Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukusebenza kulwakhiwo ubudlelwane obuhambelana noko. Nangona kunjalo, nakule meko, iingxaki kunye neengxaki zinokwenzeka, ezithi ukuya kwindawo ethile ziyinto eqhelekileyo: kwakamsinya nje ukuba unxibelelwano lube yinto efanayo yobukhoboka, kufanelekile ukuba uhlale ixesha elingakanani kule ndlela . Siza kunika imiqondiso emine yokuba ubudlelwane buchaziwe.
Uqala ukuphulukana nenkululeko
Ewe kunjalo, ngaphandle kokubetheleka akunakwenzeka ukuba ubambe isibini ixesha elide, kodwa isigqibo senziweyo kufuneka senze ilungiselelo nobabini. Ukuba ukwimeko ekhula ngokukodwa iqabane, ngelixa kwaphula umthetho onomdla okanye ukophula imigaqo yakho, okanye iyaphikisana nemigaqo yakho, oku akusasebenzi, kodwa ukuzithoba kwinxalenye yakho. Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba uxhulumaniso luqala ukohlukana ngaphakathi, uyeka ukuyoliswa yilemanyano, mhlawumbi awuthambisi kwaye umsantsa kule meko iya kuba sesona sisombululo silungileyo.
Rhoqo ukubonisana ngengqondo kuzisa uxolo kulwalamano
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Uyayeka ukufumana uyolo ngelixa ubudlelwane
Ukongeza kumsebenzi osisigxina kunye nophuhliso lobudlelwane, umanyano lothando lubonisa umdla kwizilangazelelo zakhe zelesibini, uyolo lwento oyikufutshane. Iingxabano kunye neengqumbo ziya kuhamba kunye nolwalamano, kodwa azifanele ziphelele "ukungonakalisi". I-voltage eqhubekayo kwinkampani yeqabane luphawu olufanelekileyo lomsantsa osondeleyo.
Kunzima ukuhlala kufutshane
Kubahlobo nezalamane, isibini esigqibeleleyo, kodwa ekhaya uzama ukusasazeka kumagumbi ahlukeneyo, kuba ushiye yedwa. Ngexesha lolwalamano lwakho, iimeko ezininzi ezingathandekiyo zinokwenzeka, nto leyo eyabangela ukudideka kwaye ingathandi omnye komnye. Cinga ukuba awukwazi ukuyitshintsha le meko, mhlawumbi uqhubeke nobudlelwane obungasenangqondo?
Ubudlelwane bufanele bube
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Awunawo amandla okuqhubeka kobu budlelwane.
Izibini ezininzi aziphelelwa lithemba, kwaye ukuba ingxaki yolwalamano olonakalisayo alunakusonjululwa ngokwazo, yiya kwabo banobugcisa obunceda ukulungisa iimpazamo kwaye bancede kuthando. Rhoqo, ukuthethwa konxibelelwano lwengqondo izisa uxolo kulwalamano lwesibini, kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba sele kungenakwenzeka ukuba kuncede ubudlelwane, ngakumbi ukuba umntu ovela kwisibini. Khumbula indlela oziva ngayo ngaphambi kokuba ungene kulo ubudlelwane? Ukuba imeko itshintshe eyona nto imbi, ngaba ufuna iManyano enjalo?