Inkwenkwezi yolu ngcelele "ngesondo kwisixeko esikhulu" uCynthia Nixon wathatha inxaxheba kwi-Mboniselo yeTV yaseMelika "Ucinga ukuba ungubani?" (Ucinga ukuba ungubani), apho iinkwenkwezi ngoncedo lweengcali ezikwi-genetacy banethuba lokufunda ngoobani ookhokho babo. Umdlali oneminyaka engama-48 ubudala, yayisisiselo sokwenene sokufumanisa ukuba uMakhulu wakhe omkhulu uMartha Cherenetnet waye ... Umbulali. Ngeminyaka yee-1840, eMissouri, wabulala umyeni wakhe umyeni wakhe kwi-NOV TOSTO, eyahlula inkohlakalo kunye nomlinganiswa onzima. UCynthia weva ukuba adela iinyembezi xa amanqaku amaphephandaba eboniswe ukuba wayeneminyaka emihlanu, kodwa emva koko wagwetywa njani, kodwa wasanduluka ngaphambi kwexesha, echitha imivalo engaphantsi ngaphezulu kweminyaka emibini. I-Cytiney yabonisa intolongo apho yayikhonza khona i-Marti, kwaye yayikuphela komfazi kuphela - waqukumbela amadoda angama-800. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ezintolongweni kungathethi iikhamera ekhethekileyo kumabhinqa, le ilahla wayeselapho kwigumbi elibucala kwamanye amabanjwa, yaye inxalenye bethuba bachitha emsebenzini ezindlwini ishishini equlethe entolongweni. Emva kwexesha, umThetho watyelela ingcwaba labafi.
"Kuyacinga kakhulu ngento ekufuneka ndinyamezele uMatshi. Kubonakala kum ukuba kungangcono ukuba wayengayibulalanga umyeni wakhe, kwaye wambulala nabantwana babo. Andikwazi nokucinga ukuba nzima kangakanani ukulwa neemeko. Ewe, kamva siya kwenyuka ihlaya elithile lokuba kukho ababulali kwintsapho yethu, kodwa siya kungcangcazela kukoyika umsebenzi ophambi kwethu, utshilo uCynthia.