Mhlawumbi, ngamnye kuthi unabahlobo okanye izalamane ezinomntwana omnye endlwini. Kukholelwa ukuba notyelelo ngalunye, ngaphandle kwesizathu, umntwana kufuneka eze nesipho esincinci. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abangenamntwana, lo mzuzu ubeka esiphelweni esifileyo- kwaye yintoni enokumkholisa umntwana? Ukuba uzijonga kwinani loku kuba nzima ukuphendula lo mbuzo, sikulungele ukukunceda.
Isimanga emnandi
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo. Endleleni ebuyela kubahlobo, baya kugubungela ivenkile ekufuphi, apho kukho ukukhetha iilekese, umntwana, njengomthetho, kuya kubakho iqanda elaneleyo letshokholethi kunye ne-biscuit yefom enomdla. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba uthatha nebhegi enemibala enesiqingatha, biza abazali bomntwana ukuba bacacisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba baphambukele umntwana into eninzi.
impahla
Inketho ukuba uza kutyelela i-caserbun: ECapes, iiDidiyo, izilayidi nayo yonke into kulo moya iya kuba sisimo esibububele kumntwana kaMama. Ifanele ikukhumbule ukuba abantwana abancinci bakhule ngokukhawuleza, ukuze bathenge iimpahla zangaphambi kwexesha. Kungcono ukuba ubuze abazali, nto leyo eya kuthi ngokukhethekileyo, kwaye ungathathi iingubo. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwephulo, hamba ngeevenkile ezikhethekileyo kwaye ujonge oko bavumelana nabazali.
Iincwadi
Kubafana badala, ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-2, ungayikhathalela incwadi enomdla. Kuyo nayiphi na ivenkile yencwadi, unokufumana iNncwadi yokuNiba yonke. Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-5 ubudala abanomdla kwisicatshulwa, ke bazame ukukhetha iincwadi ezingenambhalo kangangemibala ephezulu kwimifanekiso. Inzuzo eyongezelelweyo iya kuba kukhetho oluchanekileyo kule ncwadi - ezi ncwadi unokujonga iivenkile zempahla zabantwana.
Iithoyi
Isipho sesibini emva kweelekese ngokuthandwa yitoni. Sele kunzima ngakumbi ukwenza ukhetho apha, njengoko kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo iminyaka echanekileyo yomntwana. Masibone ukuba zeziphi iithoyi ziya kwanelisa abazali, kwaye, kunjalo, abantwana kuxhomekeke kubudala.
Ukusuka kwi-0 ukuya kwiminyaka
Ukukhetha isipho sokufumana intshayelelo kunika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwiithoyi zomculo. Umntwana omncinci ngokupheleleyo awudingi zethoyi ezintsonkothileyo, umntwana ongcono kakhulu uyabona izinto ezenza izandi ezithandekayo kwaye zijongeke ngokuqaqambileyo. Ungajonga iseti yeethoyi zegumbi lokuhlambela, eya kuba ngumhlanguli obalaseleyo wokuba umama omncinci ukuba inkqubo yokuqubha ijika ibe yindawo ebusuku.
Ukusukela kunyaka ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu
Kweli xesha, umxholo weento zokudlala zomculo uqhubeka, kodwa ngeli xesha unokunika into enzima kune-rattle edlala umculo ongumculo. Ungayiyeka ukhetho kwizixhobo zeToy Hous, izilwanyana kunye nezinye izinto zokudlala, apho unokukhupha khona izandi. Ewe kunjalo, abazali banokucaphuka, kuba ngoku ezi zandi zivela kwi-toy Dum, ziya kubaphelisa imini yonke. Lo mzuzu ungcono ukuxoxa kwangaphambili nabantu abadala.
Ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kwiminyaka emithandathu
Kweli xesha, umntwana uzithabathela ngokuzimela, abantwana baqala ukwahlula iithoyi "zokuba amantombazana" kunye "namakhwenkwe", kule nto kwaye kufanelekile ukuba kufundwe. Isipho esikhulu siya kuba yi-Doll yefashoni enoDasha ukusuka ekungeneni okufuphi okanye kaloliwe, apho izizukulwana ezininzi zingaphulukani nokubaluleka kwayo. Njengokhetho-Nika into yokudlala yokufunda: Umntwana okwifom yomdlalo uya kulungiselela ngokuthe ngcembe isikolo.
Kwabantwana abadala, kungcono ukufumana into ehambelana nezinto abazithandayo, ngaphandle kokubonisana nabazali. Chaza nje umntwana kwangethuba ukuba angathanda ukufumana-ngoko awuyi kuchitha imali ngelize, kodwa ungamcaphuki umntwana.