Mhlawumbi, ngamnye kuthi ojamelana nobomi bakho nomntu ojonga ngokuziphatha, kodwa umfowunelwa akukho lula kakhulu ukwaphula. Rhoqo, abantu abanjalo bafuna inkxaso kunye nengqwalaselo ukusuka ekuzameni ukuwaquka abanye usebenzisa ukutshintsha kwemozulu. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uvumele abantu ukuba bakuphathe ngendlela abayifunayo.
Ke indlela yokujongana nale mthombo ungabonakaliyo wokuvela komntu onetyhefu? Sizamile ukufumanisa.
Nciphisa ixesha lonxibelelwano
Isisombululo esilula xa uziva uziva uxinzelelo ukusuka kwicala. Indoda enetyhefu ifuna ukukwenzakalisa, uninzi lwentlungu okanye intlungu yengqondo okanye ukugxeka, okanye konke konke kuyayimfuneko kwimizamo yakho, i-liyuo ichaza ubutshaba bakho. Cinga ukuba ufuna umntu onjalo kwindalo yakho?
Ngokufanelekileyo, akufuneki unike kuphela, kodwa nokufumana into kubudlelwane, njengommiselo, luhlobo olwahlukileyo lweemvakalelo ezingafanelekanga ukuba zingahambi kakuhle. Ukuba umntu obeka ubomi bakho akunakwenzeka ukuba angabandakanyi ngokupheleleyo ebomini, landela imigaqo esiyinike yona kamva.
Khusela imida yakho
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Mandiqonde ukuba yeyiphi na indlela yokuziphatha engamkelekanga kuwe
Owona mkhulu, ngakumbi uya kuvumelana kuzo zonke iimeko ezingathandekiyo zokuba i-onety yakho inetyhefu / umhlobo / iqabane lakho eliza "kungcwaba ubudlelwane. Rhoqo, kuhlala kuselula kuthi ukuba sivumelane nathi, nokuba awukhuleleni, uluvo lokuba kwixa elizayo luva ukungcungcutheka kunye nokugculela. " Ngelixa uqhubeka, abantu baya kuyisebenzisa yonke "ityhefu" ngakuwe. Sukwenza ngale ndlela. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba unyamezele ngokungonwabanga kubudlelwane.
Ukwazi ukuzimela
Rhoqo xa singenantlonelo, kodwa ngenxa yeemeko ezahlukeneyo ukuba avumelane, okanye siye sahlukana, sinokuyifihla ngasemva kwegama lethu phambi kwabanye kunye nokuchitha amahemuhemu. Ukuba ubambe umntu ubuncinci kwenye yezi zinto, yenza ngokugqibeleleyo-jongana nale ngxaki, ungayibeki kwi-samonek. Umntu onetyhefu uya kuqhubeka nokusebenzisa ukuthoba kwakho ngelixa uvumela.
Sukuthatha ukugxekwa (ngakumbi ngokungalunganga) kunye nokuthuka kufutshane nentliziyo
Ngamaxesha onke, ngamaxesha onke, ngamaxesha onke, kuba krwada okungamkelekanga kunye neentuthuko ozama ukufihla ukungahambelani kwam okanye iingxaki. Hayi enye indlela. Naxa kufikwa kubuhlobo bakho, hayi iziphumo zomsebenzi wakho, khumbula ukuba umntu akanamda okokuqala, kodwa kungengawe. Ngapha koko, akukho zibonelelo kumava: umntu okhangezileyo usesesandleni sakho, kodwa igqirha lakho linokubandezeleka. Khumbula nje ukuba naziphi na izithuko kufuneka "zicoce" entlokweni yakho kumthombo woburharha.
Zama ukubonisa uvelwano
Ewe, kunzima, kodwa zama nje. Asisoloko sazi ukuba yintoni unobangela wokuziphatha okunjalo. Uninzi lwabantu abanetyhefu emphefumlweni alonwabanga, rhoqo ngenxa yokulimala kwengqondo, umsebenzi wakho kukuqonda oku, kodwa kuvumelekile ukuba kungabi nakukrexeza ngokungekho sikweni kwaye imeko yakho.