Ungahlala njani kwindoda yakho ifunwa kwaye inye kuphela? Lo mbuzo awuphumi kunye neebhendi hayi ukupapashwa kodwa. Kwaye kufanelekile yonke imihla. Abafazi abaninzi bavunyelwe ukuba bazisuse zonke iipompo kunye namanqaba abo ukuze bathathe ingqalelo yakhe kwaye babe nguye. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imithetho emine engagungqiyo ukuba umfazi amele aqwalasele ukuba ecaleni komntu. Kwaye ayisiyo kuphela kubude bemilenze kunye nobuhle.
Eyona nto iphambili ngumphefumlo, ukuphumla akunandaba?
Ifashoni yale mihla inika amaqhinga amaninzi: yenza imilenze inde, isiketi simfutshane, i-eyelashes imnyama, imilebe ye-lungisa, njl njl.
Enye kakhulu ke manenekazi abatshatileyo ukuba akukho kuphinda kakhulu uzama ukunyamekela ngokwabo, ngenxa yokuba indoda ebone nto: kusasa, kunye nomonde, kwaye ukukhala. Uninzi lwabafazi abanjalo bakholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba eyona nto iphambili ngumphefumlo. Ukuba umyeni, uthanda umphefumlo, ukubonakala kwayo. Ngelishwa, inkolelo yendlela esizinzileyo, ayichanekanga. UAlan noBarbara Piz, abaphandi baseMelika kwicandelo lolwalamano, baqukumbela ukuba amadoda anemibuzo yabo kunye nezinye izinto azithandanga ngokungazi nto kuzo:
-inomtsalane ngokwesondo;
-Ukufumana ukuzalwa kwenzala esempilweni .
-Ukukwazi ukukhonza le ndoda : Ukupheka okumnandi, landela iimpahla zakhe, thuthuzelwa ekhaya, ucwangco, njalo njalo.
- I-Verny kwaye inikelwe kule ndoda.
Uluhlu olunomdla! Kwangelo xesha, omabini amadoda, kwaye kwabasetyhini kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngamanenekazi ahlaziyeka kakhulu ukuba angakhathali, kunokuba ngumqondiso wealam. Umzimba oyindoda uvelisa izihlandlo ezi-5 ngaphezulu kweehomoni zabasetyhini ezinoxanduva lokufumana ilizwe elinje nge-adean kunye nenkanuko. Kungenxa yoko le nto bethobekile, bethatha kwaye bakhetha iqabane labo. Uninzi lusabela ngeli xesha abasetyhini ekuqondeni kwabo benza ukuba babe nomtsalane: basika iinwele zabo, banxibe into enjalo. Ngenxa yoko, abafazi babonakala ngathi bayaqonda ukuba amadoda aphosakele ngokhetho olungelulo ukhetho lwesondo.
Ndancama
Ngoku malunga nabo bangayazi indlela yokwakha kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane kunye nolwalamano lwangaphandle kunye nokwabelana ngesondo. Oku akunakwenzeka ukuba uchaze kuphela imvelaphi yehomoni. Nangona, nokuba, nokuba ulandela ukhuko lwe-PIF Primes, emva koko iikhrayitheriya ze-CT 2 ze-CT zinxulunyaniswa nobuchule bebhinqa ukuba "babe liqabane" kwaye batyale imali kubudlelwane.
Kwiingqondo nenkcubeko yabantu bethu, umxholo "wotyalo mali" uhlala udidekile ngomxholo "wokuncama". Uninzi lwabantu basetyhini lulungele wonke umntu, ukuba kufutshane nendoda kwaye ubeke uphawu - "ndinobudlelwane."
Umzekelo woku: Ukumamela amabali angathandabulanga; Ukuzama ukugcina umhlobo kwi-hangover, endaweni yokuhamba ngemicimbi yabo; Ukuqulala "kuba ufuna"; Ukuhamba ngemali kwithuba lexesha elingenammiselo; Ukunika izipho ezixabisekileyo, kwanaxa bengafanelekanga.
Amadoda avakalelwe kukuba iqabane labo lihlaziya. Uziva enyamezele ixesha elide, kwaye emva kwexhoba kuye - unetyala. Ke ngoko, ihlala inda nokuba kubuhle obumangalisayo. Imvakalelo yokuziva unetyala kunye namatyala abulala nawuphi na umnqweno.
Ke ngoko, ibhalansi ibalulekile kumcimbi wokwakha ubudlelwane, okuthetha ukuba ngaphakathi kunye nenyani yokuba ngaphandle. Jonga iwadi yakho, hlaziya imbonakalo, hlaziya i-feled kwaye ikhutshiwe. Ke abantu abakungqongileyo baya kuba ngaphezulu kobuninzi. Ewe, ukukwazi ukutyala imali kubudlelwane yinto eya kufuneka ukuba ibambe ubomi bam bonke. Dare!
UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina