Kwiintsapho apho abantwana abaliqela bekhula khona, omnye uya kuba yinkokeli. Bazali bomntwana omnye banzima kakhulu: Badinga ukubabonisa umzekelo wokuba basebenza nzima kunye nenyathelo elincomekayo. Iingcali zengqondo azinalo uluvo olungagungqiyo malunga nokuhlutha ukuba kufanelekile ukuba zifundise iimpawu zobunkokeli emntwaneni. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba amanyathelo athile abe negalelo ekubonakalisweni kweempawu zeNkokeli, abanye babambelele kwizikhundla, ngokungathi ubunkokeli bubekwe esibelekweni. Sibambelela kwisikhundla sokuqala kwaye sikholelwa ukuba kusemodeli yoluntu ukuba ubunkokeli buyaphuhliswa kwaye babonakaliswe. Ndigqibe kwelokuba ndijongane nesihloko kwaye ndifumane iindlela zokukhulisa inkokeli ekuqinisekiswe ukusebenza nabo nawuphi na abantwana.
Misa umntwana
Omnye uhleli kwibhokisi yesanti, phakathi kwabantwana kukho iinkokeli- aba ngabo bangahlulelwa ziinto zokudlala zabo ukuba baqala ukuphosa amatye kunye nesanti. Abazali be-nusterry bakucebisa ukuba bakhusele umntwana kuhlaselo lwabanye: abantwana abasayazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zabo kwaye bakhubekisa nabani na. Ukuba uneminyaka emi-5-7 ubudala emntwaneni wakho, akufanelekanga ukungena kwimpikiswano phakathi kwabantwana. Uyakwazi ukuxoxa nomntu owonileyo kwaye asombulule ukungqubana ngaphandle koncedo lwakho. Ukuqala ukuphuma kwimpikiswano ngokuxoxa ngale ngxaki, hayi ukusetyenziswa kweenqindi, ekwiminyaka endala kuya kuba lula ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabanye. Ngapha koko, iNkokeli yokwenene ngulowo unokumanyanisa isihlwele aze ambonise umzekelo wesigqibo sombandela, kwaye angabizi ukuba nobundlongondlongo.
Ngokusebenzisana nabanye abantwana, uhlobo lwe chadi yakho lubonakalisiwe.
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Zifundise ukuba zenze izigqibo ezizimeleyo.
Ngokwenene ukusuka kunyaka wokukhula, ungaziqhelanisa nobuchule, unika umntwana ukuba akhethe into yokudlala esitolo, emva koko ke iimpahla ze-kindergarten okanye ukufikelela kumsitho. Kwiminyaka yesikolo ungayinika imali yepokotho kwaye uthumele umntwana kwivenkile yeemveliso. Isigqibo semicimbi yasekhaya siya kumlungiselela sobomi obuzimeleyo kwaye siyifundise ngokusesikweni, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuzambeke xa ifunda eyunivesithi kwaye emsebenzini.
Bakhuphe ukuba baqale ishishini lakho
Xa urekhoda umntwana kwicandelo lezemidlalo, izifundo zokufunda ulwimi lwasemzini, hamba kunye nokukhwela ibhayisekile, yonke loo nto iba kukubhaka ukuze ufumane umntwana ophumeleleyo. Sele kufikisa, umntwana unokuqalisa ukwenza imali kwisiseko sezakhono zakhe ukwenza imali: ube ngumhlohli kwizifundo zemfundo ngokubanzi, bhala imifanekiso kwiimagazini, bhala izixhobo, uninzi lwezinto ezininzi Iiklasi. Umthetho waseRussia uvumela abantwana ukuba bakhuphe i-IP kubazali okanye ukubamba inkqubo yokukhupha ukuze ube ngusomashishini umntu ngamnye.
Sukuzisola imali ekukhuleni komntwana kwimimandla enomdla
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Fundisa indlela yokudlulisela ishishini
Owona msebenzi ophambili wenkokeli kukumisela umsebenzi weqela. Bhala emntwaneni kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela kwaye uhambe namanyathelo asixhenxe eemayile, umntu uya kusilela ukujamelana nazo zonke iingxaki. Kuya kufuneka asebenzise uncedo lwabanye kwimicimbi yasekhaya nakwabasebenzi. Kwaye kulungile ukuba ebuntwaneni ifunda ukucela uncedo lwabantu, okanye ukuqesha: Uku-odola ukutya okulungiselelwe, kuthatha ixesha lokufunda, thatha iteksi, ukuze ungafikeleleki kwintlanganiso kunye ne . Ewe, kuya kufuneka ubalaselisa ezongezelelweyo ngayo. Kodwa ukuqhelana nenqanaba elifanelekileyo lobomi, uya kuba nesinyanzelo sokugcina impilo-ntle yakhe kwixesha elizayo, kwaye ayoneliswa mncinci.
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