"I-parados, kodwa ngokuchasene nemvelaphi ye-Presing yoLuntu yeSikolo ezikolweni, ukuqatshelwa kwe-intanethi kudlwengulo kunye nezinye iimpumlo" ngefashoni kubonakala ngathi zibandakanyiwe ... msulwa. Kwaye kungekuphela nje kumantombazana, kodwa nakwamakhwenkwe. Kwaye imeko ayiyalelwanga ukuba ingakhuthaze isibonelelo soMzuzwana (ibhonasi eyongezelelweyo yomtshato ophumelelayo), kodwa isikhumbuza ukuba umoya owakhuliswa ngeentsuku zokuthintela ngokunyaniseka-usapho alunakuqalwa ngenkohliso, kwaye ke ngoko Qaphela imbeko.
Ilungelo lokufumana ukungabinakho
Lo mbandela wazisa iforum kwinethiwekhi, apho abantu abancinci baxoxa khona isihloko sobuntombi. Hayi erotica:
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ngo-1942 ugqirha waseJamani, eqhube uvuthumelo lwe-gynecological yamantombazana avela e-USSR ngokusebenza nzima eJamani, ofumene ukuba i-99% yabasetyhini abangatshatanga baseSoviet bayintombi enyulu? Kwaye emva koko, waxelwa nguHitrar ukuba aba baRussia baziphatha kakuhle ngokwenene! "
Umbhali uyabaxhasa abahlolisi: bathi, Ewe, ukumsulwa yintombazana eyikhusela imbeko, kwaye ngoosapho, kunye nendoda kunye namazwe. Kuyinyani, kolu vimba, abantu abaselula ababandakanyi oku, ukukholelwa ukuba le ndoda isafikile ngaphambi kokuba ithathe intombi yakhe kumfazi wayo. Kwaye kulandela kumadoda athi "ababhinqileyo ababhinqileyo" abazukisayo.
Ukanti kumadoda aselula, elinde ukuba msulwa kubafazi babo ezayo, kukho izizathu ezinjalo:
"Intombazana engenasini iyakwazi ukuthanda indoda yakhe yokuqala kwaye ingonaphakade kwaye ayiyi kuthelekisa ubungakanani kunye nezixhobo."
"Zonke iintlobo ze" dluli "ze" ezidlula "kwisiphelo se-psyches yamantombazana. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuhlala naye ubomi bam bonke, kufanele ukuba ibe yingqondo ngokwengqondo. Kwaye ayingobuchule kukuba iintombi ziba ngabafazi abathembekileyo - balungisa i-lifines yabo kwindoda yokuqala. "
Esonakeleyo, ndenza udliwanondlebe nengqondo yengqondo, kunye noomama, abanjengam, bakhule ngexesha apho kwakunzima ukuba "bakhupha amantombazana", nokuba awukayifumani enye yedwa. Ngomsulwa ngexesha lethu, uninzi lwamantombazana lwalungxamile ukuya kwinxalenye ukuze "njengaye wonke umntu" ukuba akhawuleze kwaye akwazi ukuxhasa iincoko kwinkonzo yoontanga.
"Ndijonge intombi yam kunye neentombi zakhe," umama wabafundi abaneminyaka eli-19 ubudala abafundi bakaKati wabelana, "kukho imvakalelo yokuba baxhonywa ebuntwaneni - akukho mntu udibana nabantu, kwaye kuphela izifundo zabo zinomdla. Nditsho nokuvuma, ngandlela thile kuvalwa ngokukodwa ukuba bathini ngako. Kubonakala ngathi wahlala phantsi, njengathi ebutsheni, kunye ne-vicy, kwaye iincoko zonke zimalunga neekhredithi kunye nezifundo ezithile ezikhethekileyo! Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo? Apha uhlobo lwam lwalo kukho inkwenkwe. Kodwa akayeki naphi na malunga neengokuhlwa, ehleli ekhaya, akaphumi kwikhompyuter. Kwaye intombi yentombazana yam 22 yankqonkqoza xa yaqala ukudibana nomntu. Wamshiya ngeentyatyambo, walenzakile. Kule ncwadi kaFebruwari, baya eYurophu, wamnika uhambo lwabantu abathanda abantwana. Kodwa wabeka imeko - amagumbi amabini ahlukeneyo. Ukubuya, ukudumisa, ukuba bekungekho nto phakathi kwabo. Unina kuye: "Kulungile, ngelize." Kwaye intombi ithi: "Yilonwabo- eli lilungelo lam!" Ndade ndakhwaza kancinane xa ndafumanisa ukuba andinguye-bonke babebuziwe ngoku, kwifashoni ethe tye ukuba yi-parka.
