Kukho icebiso eliqela elisebenzayo eliza kunceda ukubamba amadangatye angquzulwano kuphela.
1. Zama ukubuza: "Ndingenza ntoni ukuphucula imeko?" Ke, ubonise iqabane ukuba bakulungele ukwabelana ngoxanduva lwemeko yangoku, abazukuhlasela, kodwa ngokuchasene, kujolise ekusombululeni ingxaki eyakhayo.
2. Le khosi ilandelayo isenokusebenza kakuhle: "Ndikulungele ukumamela ngononophelo, kodwa masiqale siphazamise imizuzu embalwa kwaye sibone into ehlekisayo (i-roller ehlekisayo, i-rollpt evela kumhlekisi njalo njalo.) Oku kuya kunceda ukubuyisela imbambano kunye nokuqalisa ukuxoxa ngombuzo obuhlungu kweyona meko ilungileyo.
3. Ukuba nobabini ninomonde ngokwaneleyo, ungayidlulisela ngokubanzi le ngxoxo ngosuku olulandelayo xa inkanuko inomtsalane ngokupheleleyo.
4. Kubalulekile ukuba ubuze: "Ndincede ndiqonde ukuba kutheni ucinga njalo kwaye zithini izigqibo zakho?" Yiyo loo nto, ubonakalisa umdla wakho kwisikhundla seqabane, ungakhange unxibelelane neemvakalelo zayo, kwaye, nangokobukumkani, noxolo lwethu.
5. Ungayikhupha le meko ngokuthi: "Umhle (umhle), nokuba unomsindo (uziva)" okanye "ndikuthandile." Oku, kunjalo, akuyi kuyicombulula ingxaki, kodwa kuya kunciphisa kancinci uxinzelelo, kukwenza uzive ngathi uvelwano omnye komnye, kwaye mhlawumbi uncume. Kwaye enkosi koku kuya kuba lula ukufumana isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
6. Kunokuba luncedo ekukhumbuleni amava anamava: "Ucinga ukuba yintoni, ngoku okanye ilunge ngakumbi kunonyaka ophelileyo, xa sasineholide / ndifumene inyikima?" Inkumbulo yolonwabo ngokudibeneyo luya kukunika ukuzithemba, uya kukhumbuza ukuba uyakwazi kakhulu.
7. Yonke ingqinisi ilula. Zama ukuthi: "Masiyeke ukufunga ngoku." Eli binzana ubonisa iqabane ukuba ubudlelwane buxabiseke ngakumbi kuwe.
8. Ewe, ekugqibeleni, unganikezela ngekomityi yekofu okanye iti kwaye uxoxe, ngokwenzekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha sisabela kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo, kuba badiniwe nje okanye balambile. I-SEV, ukuphumla kwaye ekufumaneni intlawulo yamandla amancinci, sinokuzola kwaye size sixoxa ngokutsha ngengxaki.
Eyona nto iphambili kukukhumbula ukuba ufuna isisombululo kwingxaki, kwaye ungafuni ukuqhekeza ubudlelwane;)