Siphikisana ukuba le yeyona nkcazo ixhaphakileyo kwabo babambe umlomo kwinqaba. Isizathu sesibini esibini, endisivayo kwinkqubo yokusebenza nabantu, siqala ngala mazwi: "Ngephanyazo akhutyekisiwe?"
Ilungisa, ikrelekrele nelinemfundo kakhulu efundileyo iwela kunxibelelwano lwe-trap. Ukuba ndingenzakalisa omnye, umzekelo, ukuba ndikhubeke, iya kuthetha ngam ukuba andingomntu mhle, onobubele nabafundileyo. Ewe, kwaye ukucaphuka kolwaphulo-mthetho kuqhelana nakweyiphi na: Umama nogogo ovuthuza iziponji ukuphendula okukhawulezileyo, kwaye rhoqo kumphefumlo othi ngumntwana. Iintsuku zikaTata, iiveki, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha andimhoyi umntwana wakho iinyanga, ukuba uyawalahlekisile amagama angalunganga.
Ewe, kwaye ulwimi oluhlanjiweyo lunokufumaneka kwiintsapho ezininzi kwi-esile okanye imilebe. Ngokubanzi, abantu baqhele ukuntywila, bayithathela ingqalelo isicwangciso sokukhusela kunxibelelwano lwemihla ngemihla. Wabona, emva koko wenze ngokuzolileyo ngendlela yakho.
Kodwa iphupha lamaphupha ethu namhlanje libonisa "i-Roll" yokuziphatha okunjalo.
"Ndikhangela isitshixo, kodwa andifumani, kodwa endaweni yoko ndifumana ipini enkulu yentaba." Bayandiphazamisa, ndisoyika ukuba bangeva emlonyeni kwaye bamangalisiwe. Ngenxa yoko, ndiyaqonda ukuba enye yepini inamathele i-SIP.
Xa wandixelela eli phupha, wathi ngosuku olungathethekiyo ukuba nencoko engathandekiyo emsebenzini, apho wabonakalisa khona isikhundla sakhe ngaphandle kwendlela ephantsi kwaye ethambisa indlela yokuthintela. Wayikhupha inyaniso, nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwendlela enzima, waziva isiqabu nenkululeko.
Kungekudala ibonisa inkqubo eguqukayo. Xa ethe cwaka into, iNyaniso yakhe yobuqhetseba iba "ziikhonkwane emlonyeni," okwazi ukupeyinta.
Ngaphandle kokuchaza imeko yakho kwabanye, kufuneka sikhokele incoko engapheliyo kunye nawe. Umsindo, ubushushu, ukungavisisani akunanyama, kodwa khula kwithug. Ukongeza, yityhefu kwaye inqunyulwe kumphathi wabo. Kwaye endaweni yokuba ulahle eyona ndlela icacileyo, amagqabantshintshi akhe okuphuphuka ayaqhubeka nokuzikhokela.
Ukufunda imiboniso yam, unokubuza: "Ke ngoku yonke into igalela umnxibelelanisi? Ngaba une-hum? "
Mhlawumbi lo mbuzo awunakunikwa impendulo efanelekileyo. Umntu osuka kusasa ukuya ngokuhlwa ukhona umbono owaziyo, ukubamba nje ngokwayo kwaye ujonge injongo kunye nefuthe lemiyalezo. Umntu - ekugqibeleni avule umlomo kwaye avakalise.
Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, asinoxanduva lokuphendula kwabanye. Unokukhubeka ukuba uncome, kanye nakwiintetho enzima. Kodwa sinoxanduva ngqo malunga nendlela esithetha ngayo, ngayo le fomu, ukondla kunye nenjongo, esithumela ngayo isicatshulwa sakho kumnxibelelanisi. Ukucaca, ukuqonda, kuyafikeleleka, ukuthembeka, ukunikela ingqalelo kuwe kunye nabanye, unokufunda ixesha elide. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ufunde. Ngapha koko, njengoko sibona kumzekelo wephupha, ukuthula kunqabile ukubamba.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba maphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: inforhit.ru. Indlela, amaphupha alula kakhulu ukubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhalwa khona ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uvule kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin