Eyona nto iphambili kukuba umntwana anxibe, umvuzo wakhe. Inje "itafile ephindaphindiweyo" eqhutywa kwiindlela zethu eziphambili ze-moms nootatomkhulu. Kwaye ukuba abantwana abahamba ze azihambi kwilizwe lethu, emva koko isondlo sabo sikhathaza izalamane, kodwa nabamelwane.
"Onjani wona inkwenkwe ekrakra, ungabona kakubi, iivithamini azinalo ngokwaneleyo", "i-Iyey Hyssip iphakamisa.
"Ewe, utya kakuhle, utata esiphakamileyo, kwaye ndilinganisa ixesha elingaphezulu kwamashumi amahlanu ...", "ndaqala ukuzithethelela. Kodwa uMakhulu wabukele isikwere, etyibilika, bathi, iikati ezityetyisiweyo, kwaye umntwana udume.
Mhlawumbi indawo ekugxilwe kuyo kwisizukulwana esidala sinxulunyaniswa nokunqongophala kweemveliso rhoqo kwilizwe lethu kwinkulungwane yamashumi amabini. Masingaze siye kwiihambo zembali, kodwa kwafuneka ndibulale abaninzi. Ke ngoko, uMntwana ongumzekelo we-70s- I-80s ifanele ibe yi-bustheus, kunye nezixhobo "zokunxiba" kwi-chubby iphatha kunye nemilenze.
"Awufuni - ndenze". Intombi yam esondeleyo ilwela bonke ubomi bakhe ngokugqithisileyo, ngelixa abazali bakhe bathambile kakhulu. Yajika ke ukuba umakhulu womntu, umongikazi kwi-Kindergarten, ngokukhethekileyo i-collanous yomzukulwana kamakhulu, ukuze adle okungcono kwaye akhuthele. Kwaye ngokwenene, kwiifoto zabantwana i-Oksana zibonakalayo ngenxa yeendlebe zabo kuvuyo lwama-mama nogogo. Ewe, malunga nokwaphulwa kwempilo eselelele ubomi, akukho mntu ucinga.
Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuyindlela egqithisileyo, unokuthetha ifuthe lomzimba. Kwaye zingaphi zengqondo? Ukukhohlisa, izoyikiso, iBlackmail ...
"Ungadli okwangoku, awuyi kuphuma etafileni"
"Khetha: Awuyi kuya kwisuphu okanye uhambe"
"Umsebenzi uphononongwe yindlela adla ngayo ngokukhawuleza"
"Kulungile, u-gorridge kwiplate, uya kuba yiphunga elinye"
"Umama wazama, ulungisiwe, kwaye awukutya, kungaphiki na?"
Amabinzana aliqela kunye nendoda encinci ibuzwa inkqubo yonke yobusuku. Kwakhe, njenge-goose iKrisimesi, abantu abadala bafanelekile, banelisekile kukutya. Isikolo sasekhaya, ekhaya asinalo ixesha lokususa idyasi, kwaye igama lakhe sele lisidlo sangokuhlwa. Ngenxa yoko, umama okanye umakhulu okanye umakhulu avakalayo olona nyango kunye nothando, kwaye ukhubekile kakhulu xa umntwana engayamkeli.
Ngenxa yoko, umntu omncinci ufumana ukutya ngenxa yokuba enemvakalelo yendlala kunye nemfuneko yawo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bagqibe kwelokuba baninzi. Babala ivolumu kunye neekhalori, nto leyo, ngokoluvo lwabo, okwangoku zifuneka ngumntwana.
Iingcali zengqondo kunye nezondlo zikholelwa ukuba umntwana, ukuze usapho lonke, luncedo ukuthatha ukutya ngexesha elithile. Kwaye inqweneleka kubo bonke. Umthendeleko odibeneyo udibanisa usapho. Kodwa ukuba umntwana akafuni ukutya ngeli xesha, akuyomfuneko ukuyinyanzela. Ukuba umntwana uxhonywe phakathi kokutya, unokutya isiqhamo kwaye emva koko utye isidlo sangokuhlwa esipheleleyo. Le ndlela iya kwenza imikhwa yokutya efanelekileyo ebantwini, eya kuba yeyona nto iphambili kwimpilo yakhe kwixesha elizayo.