Umbuzo ofanayo ubuzwa ngokufuthi amabhinqa ajongane nesatellite obomi bamadoda anesiseko sezinto ezibonakalayo kunye nobutyebi. Emva koko, ndiza kuzama ukuphendula kwaye ndixele lo mbuzo, kuwe, abafundi abathandekayo, ngokusekelwe kwizigqibo zethu kunye nemifanekiso ephilayo yabantu abasebenza kum nayo nayiphi na imibuzo.
Ke ngoko abafazi, kwaye yeyiphi indlela yokushicilela ekhetha amadoda atyebileyo namaqabane abo?
Kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi zangaphandle nangaphakathi ezijikeleze umntu onjalo. Ukuqonda le nkalo, kubalulekile ukujongana nengqondo yale ndoda nakwisicwangciso sobomi esikhoyo, esikhona okwangoku.
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Ukukhetha amaqabane kumadoda anempumelelo axhomekeke:
1. Ukusuka kwi-vector yengqondo, eyenza umlinganiswa kunye nezinto ezinomdla, ukhetha.
2. Ukukhetha kuxhomekeka kwithagethi afunekayo iqabane lakho.
Mhlawumbi ngelo xesha ufuna umfanekiso omnandi ohamba kunye kumsitho, ogama njenge-hologram kufuneka ibonakalise okanye igxininise impumelelo kunye nenqanaba. Njengommiselo, le yimodeli emfutshane yeNgxelo yemodeli, i-hler-ihlelwe kakuhle, oko kuthetha ukuba kuthetha ukufezekisa isiphumo esifunekayo.
Okanye umntu uqwalasela umfazi ukuba enze usapho. Sele kukho ezinye izinto ozithandayo: Ayibonakali nje, kodwa nayo imele umfazi. Ayifanele ibonakalise nje uluntu lwangaphandle, kodwa kukwazi ukwenza imeko yangaphakathi endlwini. Apha rhoqo sidibana neminqweno ukuze umfazi abe neyona nto iyonwabisayo, ozonwabisa okanye ishishini. Kuyanqweneleka ukuba uyakhula, exhasa ngobuchule le ncoko. Apha ungayiva oku kulandelayo: "Andidingi unodoli, ndifuna ubomi obuphilayo, bokwenyani." Ngaphantsi komxholo "wokwenene" - umnqweno wokubona iimvakalelo eziphilayo, isixhobo somfazi, amandla nangamandla ayo kunye nobushushu.
3. Ukukhetha iqabane kuxhomekeka kweliphi inqanaba lokuphumelela yile ndoda
Ngamanqanaba athile okuphuhliswa kwendoda ephumeleleyo, imifanekiso yabasetyhini kunye nezinto ozithandayo zinokutshintsha.
Ukuba indoda igxile kwimisebenzi yayo ngokupheleleyo-le ihlala ikhula inqanaba lokuba yindoda. Ke ngoko, nomfanekiso ongumfazi, uya kukhetha ukunganyaniseki ukuba 'ungaphazamisi kwiinjongo ezinkulu, "kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha, ukuba kukho imfuneko," wayesondele. " Ukubamba ulingane lomfazi onjalo, ezinye izixhobo zenziwe - "njengembuyekezo". Umsebenzi ophambili womfazi okwangoku akukho-lungenelele, kodwa usondele kwinto ebizwayo, kumgama "wesandla sesandla". Umfanekiso ongumfazi owahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo usenokuba kufutshane, xa indoda sele idale into kwaye inokushukumisela ugxile kwinto ethile, njengenketho, kubudlelwane kunye nenqanaba lobuqu.
Ke, shwankathela oku kungentla: amanqanaba ahlukeneyo, iinjongo ezahlukeneyo ngabantu abahlukeneyo. Kunqabile kakhulu, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuhlangabezane nabafazi abanjalo kunye namadoda abo kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo okwenza impumelelo. Njengommiselo, ezi zinto ziguquguqukayo, isigulana, ezilumkileyo, ubuncwane, ziyakhuthaza umntu wabo kwiinqwelomoya eziphakamileyo. Ukwazi indlela yokuchitha ixesha labo kunye nenzuzo ngelixa belinde iqhawe labo
4. Ukukhetha kwabasetyhini kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lamandla omntu ngaphakathi kunye nenqanaba lenkululeko yangaphakathi.
Le yeyona mpumelelo iphambili yendoda ephumeleleyo xa inokwazi ukukhetha ngentliziyo yakhe, hayi ukunyaniseka, kuluntu. Apha le ndoda sele ivakalelwa kukuba inkululeko yakhe kunye nelungelo lokukhetha umfazi kuye, nokuba iya kuthini na yona indalo ngaye. Inamandla ngaphakathi kwaye inokuhlala ithethelela ukhetho lwakhe. Ikhululekile kwi-socium engaqhelekanga kwaye imamele kwihlabathi langaphakathi. Kwaye ngomfanekiso womfazi, ufuna "umhlobo womphefumlo."
Ke, xa ukunxibelelana namadoda aphumelelayo, kufuneka uqonde: ngubani ophambi kwakho, kweyiphi imeko, kwaye leliphi ilizwe lophuhliso le ndoda. Kwaye eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukukhumbula ukuba ubudlelwane obukhulu bobudlelwane obungapheliyo bokunyaniseka kunye nexabiso omnye komnye.