Ugqirha wezengqondo i-Julia Bryanskaya ye-Bryanskaya yesa kwisizukulwana esifanayo, xa umsulwa ngokusesikweni wamkelekile, kodwa ngokungathi kunjalo:
-Sisele sinemicimbi yemeko yento "ye-pai-amantombazana". Into efanayo sele ikwimbali yehlabathi, kwaye endle. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kokuziphatha 'kuhlala kwenzeka emva kwentsalela yenkululeko yesini - umzekelo, kwinkulungwane edluleyo, uthando lwasimahla lwama-20 latshintsha i-70s ye-70s kunye nokutshintsha endaweni yamashumi amathandathu aseburhulumenteni. Kukho olunye uluvo lokuba abantu abancinci bafumana ezi zikhokelo phambi kweemfazwe, kodwa andifuni ukucinga ngayo. Isimilo ngokwayo sihle. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba isizukulwana esikwiminyaka yobudala esemthunzi asinamdla kwimithambo-mali kangangokuba simiswe kakhulu ukuze simiswe iinoveli kunye neentsapho. Ewe, kunjalo, umzekelo wazo zonke iintlobo zezithixo kubalulekile. Kwaye iphindaphindwe. Kule mihla, amalahle amancinci amalahle amakhaka, akwifilimu "i-Lible yeLeguna" iphantse yaziwa emhlabeni, eneqhayiya ngekratshi. Ewe, kunjalo, oontanga bakhe kwiPlanethi yakhe yonke babefuna ukumxelisa. Ngapha koko, kwakamsinya nje emva koko, ukuthwala kutshata nomntu otshatileyo ongumntu osisityebi nehlonitshwe.
Ndikwazile ukufumana kwaye "aphilayo" iintombi ezinokuthi zinike impendulo ngenkuthazo yazo.
"Sizintombazana ezine, singabahlobo esikolweni," umfundi we-3RD ye-3. -Sigqibezela i-pact engayi kubandakanyeka kubuntombi ngaphambi komtshato. Kwaye lowo uya kwenza ukuba iqokelele wonke umntu kwindawo yokutyela ngeendleko zakhe kwaye uxela ukuba kutheni le nkqubo iphule.
- Ewe, Ngaba ukho umntu osele enxibe ivenkile yokutyela?
- Ewe, yedwa. Uhambe nomfo ukuba aphumle, nayo yonke into yaphuma apho. Kwaye emva nje koko, wamphosa ngenkcazo emfutshane - akazange agwebe. UGadoko wenzakalise. Kodwa sonke isifundo sonke.
-Ngaba le nto imbi kakhulu, ukuba le "ayikho nkqo," iyavela?
-Uyazi, ukuba abantu bathathe isigqibo esinzulu, ukuba batshata, kodwa kwangaxeshanye abatshintshanga, oko kuthetha ukuba banezizathu ezinzulu zokwabelana ngesondo! Ke, banezinto eziqhelekileyo, bayazihloniphana, babukele indlela enye kwaye endleleni. Kwaye xa yonke le nto, ezinye iinkcukacha ziya kuqhotyoshelwa.
I-Obomlev kwinto yokuba ekuqondeni isini sobutsha, kuyavela, "iinkcukacha", qhubela phambili kuvavanyo olukhulu kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Kwaye ke ndifumanise:
INna, iminyaka eli-18 ubudala, umqeqeshi wexesha elizayo : "Kule mihla, akukho nto ihlazo, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ayiqhelekanga, ukuba awuzithumeli iinxalenye zakho zenethiwekhi. Kwaye nayiphi na intombazana eqinileyo, ukuba ifuna ukuma ngaphandle kobunzima, iya kuza kanye - akukho nto ingaqhelekanga apha. "
Mama, iminyaka engama-20, eco : "Ngoku uya, njengoko sinenkampani yethu, babiza ngesondo. Akukho mntu akazukumangaliswa ziiseshoni zefoto yangaphandle, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zothando, njl njl. Ukusuka kwinto yokuba yonke into ifumaneka kwaye i-Deeseset, kwanabafana badiniwe. Kwaye ukuze ugxininise ubungqangi babo, amantombazana aqhelekileyo alandela "umgaqo wegolide." Ndiyazi iiyunivesithi ezininzi apho ifakwe khona. Yonyusa ixabiso layo emehlweni abo. Umzekelo, ndiza kuthanda umntu omnye kube kanye. Omnye umbuzo kukuba kuya kuba nzima ukundiyisa - yiyo loo nto.
Kwiimpendulo ezininzi, umsindo ohlekisayo wesimo sengqondo malunga "nommiselo wegolide" wabazali. Amanenekazi ayakhalaza ukuba oomama nootata, endaweni yokuba bazingca ngeengxaki, phantse ugqirha unobangela.
"Ndive nje," uSoya wandibhalela, "Soiya wayeneminyaka engama-21 ubudala," kwaye ndilapha kwiminyaka yakho ... Kwakhe ukuba umakhulu sele ekhwela into endiyifunayo ? Ngaphambili, ixhalabile ukuba iintombi zihamba namakhwenkwe. Ke ngoku abahambi.
NeSeryozha!
