yesabulo, ngoku uya kubona ngokucacileyo, kodwa hayi iimvakalelo ezifanayo okokuqala.
Inokwenzeka ngokuncancisa
Kukholelwa ukuba abantwana abaye bobabini nabalandelayo abayi kubangela ukungalunganga. Nangona kunjalo, oomama bamangalisiwe kukufumanisa ukuba iingxaki ezifanayo abaye bafumana ngazo ngexesha lokutyiswa komntwana wokuqala bevela ngexesha lokutya okwesibini. Yilungiselele.
Awuyi kuba nakho ukuchitha inani elilinganayo labantwana ababini.
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Ukuthozama akukho ndawo
Xa uphatha abantwana ababini abakwimihla yosuku bonke, awuyi kudideka yinyani yokuba okwesibini kwafuneka ukondla kwindawo kawonke-wonke ngelixa ulinde i-cudeboy encinci kwipaseji yesikolo. Ihlazo, elikukugubungelayo ngexesha lokuphila komntwana omnye, alusayi kuphinda lutyelele ukuba ezinye ii-moms ziba yinto enkulu.