Ngaba amagxa akho amagxa amashumi alishumi kunye nezifundo ezintlanu zeyunivesithi (kwaye umntu une-4)? Mhlawumbi uyinkosi okanye umgqatswa wesayensi? Xoxa, namhlanje iidiploma yakho, nje ukuba ixabiseke kwaye ibalulekile, ilahlekelwe izatifikethi zezifundo ezininzi, ukulandelwa kweekhosi ezininzi, ukuqeqeshwa, i-pumphons "kuyo yonke into - ukusuka kwi-Karma yothando kwishishini. Ukuthandwa kweenkqubo zokuziphucula ziqala ukoyikisa-kwaye kukwenza ukuba ucinga: Kutheni kwaye ifuna yonke le nto? Kwaye ayiloxesha lokuba ungene ukuze ubhalise kwi "Drumkruzh, isangqa kwifoto ..."?
Ngobulumko uqinisekile: Kuya kufuneka uzithelekise kuphela nomntu omnye emhlabeni - ngezolo ngokwakho. Musa ukuchitha ixesha ngomona, yonke imihla entsha iwile kumzabalazo nophuhliso, uphuhliso kunye nomzabalazo. Umnxeba ngokuqinisekileyo uyakhuthaza kwaye umhle, kodwa intengiso yale mihla ibonelela ngeendlela ezininzi ezingafaniyo, kwaye ezandleni azikwazi ukubamba. Enoba uyafuna ngokungxamisekileyo ukuba enze ulwimi lwesiTshayina, nokuba ume ngendlela yomqeqeshi weshishini, nokuba ukuqhubela phambili nophuhliso lobugcisa obuhle bokucocwa. Ke, ungatya njani ukuze uqhubeke kwihlabathi lokuzikhusela? Qala ngokubonakalayo-qhubeka kwisifundo sobuqhetseba.
Amanqanaba:
1. Ingqondo. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuba ungxame ukuya kwi-omut kunye nezifundo kunye nentloko yakho - zama ukuchaza kakuhle injongo yakho kwaye uqonde iimfuno zakho kunye neemfuno zakho. Kuphela ngokuchaza ikhosi, unokuqhubela phambili, ukuya kwelona lilungileyo.
2. Ukwamkelwa. Vuma ekugqibeleni, kuwe ukuba ukwakhiwa kwezicwangciso zeshishini kunye nolawulo lweqela, makuhlale kamnandi kuvakala, kwaye yeyakho, kunye nemiphefumlo yezihloko ezinqumlayo kwaye uhambe. Akukho nto ihlazo okanye ihlekisayo. Landela umnxeba wentliziyo!
3. Ukukhetha. Yiza ekukhetheni koqeqesho ngesazela kunye nentloko ebandayo. Funda uphononongo, yiya kwiintsuku zengcango evulekileyo, thatha umcebisi ongazukuba yingcali yengcali, kodwa nayo uya kuyithanda yedwa.
Phosa yonke into
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuqonda ukuba kutheni siyifuna. Apha, wonke umntu uya kukhula kuwo ngoko nangoko aya kwabelana ngoko nangoko amaqela amakhulu amabini: abo bayifunayo yokukhula komsebenzi kunye nophuhliso lomsebenzi, kwaye banqwenela ukuba yeyona nguqulelo ilungileyo yeyodwa.
Ukhetho lokuqala xa ubutyebi obubonakalayo buncinci: kufuneka baphucule iziqinisekiso? Phambili! Thumela ubuchule obutsha? Ndicela ukuba! Ngaba ufuna ulwimi? Wamkelekile kwiikhosi zoLwimi. Icebiso: Nokuba awuzukujongana neenguqulelo ezithile, kodwa ufuna ukuqhuba uthethathethwano olufanelekileyo kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo, ukuba "uthathe ngaphezulu" kwaye uhlale kwizikolo ezisemthethweni kunye neekholeji ezinokukunika isatifikethi sehlabathi esiya kuthi sicatshulwe hayi kwimarike yaseRussia kuphela. Eli cebiso lichaphazela abo bafuna ukufunda ulwimi lwasemzini ngenxa yomphefumlo.
