Abafazi abaninzi, boyika ukuvutha kwendoda yakhe, bajonga ngasese ifowuni yakhe kwaye bafundisise ngononophelo uthungelwano lwentlalo kunye nembali ye-browser. Ndiza kuthetha ngokungafanelekanga: Akulunganga, kuba uloyiko oluqhubekayo luyakwazi ukutshabalalisa nobudlelwane obunamandla nobunempilo. Impazamo yabafazi kule meko kukuba ihlala ivele imida yobuqu yeqabane lakhe. Umahluko uyawenzakaliswa kwaye ukhubeke yindoda. Inyathelo ngenyathelo eliqokelela ukungabinantlonelo, okhokelela kwityala langaphakathi, ukungaqiniseki. Ngenxa yoko, indoda enolonwabo iqala ukuthatha imiqondiso yokuqwalaselwa kwabanye abasetyhini, kwaye uloyiko lwabasetyhini lube nengqiqo.
U-Anna Saintanenikova
Masihlalutye indlela eyenziwayo ngenkxwaleko. Kukho ukufana okuthile phakathi kolo loyiko nabanye ababandezeleka. Siyasoyika into esingenamandla. Rhoqo, kwisiseko sephobia, kukho ibali elithile elijikelezwe. Qiniseka ukuba ungumhlobo, isalamane okanye ummelwane, otshintshe umyeni wakhe. Ngapha koko, lo mfazi uhlala esondele kumfanekiso ogqibeleleyo: inkosikazi, ubuhle, ubuchwephesha obuhle. Ngenxa yoko, iskripthi ethile ethile sekwa, apho isiphumo salo naluphi na ulwalamano siya kuba yinkcitho kunye nokuwa kwabo okulandelayo. Zonke ezi zinto zinesimo sengqondo esingalunganga, esibonisa ukuphuculwa kwePhobia.
Ingxaki apha kukuba umfazi akakwazi ukuhlalutya imeko kuwo onke amacala. Izizathu zokoyika ukuvutha komsindo kufuneka zifunwe kwiingxaki zokuzithemba. Abafazi abanjalo bakwinqanaba eliphantsi kakhulu. Baqinisekile ukuba uthando olungafanelekanga lungenakunika umntu into alinde intombi yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, irethomongo njengoko inokuqinisekisa inkxalabo kwaye yomeleze izakhiwo.
Siphantsi kolo loyikayo abo basetyhini kunye namantombazana afumene ukungcatsha kwiqabane. Xa ungena kubudlelwane obutsha, bona, njengoshicilelwaniso lwetape, baqhuba iinkumbulo kunye neemvakalelo, ukuzama ukufumana impazamo. Ngenxa yoko, kubudlelwane obutsha, utshayela "imeko engalunganga", ekrokreleka kwaye ehlasela umntu otyhafisayo ukufumana ingqalelo kwezinye iintlobo zabasetyhini.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, uncedo lwengqondo luhlala luyimfuneko. Umsebenzi wengcali kukubuyisa imvakalelo yokuba ngumfazi wokuzithemba, nikeza isiqinisekiso sokuba umhlaba awukabi nantlonelo, kwaye abanye bahlala bekulungele ukunceda. Buyela kwimeko entle yomntu unokwazi ukuqonda ukuba umntu owahlulele kuye, exhasa kwaye wamamela nje kuye.