Ngaba uyazi ukuba uzixabisa njani? Ukuba ubuncinci kwala mabinzana abhengezwa rhoqo ngumntu wakho, siyakucebisa ukuba ucinge ngawo:
"Ewe, ewe, basigqibe kwemvumelwano kwi-lam - ke, ngesidlo sangokuhlwa sanele"
Kumantombazana amancinci angakhange abe nexesha lokwazi incasa yemali kwaye wonwabe kunye nabo, amabinzana omlomo onjalo abonisa ulonwabo lokwenene. Kumfazi obhinqileyo wezemali owazi ixabiso lemali, ezo ngxelo zivelisa kuphela umbono ombi kuphela. Indoda, into yokuqala ebonisa ubutyebi, kwaye ingeyiyo iimpawu zakhe zobuqu, zinokutyhala kuphela okhethiweyo. Kwaye, ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uya kuzibonela iimpawu zokomoya zomntu aze alinde ade avule, ngelixa evula. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba le ntombazana isebenzisa isini esahlukileyo kukugqogqa ekuhambeni kwaso kwaye kuthatha usuku lwesiNgesi.
"Uyaphinda uya kwexesha elide!"
Yiya kwi-shambisa, yomisa iinwele zakho kwaye unxibe phezulu - eli nguwo wonke ulungiselelo lwendoda kwisiganeko esonakeleyo. Umfazi uhlala eqokelela kwaye abantwana, ngokulinganayo, bengalibali ukususa imirhumo yekhaya eseleyo kwingubo, bondle ikati kwaye bajonga ukuba ukukhanya kwaye amanzi acinyiwe ukuba ukukhanya kunye namanzi kucinyiwe kuyo yonke indawo. Yimfesane abaninzi abatshatileyo abangayazi indlela yokwabelana ngayo imisebenzi: Indoda ayifuni kuthatha izibophelelo ezongezelelweyo, nangona iqonda kakuhle ukuba intanda yakhe ifuna ukuba isebenze Ezintlanu ukuya kwezintandathu-ukusuka kwi-epility kwi-makeup yesicelo.
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"Kulungile, andikwazi ukupheka kwaye yintoni?"
Indoda engafundanga ukuzinyamekela ukuze uzinyamekele, zibangela isidanga. Kodwa ngokumangalisa ngakumbi, ngendlela inzondelelo yabafazi, efunyanwa ngayo namadoda azisekele, kuthatha ukupheka, kungabikho nokutsala iqabane lakhe. Kukholelwa ukuba le ndoda ifanele iwalungiselele amaqanda akhutshiweyo kwaye ipheke i-dumplings-kwaye ityholwa ngokwaneleyo. Sikwakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu unyanzelekile ukuba akwazi ukuphuculwa kwelona khosi lisezantsi lokupheka - ukuba abazali bafundiswe kobu buchule, ke kukho izifundo zokupheka, ke kukho izifundo kunye nezifundo zevidiyo, ukujongana nazo naziphi na iindlela.
"Wow, leyo yimpumlo yethu ..."
Iingcali zengqondo Qaphela ukuba kwasebuncinaneni bamntwana, amakhwenkwe abonakala enomdla koomatshini: bazama iithoyi, bafunda kuzo. Inzala efanayo ilula emva komzimba wakhe-le nkqubo yokukhula ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Omnye umbuzo kukuba amanye amadoda anenzondelelo efanayo aphande iziqulatho zempumlo zazo, ezaziwela iinwele njalo njalo, kwaye ziyenza esidlangalaleni. Ukuba uqaphela iqabane, le ndlela yokuziphatha, ihlebeza esweni, ayamkelwanga eluntwini.
"Haye, umpu! Injani? "
Amabinzana angenangqondo, uyavumelana? Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha leminyaka yobudala eminyaka engama-30 nengama-40 ubudala, amadoda abonakala ngathi wayexakeke kukucingisisa kwabo. Akukho mfuneko yobuqu obuqolileyo: Bayibona inyani yokwaluphala kwaye bathathe okona kulungileyo ukusuka kwiminyaka yabo. Enye, eyayingazange ihambelane nabo kwaye ingekaze i-Maks ngenkuthalo yengubo yolutsha, ukwenzakala kwi-botox nabanye, ngequbuliso ibuyela "i-lexicon yakhe". Apha, kuphela iluncinci i-slide ukusuka emlonyeni womntu okhulileyo kubangela umntu ukuba ahleke yedwa ukuba isetyenziswa kwimeko engalunganga yemeko kwaye yongezwa ngabom kwincoko.
Ngaba uyavumelana nombhali wezinto? Zeziphi iziqendu oya kongeza uluhlu? Bhala uluvo lwakho kumagqabantshintshi kwaye wabelane ngenqaku nabahlobo.