Iingcali zokurhoxa ngobungcali, zifunwa ngoku, kufuneka zibe nohlolo oluhle kunye neendleko ezifanelekileyo. Akunakwenzeka kangangeentsuku ezintlanu kunye newaka elifanayo ruble ukuba yiNkosi okanye ibrawuza (Yintoni onokuyithetha ngokubuyiselwa kootitshala okanye abaphathi?). Kwaye ukuze bangabi sisiphango, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuhlawula kabini, khetha ngononophelo iikhosi ezibonileyo, umzekelo, kwiiSans ezilungileyo kunye neekliniki.
Yonke into ingacaciswanga kakhulu kwezo nkqubo kunye noqeqesho olungaqinisekisi iziphumo ezithile, kodwa sithembisa ukuba uya kuphumelela ngakumbi, mhle ngakumbi kwaye uyonwaba ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Siza kubalisa ngakumbi.
Yamkela iVuartan
Imali ngaphambili! Akanazo iiklasi ezililindlebe, kunokwenzeka ukuba aziqhelanise nendlela yokusebenza, "iitafile ezijikelezileyo" okanye zihlangane phakathi kwabathathi-nxaxheba. Uhlawula lonke ikhosi kwangoko kwaye ukuthenga ikati kwibhegi. Sukwenza lonto.
Ukuthulula amanzi ngaphandle kokuphendula imibuzo ethile, enika amagama afihlakeleyo kwaye adimaze amabinzana aqhelekileyo.
Ubukho babathengi yinto efihlakeleyo: UGenius Geener unokubanjwa, ongekabikho ithuba lokusebenza nenani elikhulu labantu. Ukanti uphononongo lwabantu abaphilayo ababenokufunda amava kumqeqeshi okanye abafundisayo yinxalenye eyongezelelweyo.
Impumelelo echasene nayo
Ukunyuka kokusebenza kobunkokeli, imigaqo-nkqubo yobunkokeli kunye nezakhono zabo zexesha elinokubakho, zexeshana kunye nokwakha ukuzithemba kunye ne-rand yakho-yintoni, ukuba ayililo ifanitshala? Namhlanje, ukusuka kwi "Mfami" eqhelekileyo "ngoncedo lwe (apho ngaphandle kwe-IT) ezityhila iimfihlo zokukhawulezisa" ukuzityumza "ngokwazo, unokuba yigudi yonxibelelwano, ishishini nothando.
Ngokwesiqhelo lonke ucwangco lokumpompa ngokwabo lubangelwa yinto yeqela okanye i-psychoperapy yomntu ngamnye.
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Ngokwesiqhelo bonke ooqeqesho badityaniswa kwizinto zeqela okanye i-psychoperapy yomntu ngamnye, injongo yokuba ichonge ubuthathaka bakho. Ingabonakala ngathi bayityhilela - kwaye basebenze! Kwaye nantsi ingozi yokuqala ilele: Inyani yile yokuba lonke ucwangco nakwikhosi balulola phantsi kwabantu, ekuqaleni kwabo bathandabuzekayo, ukungazithembi kwizinto zabo kunye nemikhosi yabo. Umthengi onjalo ufumana intengiso yokuphuhliswa kobuntu: Ukuphuma kwenye i-tutorial, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kwenye-kwaye kungenjalo ngenxa yokuba ndifumene umda kwimfezeko, kodwa ngenxa yokuba iqinisekisiwe: enjalo Njengoko wayefunda kwaye efunda. Kubalulekile ukuba uzixelele "ukumisa" kwaye uzame ukuqonda ukuba ufuna ntoni kanye kanye. Oku kunokunceda ubuchwephesha obahlukeneyo, kwizicangca ezizimeleyo ukuya kwiseshoni kunye nomqeqeshi, onokukunceda ekukhokeleni kwicala elifanelekileyo. Sukuzama ukugubungela yonke into kwaye kwangoko, kuhambo olukhawulezileyo kuphuhliso oluqhubekayo ekufuneka ungenise ngokuthe ngcembe.
