Umdlali we-Irina Rozanova uxhomekeke kubo bonke: ubunzulu kunye nobuntu, imibala yegadi, isiqinisekiso "kwaye siqinisekisile ukuba siphinde sibone umfanekiso omtsha uValeria Toley" odissa ". Ungumntu onyisayo kwaye ungangasebenzi, uvaliwe kwaye uvulekile ngokupheleleyo, ugada indawo yakhe kwaye ungazisoli umphefumlo wakhe. Uyayixabisa italente, kodwa angabikho, ukuba akasekho, ubudlelwane bomntu bubalulekile kuye.
1. Kwinto yokuthandwa
Ngoku ndinazo ezo ziganeko ekufuneka ndilinde. Lindela ngokuchaseneyo kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ... linda ukuba uluvo lwakho luya kuvakala, linda ukuqonda ukuba uhlala njani kwaye, njengoko besithi eOdessa, thetha nomphefumlo.
Kubonakala kum ukuba nawuphi na umzi-mfundo unamaxesha xa bengafuni kwenza nantoni na: Qhubeka kwinqanaba, iqonga lokudubula. Kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuba andifuni ukudlwengula umzimba wakho. Akasoloko elungele ukupha.
Umabonwakude unika ubunzulu bemilinganiselo oyifunayo abadlali. Kodwa umlinganiso uyafuneka, ukuze ungaguli, ukuze usanomdla ebantwini, kwahlala kukho okungenani imfihlakalo. Andizange ndizele kakhulu ngale ndlela.
Andiyi-dabise eneentyatyambo kuye wonke umntu onjengoobani. Umntu uthanda iiroses, kunye nomntu - iikhamoni zasendle kunye neentsimbi. Kudala ndizolile ngenxa yokuba umntu akaqinisekanga kwaye acaphukise umntu.
2. Malunga nam
Kukho abantu - hayi ubomi bam. Andiyi kuthi na nangayiphi na indlela tsaza ilukhuni lolwaphulo-mthetho kwaye andikhumbuli nabo, kodwa abayi kuhamba ngokubhekele ecaleni kwam, andiyi kubavumela ukuba basondele kuwe. Angabo na oku okanye andizukundinika nantoni na.
Kum, eyona nto inomdla kakhulu yayingunxibelelwano nabantu abalula. Umzekelo, umqhubi oza emva kwam ekuseni ukuze uthathe imifanekiso, kum oyena mntu ubalulekileyo. Ngapha koko, le yintlanganiso yam yokuqala ngalo mhla, kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu kum, kwaye yeyiphi imeko endiya emsebenzini.
Mhlawumbi, umntu ndingumntu onzima, emntwini ovaliwe, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uvule yonke into. Mhlawumbi kukho kanye ngokwenene kukho uhlobo oluthile lokukhusela. Ukuziva mvakalelo nakweyiphi na imeko-umgangatho ofanelekileyo. Andinakuba ngumsindo obandayo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba sinokusithelekisa nabagqirha bexeshana, kuphela ababonisa imizimba yabantu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - kakhulu.
Uloyiko yeyona brake inkulu ebomini. Ngokukhawuleza nje xa uqala ukoyika, uza kudamba, uyekile wena nobomi bakho. Bendihlala ndishiya uloyiko lwam, olunzima kakhulu. Kodwa ubomi ngokubanzi busebenza.
3. Malunga nethiyetha kunye noMama
Umama (zoyaalova) Owokuqala wobukho beqonga leRyazan ifumene isihloko sobugcisa babakwaFolk, kwaye wayemfanele ngokwenene, iiholo ime kwaye abaphulaphuli bema kwaye abaphulaphuli bemi bakhala naye. Umama wayesoloko esithi: "Ithiyetha yitempile. Nawuphi na umbingeleli okanye asuse. " Kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kunjalo kum.
Kwiminyaka engamashumi asixhenxe anesithoba, uMama wayene-strooke kunye nokuhlaselwa kwentliziyo enkulu, akazange aye, ndiyikhuphe. Kwaye unothando lwayo lemidlalo yeqonga, ngenzondelelo yakhe kwishumi elinesibhozo kangangeminyaka emithandathu wadlala indlela yakhe yokugqibela. Utsho njani ukuphuma, andazi.
Andinanto yokudlala ngoku, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ndihlala ngaphandle kwethiyetha, uhlala nam. Ndazalelwa apho ndakhule. Ndingaphila njani ngaphandle kwelizwe? Olu lunxibelelwano noMama, olukhonza iholo yethiyetha, yayiyindoda ephambeneyo ngokupheleleyo ekuthandeni kwakhe. Ndiyabathanda aba bantu, kwaye obu bubomi bam, ikamva lam.
4. Malunga nothando
Ndicinga ukuba wonke umntu obhinqileyo ubuncinci ngaphakathi, kukho umnqweno wokuphepha ubomi. Mabayeke amadoda, abafazi abakhubekisi mna kunye nemvakalelo ngakumbi kunabo. Ngalo lonke ixesha ofuna ukubhabha kude kude.
Ukuba awuzifikeleli kwisiqingatha sakho, amava akho onke kubudlelwane uyehla uye e-zero. Ukuba uziva ngokwahlukileyo, emva koko iihafu azichukunyiswa. Ityala elinqabileyo, iikhowudi abantu bahlala kunye ekukhuleni nasekufeni ngosuku olunye. Njengomthetho, zihamba, zikhangela into. Kodwa, nokuba kunzima kangakanani, ukholo, unyamezelo luhle kakhulu, kodwa kwindawo efileyo kubuchule okanye kubudlelwane akunakwenzeka ukuhlala. Ngethamsanqa, okanye ngelishwa, ndihlala kakhulu.
Ukukwazi ukuthandwa, nokuba kudlula ngokudakumba, sisipho sikaThixo. Kodwa mna, umbono wobuhlobo bubiza kakhulu kunothando, kuba umtsalane obukhali omnye komnye, inkanuko yeminyaka ingahamba. Kodwa ubuhlobo kunye nokuqonda kotshintsho kuyithemba lobomi obungaphezulu.