Yonke into kudala igqithile, kodwa usacinga ngaye. Izimbozo ezindala aziyiphumi- uya kukubetha. Ukudlula "kweendawo" zakho ", zonakalise iinyembezi, kunye neenkumbulo zeentsuku ezichithwe kunye, esiswini, umtya obhabhathi." Mhlawumbi kudala utshatile, wonwabile kwezinye iiphiko, kodwa ezi nkumbulo ... uza kuthini ukuba yonke into ingahluka?
Ukuba awusafuneki ukuphila okokugqibela, ukonakalisa ubomi bakho kunye nobudlelwane kunye neenkumbulo ezingento kwaye ekugqibeleni bakulungele ukuxolela, masize siyifumane into ephambili: Ngaba le nto inamathele kuvela phi? Kwaye, ukufumana iingcambu zakhe, siya kuphatha unobangela, hayi umphumo.
Kufanelekile ukuba lo mfazi uyakuvuyela ukuba le nto indoda ecaleni kwakhe, kodwa into eya naye. Sibotshelelwe kwimvakalelo yabo ifumene nendoda.
Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, oko kufuneka kwenziwe kukuqonda ukuba loluphi uhlobo lobutyebi obutyhilile umntu kuwe. Khumbula ubudlelwane bakho, ezi ntlanganiso zifudumeleyo kunye neyona micimbi ibalulekileyo ngokweemvakalelo. Uziva ntoni ngelo xesha? Ubulela ntoni kuye?
Ndiza kumnika umzekelo. U-Angelina weza kum ukuba athethethelelene, mhle kakhulu, omangalisayo, onomdla, ophumelelayo, ophumeleleyo. Kutshanje washiya le ndoda, eqonda ukuba wayengafuni ukuba naliphi na ikamva elidibeneyo naye. Kuyo 35, owayeyintanda yakhe yayiyenye umntwana ongenakukwazi ukwenza izigqibo aze abize uxanduva lwabo. Ewe kunjalo, i-Angelina yayingafuni ukuzidibanisa nendoda enjalo, kodwa yaqhubeka nokumkhumbula ngalo lonke ixesha, ixhamla iprofayili yakhe kwinethiwekhi yoluntu yonke imihla.
Emva koko ndambuza imibuzo efanayo: "Uyeni kolu lwalamano?", "Wazazi ntoni ngesiqu sakho?"
Kwaye wathi: "Bonke abazali basebuntwaneni bahlakulwa isibindi, ukuzimisela, iimpawu eziphilayo kum. Zange ndindidumise ngento endinokuyithanda ngayo kwaye ndiyakhathalela. Kwaye ndinokuzichaza ngaye ezi mpawu nge-100%. Ndiye kwinqanaba elithile ndaba ngumama - uthando, lothando lwekhosi, olulungele ukukhwela nokuzisola. Kwaye ndiyathanda ukuba yimvakalelo yokubhloka, yobufazi kunye nenginginya. "
Sichaza inyathelo elilandelayo, ngendlela ethile ebomini bakho, ngaba ungasisebenzisa esi sibonelelo? U-Angelina gqiba kwelokuba akwazi ukubanakho zonke ezi mpawu kwaye ngaphandle kwendoda eyayingamfaneleki. Isenokuba nokuqonda ngakumbi kwaye ukukhathalela abasebenzi, abazali kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, naye.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva, uAngelina ubhalele ukuba wayeka ngokupheleleyo ekhumbula lowo wangaphambili, uziva ephefumlelweyo kwaye ethandabuza, kwaye kubonakala ngathi akazange abe nengxaki ngesi sihlandlo.
Ke, masibe senze i-algorithm:
- Khumbula owona maxesha abalulekileyo kulwalamano lwakho kwaye uziphendule kulo mbuzo: Wazi ntoni ngawe malunga nendoda oya kuba nayo nale ndoda? Mhlawumbi uziva ubumnene ngokwesondo okanye ilungelo lokwamkelwa, okanye ngokwakho kunye netalente yakho ...
-Cinga, yintoni enye enokubangela ukuba abantu basebenze ebomini?
- ngokwayo!
Zonke ezona thixo zibalulekileyo kunye nezixhobo zikuwe kuphela. Emva kokuba efunde ukubaqonda ngaphandle kokubophelela komnye umntu, uya kwanela, kwaye ke uya kufumana ithuba lothando lokwenyani-hayi idini lokwenyani kwaye lixhomekeke kwaye liqinile zombini.