Okokuqala, fumana kwaye wamkele amanqaku akho. Apha Sebenza ngokugqibeleleyo (kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo kuvavanywa) iindidi zobuntu ezinjengesiTypology-Briggs (i-MBTI eyaziwayo) okanye i-MBTI eyaziwayo. Ukuqonda ngcono ukuthemba i-psychoanalyst, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukujamelana nangokuqinisekileyo. Sukubona iziphumo njengezifungiweyo ezisayiniweyo, ezi mvavanyo ziyafuneka ukuze zikwazi ukufumanisa kwaye zisebenzise amandla abo kwaye zifunde njani ukuba kutheni na okanye kwenye imeko ophendula ngayo njengawe phendula. Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba umntu oqiqayo nozolileyo ukhathazekile, ongenakuzintloni ezi ziinkokheli, kwaye uqala "ukukhulisa" ukuzalisa ". Ngelixa kubalulekile ukuba singadli indalo yabo, kodwa zama ukusebenzisana ne-asethi yakho-umzekelo, ukusebenzela, ukuqhuqhunkqo, ukungxama, ukunxibelelana okuchanekileyo kunye noku-odola. Isiphoso se "tihoni" silele kumnqweno ongqongqo wokuba yinkokeli esebenzayo (kwaye nezifundo kunye noqeqesho ethenjiswe!) Ngolwazi olukhethekileyo kunye nolomelezayo.
Ke masivuyela into yokuba ukukhula kunye nophuhliso kwisitshixo apho intengiso yabo iyaqonda ukuba le nto siyifunayo. Rhoqo, ukuthatha inxaxheba okungapheliyo kuqeqesho kunye neesemina zinenkonzo yebhere: Umntu oqhubeka ekhangela phambili elahlekileyo elahlekileyo, enyibilikisa la maxesha anokuxabisa ukuxabisa apha kwaye ngoku. Umfanekiso womfazi weshishini okanye usomashishini ophumelele kwimoto yelinye ilizwe inomtsalane, kodwa ayinguye sonke othandekayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sigwetywe. Itemplate ibonwe kwimpumelelo kwaye icinge ukuba namhlanje iyacaphukisa, kunokuba ihlawule kwaye incede ukubamba ihlazo lenzondelelo.
Iikhosi zokubuyiswa kwezinto, ngenxa yoko, kufanele ukuba zihlolwe kakuhle kunye neendleko ezifanelekileyo.
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Indawo eqinileyo ihlalwa ngamaqhina ohlukeneyo, kwaye uninzi lwazo luluncedo ngokwenene. Awu, kodwa imvumelwano yesini kweli lizwe lethu ayikabikho kwimbeko- kwaye ibandakanyeka kuphela kwi-blogger kuphela kwi-Intanethi. Phantsi kunye neeHubbees kunye nokuthandabuza: phakathi kwabaqeqeshi bobomi obusenyongweni yobomi bakho bezengqondo zokwenyani abasebenzisa i-sellogy kunye nokubeka esweni iinkqubo ezifanelekileyo. Ukuba awukulungelanga ukuthenga ikati ebhegini, ungabhalisela umcebisi wakho uyathanda kwaye ubukele umsebenzi wayo wenethiwekhi. Rhoqo, ukongeza kumxholo ohlawulelwayo, iibhlogs zibonelela ngolwazi oluninzi olunomdla kunye noluncedo olusebenzayo.
Ngendawo esondeleyo, yonke into ihamba kakuhle, kodwa uthando alukho, kwaye esi sibini asikhuli? Kwaye isicelo sakho siya kuba neengcibi zezo chectsmen eziya kuthi zikuxelele indlela efanelekileyo kumadoda amadoda, yintoni ekufuneka inxibe abantu, yintoni ekufuneka inxibe ukuba ihombise i-tensed, i-Fond i-Find kwaye ihambe kakuhle kumhla wokuqala. "Inzululwazi yenkathalo ethambileyo" inokukwenza kuwe ngesixa esijikelezileyo, kodwa abo bafuna ukufumana ulwazi lwayo nakweyiphi na indleko abayenzi, kodwa bafuna, banika isindululo. Ngokwe-ofisi yoHlelo, kungcono ukuba utyale imali kwikhosi yesixhobo, ukutyelela kwimidaniso yaseLatin American eneqabane lakho kunye neeklasi ezininzi kwi-Psychology yengqondo egxile emzimbeni. Umgaqo, ongeyomfuneko ukulibala: Zithande- kunye nabanye baya kukuthanda.
