Ayinguye wonke umntu ovela kuthi ukuba asondele kwaye aqhelene nomntu omthandayo, ngakumbi ukuba ukwimigaqo umntu ongenamntu ongaphumiyo. Kwilizwe langoku, uthungelwano lwentlalo kunye neendawo zokuthandana ziya kuhlangula. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwamaqabane anokubakho enyanisweni akanamdla njengoko babebonakala ngathi ziiyure ezimbalwa kwimbalelwano. Ngokwemvelo, siphoxekile kwangoko kwaye ukuqhubeka kwabamaziyo akunakuhamba kunye neentetho. Sigqibe kwelokuba siqwalasele ukuba kutheni iinoveli ezikwi-intanethi nje.
Uthe cwaka malunga
Phambi kokuba uqinisekise intlanganiso, qiniseka ukuba iinjongo zakho ngeqabane elinokubakho: Mhlawumbi ufuna intlanganiso ngobusuku obuninzi, kwaye sele uyile inoveli enokwenzeka. Ukongeza, akulunganga ukucacisa izinto ezinokwenzeka zeqabane lakhe kunye nezakho-inguye umntu othanda ukuba ngumfazi okutshaya, kwaye uya kuncokola nabathandi bokusela. Xoxa ngayo yonke imizuzu efihlakeleyo kwangaphambili.
Awunayo inkangeleko ebalulekileyo
Elinye inqaku le-psyche yethu-sihlala sizama ukuthethelela umntu omthandayo. Ukufundisisa iprofayili yamadoda, izinto ezinje, "ndihlala nabazali" okanye "umnini-msebenzi" umfazi "wayehlala egcina eflethini, kwaye" umrhwebi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi / umphathi " Inqaku lithi uneshishini elikhulu. Ngokungathi singafuni ukumela umntu ongcono kunawo, ngalo lonke ixesha vula ucinga, kungenjalo uphoxeka akunakuphepheka.
Akaxeleli ngaye.
Umntu ofuna ubudlelwane ixesha elide kunezintlanganiso ezimbalwa uya kuba nomdla ebomini bakho, kwaye awuyi kuthi cwaka ngobomi bakhe kunye nezicwangciso zakhe. Ukuba sele udibene namaxesha amaninzi, kodwa usazi igama lakhe kuphela kunye nenani lemoto ekuthatha kuyo kwaye ithathe, kukho isizathu sokucinga ukuba kutheni indoda ingangxami phambi kwakho.
Uyakothusa
Njengoko besitshilo, kwiwebhu sizama ukubonakala ngcono kunathi, nangona kunjalo ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bufumana ithuba lokuphuhlisa, inkohliso yakho iya kuvulwa: nangona iqinisekile ukuba umntu ungene Okuchaseneyo, kwaye akazukunyamezela ubukho beezalamane zakho, ukuba ngequbuliso uthatha isigqibo sokuhlala kunye. Yibani ngabanye, kuba ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo buyekwa ekunyanisekeni nasekunyanisekeni - indlela yokungabikho ndawo.