Ubomi bomntu ngamnye kukusasazwa kweziganeko. Inani elincinci kuphela elinokuphumelela indlela yomsebenzi ngaphandle kokuwa, ukuqokelela enye kwamanye amabhaso amatsha. Uninzi lwawo lube luxanduva ekufuneka batshintshe indawo yokusebenza. Kwiimeko, xa utshintsho lunyanzeliswa kwaye ukufumana umsebenzi omtsha akukhawulezi, nabani na uya kuphoxeka kubuchule bakhe aze awe emoyeni. Uya kukufundisa indlela yokuthatha umntu endimthandayo kwaye amenze akholelwe ngokwakho.
Ikofu-isiseko sayo yonke into
Xa usidibana nathi, sidibene ziimpahla: ayisiyiyo kuphela isuti kunye nezihlangu ezigqibeleleyo, kodwa ikwambonakalo, izimbo zomzimba. Umntu ongena kwi-ofisi ngoncumo olunobuhlobo kunye nemibuliso kunye noogxa bakho, udliwanondlebe lunethuba elingakumbi lokufumana iofisi exabisekileyo. Ngelixa umntu onxunguphele nge-gorn uphondo alunakwenzeka ukuba athande udliwanondlebe. Chaza kwindoda yakho ukuba kufuneka ufunde ukubahlulahlula njani amava obuqu emsebenzini: Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni kwaye konke oku kunokusinda njani kwaye uqhubeke.
Indoda kufuneka ithengise iinkonzo zayo ziyabiza
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Ubunzima bonke
Yinto enye xa ucetyelwe ukwala, umzekelo, xa ushiya ikhefu lokuya kubeleka, omnye xa uphulukana nalo lonke kwiimeko ezingalindelekanga. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uphinde uphinde ubonakale kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Ayinguye wonke umntu ojongiwe ngumlinganiswa womntu. Omnye uya kuhlasela izandla zakhe, kwaye omnye uya kusuka eluthuthwini kwaye aqala yonke into kwiphepha elicocekileyo. Chaza umntu wakho othandekayo ukuba inkathazo enye ingayenzi ilahleko kwaye usambulela kwaye umthande njengoko wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayekho xa wayesemachini. Ukuba uyabona ukuba umntu akakwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo ezimbi, ayithathele kwi-psychologist. Ngaphandle kwendlela yokukhathazeka, akunakwenzeka ukuba uye ekukhuleni komntu.
Isifundo sekamva
Akumangalisi ke ukuba abahlalutyo bezemali bathi umntu abe nogcino lwemali kwiakhawunti, ubungakanani bemivuzo emininzi kwiinyanga ezi-3. Ngumzamelo oya kuvuma ukuba angangxami phakathi kwemisebenzi yokuqala emarikeni, kodwa ahlala phantsi kwaye acinge ngendlela yokuqhubela phambili. Imakethi yabasebenzi ihlala itshintsha- ngelo xesha, ngelixa indoda yakho isebenza, ukuqhubeka kwakhe kuphelelwe lixesha. Ukuqasha ingcali eya kuphinda ubhale kwakhona i-ressa iphinda iphinde iphinde iphinde ibuyele kwiimfuno ezintsha kwaye iya kulungisa umntu udliwanondlebe. Kule meko, umngcipheko uyakhula kangangokuba kungekudala uza kufumana inkampani ezayo kwaye isikhundla esifanelekileyo, okanye isithuba siya kudalwa ngokukodwa ngenxa yoko.
Ugqirha wezengqondo uya kunceda ukuphuma ngokungakhathali
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Indima yexhoba
Ukuba ixesha elithile kamva iqabane alizange lifumane lo msebenzi, kodwa kwangaxeshanye likukunyanzela ukuba uzikhuphele ingxabano, uqokelele izinto kwaye uhambe. Ingxaki yalo mntu ayikho kwi-incubives yezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa ekubulalekeni kwengqondo. Akakulungeli ukuba ahambe naye ezandleni zakhe kwaye ukhetha ukudlala indima yendoda okhubekileyo lihlabathi endaweni yokujonga ngokwakhe. Umntu oqolileyo kwiisampulu kunye neempazamo ziya kusiqonda isizathu sokuba zingathatyathwanga emsebenzini, kwaye ziya kutshintsha amaqhinga.
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