Kwaye apha kwaye "sketch" guys:
"Ndiphupha, kwaye ngenye imini ndiza kumzalisekisa! -Amamkelwe yintombi engaziwayo kwi-3rd ye-Dedavis. -Ndifuna ukuchitha ubusuku bam bokuqala ebomini kunye nomntu ongenamava angenamava njengam. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane obunzulu kunye nephepha elicocekileyo kuya kunyaniseka kwaye kuthelekiswa. "
Intombazana engaziwayo ineqela lenkxaso yamadoda:
UAnton, iminyaka engama-20 : "Andizange ndilala nomfazi. Andiyithengisi le nto, kodwa andinazintloni. Ndicinga ukuba ixesha lokuqala kufuneka likhunjulwe ngokuvakalayo, ukukodwa ukuqhubeka nobomi besini. Kwaye izibonelelo ezikhoyo endikwaziyo zanele ngam ngale ndlela. "
"Guys, ndicinga ukuba inani labafazi lizolo! -Uthetha intetho kwinethiwekhi yoluntu phantsi kweNick Patriot. - Ngoku umgangatho uza ngaphambili. Indoda yokwenene ifanele ibe nentombi ethembekileyo nenye enokuthenjwa. Hayi imfuyo, eya kukutshintsha wena xa ubotshelelwe kuye. Okanye iya kukutsala kuwe ebhedini yenye indoda okanye ihambe kuye nabantwana bakho ... ngenxa yoko, akusafuneki ukuba yindima yentombazana esisigxina, kungcono ungalayishe iingxaki ezongezelelweyo. Kwaye ukuba i-hulting ngokupheleleyo, isini esifana nesondo ngoncedo! "
Ngokutsho kwezengqondo, esi sisiluleko sokugqibela kunye nemfihlakalo yokugqibela yefashoni yobuntombi bulele nobuxoki:
-Umfowunelwa bobuqu kubantu abancinci bancitshiswa, "i-Intanethi iphinda ithathe indawo," i-psychologist alina kolovov ichaza isikhundla sayo. - Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, akukho mntu ucimeyo. Ukuba sibe sempilweni yobomi bomntu, intombazana ifanele ibe nembonakalo enjalo. Kwaye umfana kufuneka abe nemali kwaye isikhundla esoyisa ubuhle obugqibeleleyo. Kwaye ukuba abantu abaselula abatsha bezini bezini babesoyika ukuba bava ubunzima be-fiasco (ehenyukazi, uyakona kwaye ayeke), ulutsha lwanamhlanje luyoyika i-Fiasco. Kwaye abafana, kwaye amantombazana akamjonganga umntu, kwaye ofumene nantoni na, enamathemba. Kwaye akukho mpumelelo ibalulekileyo kwintlalontle, ubomi buqubuqu bube yingozi yokuzithemba, kodwa ngaba ngequbuliso baya kubiza abahlobo abangakumbi? Mhlawumbi kwi-periphery, oku akubonakali, kodwa kwiMetropolissismos ebizwa ngokuba "yimfashini kubuntombi" kunye nokubakho konxibelelwano lwethiyori ukuba kuze kunxibelelane nethiyori phantsi kwawo ego.
- Olu luphawu lwexesha elingazinzanga, - ugqirha wezengqondo yengqondo iDenis Turner. -Ngabani namhlanje, uluntu luphela ludla ngokukhulisa amandla abo okuziphatha, okwenzeka rhoqo kumaxesha embali afuna ukugxininiswa kwemikhosi yengqondo nezengqondo. Nangona ubuntombi ngokwabo buyifamini malunga neshumi leminyaka. I-gorge yokugqibela, eyeza ngeminyaka ye-zero, yayinohlaselo olucacileyo lwezorhwebo. Ifashoni yeyo le minyaka yayiphathelelene nezindululo zonyango zokubuyiselwa kobuntombi kunye nemfuno yamadoda akhuselweyo. Ke kaloku kukho ihenyukazi-intombi enyulu-oko kukuthi, ngokwasemzimbeni ayinamsulwa, kodwa ngamava amakhulu omhlaba, isini somlomo, njl.
-Namhlanje sibona ukuphindaphinda kwexabiso elibizwa ngokuba "lixabiso eliqinisekileyo", ngalo ngamanye amaxesha lwenzeka kwihlabathi liphela, - lazalisa utitshala weyunivesithi enkulu. - Kwaye amantombazana e-pie-mantombazana adumileyo kunye namakhwenkwe e-PAI ahlala ebuya kunye nexabiso likanaphakade. Ukuthelekisa abaphulaphuli boqeqesho balo daye kunye nalowo ubengumdala odlulileyo, utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha kwamantombazana - bade babaluleke kakhulu, ubuncinci ngembonakalo. Ngaphezulu kwezo zijikelezayo ezijikeleze abafana kunye nokudlala ngothando. Nokuba zinxibe iimpahla, abafundi baba lithobe kuneminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo, - akukho mini kunye nokulwa nemibala, njengabafundi baseYurophu.
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