Iikhosi zoLwazi lokuFunda nokuBhala, ukusika kunye nokuthunga kwixesha elidlulileyo, kufanelekile ukuba ziqwalasele. Kodwa uqeqesho loqeqesho lwesondo luhlala lusemva kwexesha xa kufikwa kwii ... iinkqubo zokulungiselela amagqwirha. Ukuba ayisebenzi ukuba ibingasebenzi, kwaye andikwazi ukunceda ishishini guru, bangena kumdlalo - izikolo zobugqwirha nobugqwirha. Ewe, ewe, akuyomfuneko ukuba ube yi-harry potter kwaye ufumane ileta kwileta ye-oyile, namhlanje yonke into ilula: Iimfihlo zamangqina ziyafumaneka kuye wonke umntu, ngokuqinisekileyo.
Kwizixeko ezikhulu kukho iivenkile ezizodwa apho yonke into yabafundi abajongiswayo kwiNdlela yeMilingo iyathengiswa. Imilenze yenkukhu eyomileyo? Imisila yomvundla? Amehlo eZbiania? Apha unokuthenga nantoni na yokuphumeza izithethe ezifanelekileyo, biza amatye empumelelo kunye nomtsalane kwaye, kunjalo, ukupheka i-potion yelimo. Ngaphandle kwesatifikethi esikhethekileyo sokuba uligqwirha kwaye usidlule ikhosi yokufunda ziimfihlo zamandulo nakwimfihlakalo, okanye iigatya aziyi kusebenza.
Ngokubanzi, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubeke emngciphekweni-ngaphandle kwe-sraccasm egqithisileyo kunye nokugxeka. Kuthembela i-intuition yakho (okanye ngegqwirha elincinci?), Enikwe imvakalelo encinci, yiza nomnqweno ongaqhelekanga kwaye ufunde ukucela uncedo lwemiphefumlo, kwaye hayi ibrashi (ewe, kukho into enjalo!). Yekani ukuqeshisa, iinkqubo, iisemina, iiklasi ze-master njengento enyanzelekileyo, eyimfuneko, ngaphandle kokuba singakwazi ukuba selona hlobo lubalaseleyo kuwe, kodwa nje ukucinga kwaye ucime nje. Thetha endifundise umqala ocula iintsuku ezintathu? Yomelele, emva kweveki yakho enkulu, ndiza kuba nguThixo othi massage kwaye ndinokuloyisa amadoda ashiyekileyo? Ndikulungele! Ekugqibeleni, sisiphi isihogo?
Funda, funda kwaye ufunde kwakhona-isifundo siyabhabha kwaye sinombulelo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyaphela kwaye (o, sothuka!) Ngamanye amaxesha singeyomfuneko. Musa ukufuna ukulunga kokulungileyo, kuba uya kufa, uthanda, uzithabathe njengoko unjalo. Kunye nophuhliso lokuvumela ukuba lonwabe kuphela kwaye uvuye. Khumbula: kwananabo basesikolweni, olona hlobo lomsebenzi luphambili lwenzululwazi yenzululwazi, kukho iiholide. Ukulandela okufanelekileyo, ungalibali ukuba ufuna iholide. Funda kwizinto zokuzonwabisa uzibophelele ozimisele ukuqhubeka nokuphumla kunye nokukhupha, ukwenza zonke iinkqubo zentanda-bulumko yeNoschena (khumbula okungenani i-niksen kunye ne-chagge). Ukuphela konyaka kusondele, ke ngoko lixesha lokuba uyeke kwaye uyeke umyolelo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuzikhusela ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kulinda kude kube lixesha lesikolo elilandelayo. Imibuliso yeholide!