Izizathu zokuba umntwana anganaxesha esikolweni inokuba lukhulu. Kubalulekile ukubaqonda kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okwenza umntwana owuthandayo ukuba afunde ngcono.
Nye. Inqanaba elinganeleyo lolwazi olusisiseko. Umntwana wayesoloko ebaleka emva kwezinye izifundo, kwaye okhulileyo abe yiyo, ezo ngxaki zininzi ziphakame. Kulula ukusombulula lo mbuzo: Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ingqeqesho yakho ayinikezelwa kwinzala yakho, ungayikhupha imeko yakho, uyayivumela ukuba umntwana wakho ayisiyo "amazwi" okanye uqeshile Umfundisi-ntsapho, oya kunceda ukubamba imisila kunye nekamva ukufumana amanqaku aqhelekileyo ngaphezulu kwe-oge okanye i-Ege, ukuba le nto ibalulekile ekwenzeni kwiDyunivesithi ekhethwe ngumntwana wakho.
2. Umntwana uyafuna ukufundisisa. Omdala umntwana abe, ukuqonda ngcono ukuba izinto ezininzi aziyi kuba luncedo kuye kobu bomi. Kwaye ibuzwe ngokufanelekileyo imibuzo, bathi, kutheni yonke? INDLELA AKWENZA NJANI UKUPHILA EBOMI LOBOMI LOKWENZA ISIKOLO, kuba ulumkile! Kule meko, ungagxila kwiprofayili yakho ekhethiweyo kwaye, ukuyibeka ngobumnene, ukuba 'ufumane "amanqaku" kwisibakala sokuba akanamdla.
3. Umntwana unesithukuthezi. Ewe kunjalo, ukubukela umanyano lweTV kwaye ukuhlala kwigajethi kunolwazi ngakumbi kwaye lunomdla kuneeseshoni zesikolo. Zama ukukhetha amagama akhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afumane ulwazi. Ewe kunjalo, kunomdla kakhulu ukuchitha ixesha kwi-Intanethi, kodwa, ngelishwa, abantu abadala kufuneka basebenze ukuhlawula i-Intanethi kunye nezinye izinto zokuzonwabisa. Kwaye ngalo mbandela, imfundo idlalwa indima ebalulekileyo. Ukuba umntwana akanalo ixesha, uchitha ixesha elininzi kwilaptop, kusemva kokuba ulale, kuya kufuneka unciphise ukusetyenziswa kwegajethi, ukubeka inkqubo ekhethekileyo elandelela iisayithi kwaye, kunjalo, ziseta i Imowudi. Ekugqibeleni, abazali apha, kuthetha ukuba ukufaka imigaqo yendawo yokuhlala.
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Uthando lokuqala lunokuba sisizathu sokungaphumeleli ngesiquphe. Akukho mntu uyinyibilikayo nxamnye nokusilela kuthando, ngakumbi ebuntwaneni. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukubhekisa kwinkanuko yokuqala yomntwana wakho ngentlonipho nangokuqonda. Kwaye ukuba umntwana uvulile, qiniseka ukuba uyalixhasa iLizwi lakhe kunye nomsebenzi wakhe.
Ukwehla okubukhali kwintsebenzo yemfundo kunokunxulunyaniswa ne-pullertat. Ixesha lokutshintsha kweshumi elivisayo, kwaye azisoloko zinophawu lwe "plus". Abantwana bafumana iqela lemigqaliselo malunga nembonakalo yawo kweli xesha: umntu wayeneempundu, umntu othile une-chest ehlotyeni, kwaye umntu wahlala ene-zero. Ungavumeli ukuba ezi ntsuku zikwishumi elivisayo kwi-Sammaek: Ayisiyo kuphela abantwana, xoxa, gweba, ngokunjalo babukele umabonwakude, apho uninzi lwamahle lude khona. Thetha nesihloko sembonakalo, qhubeka nomntwana, uncede kwaye usibethelelene nentembeko kwimikhosi yakhe. Khumbula ukuba isifundo esikolweni, ukulungiselela iimvavanyo zonyaka, ukunikezela nge-oge kunye ne-ege - imeko yoxinzelelo kuye nawuphi na umntwana. Ke ngoko, ngokuqinisekileyo ayikufanelanga kukwandisa ngamava awo malunga nekamva lomfundi. Akukho sidingo sokutyhala le meko - ukuthetha ngomsebenzi kaJenati kwaye woyikisa ukuba, ukuba akasayi kuza naphi na, kuya kufuneka babeke ubomi babo. Andina! Usacinga ngento ethile. Kwimeko yoxinzelelo, umntu okwishumi elivisayo akafanele ukubandakanyeka kuphela kwaye alungiselele, kodwa nokufumana uhlobo oluthile lokukhupha: oko kukuthi, ukuphumla, ukudlala imidlalo, ukukhangela.
Umntwana wafudukela kwisikolo esitsha. Kusoyika ngokwenene- phantse ubomi obutsha buqala, kwaye, kunjalo, umntwana ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukufihla kuyo yonke into. Ewe, into yokuqala inokwenzakala. Kwenziwe ntoni? Xhasa umntwana wakho ngegama nakwimeko. Khumbula ukuba nawuphina umntu, ngakumbi umntwana, ufuna ixesha lokuqhela kwindawo entsha kwaye usebenzise amaphiko akho. Umsebenzi wakho ulula- ukubonelela ngamathuba amanye amathuba ezifundo eziphumeleleyo: Ukulungiselela indawo ye-micro, thatha i-microclueme, thatha i-microclued endlini, unganikezeli kuphela kwintsebenzo, kodwa kwakhona kwi-DETE kunye naye ukhetho lomsebenzi. Ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana "weziqhwala" ezinye izinto eziza kufuneka zifuneke, kuthetha malunga neeklasi ezongezelelweyo kunye nomfundi. Olu luncedo olugqibeleleyo ngakumbi kunokusenza ingqondo kunye nenkcazo, kutheni kufuneka ufunde.
Eyona nto iphambili, Musa ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba afunde, kuba ubundlobongela yindlela embi yokuba nomdla umntwana onento . Indalo yomntu icwangciswe kangangokuba yonke into ebekiweyo ayithathiwe kakuhle kwaye ilahliwe ngumzimba. Imvakalelo yento engathandekiyo. Kungcono ninike umntwana okokuqala ukuba esikolweni uqonda entsha kwaye inomdla, mveni xa efuna into yokwabelana nawe, i-vism ilahlekileyo , Musa ukuwenza umsebenzi wam wasekhaya, funda ukuba unoxanduva ngezenzo zakho kwaye ufunde, ungayithelekise nabanye abantwana, yikhusele xa kukho amabango ovela kuwo. Umntwana ufuna ukuqonda kwakho, ukuthanda nenkxaso, hayi iziza zakho zemihla ngemihla. Ke akuyi kuba yimfuneko ukwenza ukuba kufundwe. Kwaye ufumane umdlalo ozonwabisa naye: Isifundo sokufunda, kwaye sikhetha indlela yobomi ngenxa yoko sikuthandayo.