Kungenzeka ukuba elinye lamaxesha anzima ebomini bomzali ngamnye liminyaka elishumi elivisayo yomntwana wakhe. Umzali onqabileyo ukulungele ukwamkela into yokuba unyana okanye intombi yakhe ayisengomntwana, okuthetha ubudlelwane bufanele ukutshintsha ngokungathandabuzekiyo utshintsho. Ngokutsho kwezengqondo, ngeli xesha iingxabano phakathi kwezi zizukulwana zibini zenzeka. Sigqibe kwelokuba siye kuthatha ingqalelo iimpazamo eziphambili zabazali ukuze kunokuba lula ukuphepha iimeko zomntwana wakho.
Ufuna ubuntu obufundisileyo
Abazali kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba kuwo onke amabakala obomi bomntwana kwiminyaka elishumi yokuqala yobomi ngenxa yezizathu zokhuseleko kunye nophuhliso olufanelekileyo lwabantwana babo, kodwa xa besaqala ukufihlakala kwaye bafihle iinyani ezivela Ubomi obuvela kubazali, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ingxabano iqala ngeli xesha xa umzali eyeka ukwamkela isibakala sokuba ngoku kususela ngoku ukususela ngoku ukususela ngoku kwishumi elivisayo kuya kukhankanya ngasese, efuna ukuqonda ukuba ungubani. Sukuzama ukufuna ukungafihli ngokupheleleyo, akuyi kukhokelela kuyo nantoni na, ngaphandle kokuba nobundlongondlongo kumntwana kunye nokusilela ngokupheleleyo ukunxibelelana nawe.
sukunyanzelisa ukungafihli ngokupheleleyo
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Ukwaphula indawo yakho
Vumelani, ngamanye amaxesha kukho umnqweno obukhali wokujonga ifowuni yomntwana wakho okanye wenza uhlaziyo lwengxowa, kodwa kulungile, ukuba uhlala umnqweno wakho. Kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo akukho nto ingako mntu uyihlonisiweyo kunokuqiniseka kwakho. Njengoko besitshoyo, umntwana okwishumi elivisayo uzijonga, eyakha imida yokuqala, ukuhlasela kwakho kwenza umntwana "agcine".
Awubali imbono yomntwana okwishumi elivisayo
Vumela umntwana okwishumi elivisayo asele ayingomntu mdala, kodwa uluvo lwakhe lonwabe, kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukukhumbuza umntwana okwishumi elivisayo oyiqondayo ngcono. Umntwana uyayibona indlela ojonga ngayo indlela yokugculela njengokungahloniphi iingcinga kunye nemibono yakho, ngaphandle kokuthatha ingxelo yombono weshumi elivisayo kwimicimbi emininzi, uqhekekile omnye komnye.
Kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi, ulawulo lwabazali luyafuneka, emva koko uyehla
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Awunakho ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukufumana ntoni emntwaneni
Khumbula, kusenokwenzeka ukuba okungenani kube kanye obafunwayo emntwaneni ukuba afunde, ubuze umbuzo: "Uya kufumana nini ingqondo?" Kwishumi elivisayo, amabinzana anjalo anomlinganiswa ocacileyo: awubeki msebenzi othile. Ukuba unexhala malunga nokusilela komntwana, gxila kwiingxaki ezithile, njenge-algebra ezimbini, okanye uxoxe ngomntwana, kutheni ufumana izikhalazo rhoqo kootitshala, zibuze indlela abona ngayo indlela yokuphuma kule meko. Ekuphela kwendlela.