Ewe kunjalo, ukuba ukhuthaza abantwana abaliqela, akukho mfuneko yokubala ubomi ngaphandle kwengxabano, kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, izityholo zabantwana akufuneki ziphikiswe, kungenjalo abantwana baya kubandezeleka kwimeko abangafuni ukubuya. Siza kunika ezinye iingcebiso ezenzelwe ukunceda ukunqanda iingxabano ezinkulu kusapho.
Chaza ixesha lakho kubantwana bakho
Omnye waba ngumzali obaluleke kakhulu kukungabinambeli abantwana ngenkani, ekuhambeni nasekuthembeleni, kuba uhambo, ukutyeshela ngokupheleleyo iminqweno yabantwana. Hlula iyure ngemini kumntwana ngamnye: Buza ukuba ihambe njani imini, fumana indlela afuna ngayo ukusebenza ngayo. Ngenxa yoko, umntu ngamnye uya kuziva inkxaso yobuqu evela kubazali.
Sukuthemba abantwana
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Umntwana ngamnye kufuneka abe nendawo yayo yokusebenza / yomdlalo endlwini.
Isithuba somntu siyimfuneko kakhulu, ngakumbi xa umntwana ejika abe kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo oneemfihlelo kubazali, kunye nomzalwana / odadewethu. Kanye kwigumbi elincinci onokuxhobisa indawo yomsebenzi ngamnye, esabelana ngegumbi kumacandelo amancinci. Oonyana ngamnye kufuneka babe nebhedi yabo, itafile (okanye inxenye yalo), ishelufu kunye nezitya.
Ungaze uthelekise abantwana
Impazamo yesibini yomzali edumileyo yinto yokuthelekisa abantwana. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ucinge ukuba ukugxekwa kwakho kunye nokuthandwa ngaxeshanye okwesibini kuya kudibana nomntwana ophumeleleyo wokutshintsha, endaweni yoko, ngokuchasene noko, umntwana uyasebenza. Akufuneki kubekho imbambano phakathi kwabantwana, kufuneka ubafundise ukuba babe liqela, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukukwazi ukudibanisa ukuba abantwana bafunda nakubantwana abafunda nabo bobabini.
Fundisa abantwana babe liqela elinye
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Cinga ngomnqweno womntwana ngamnye.
Khumbula ukuba wonke umntwana wakho ngumntu onokubahlukileyo kumntwana wesibini. Ukuba iithoyi kubantwana zinokuqheleka, umntwana ngamnye kufuneka azi ukuba ezinye, ezona thoyili zithandayo, usenokungabi nakho. Ngale ndlela, umntwana uza kuba ngumntu onamandla okhohlakala, owe kwixesha elizayo uya kuba nakho ukhuseleko lwamalungelo neminqweno yayo.