"Ufuna ntoni nam?" -Uzibuza xa ufumanisa malunga nokufika komhlobo wakhe wangaphambili. Ukungcatshwa komntu osondeleyo kwabo bahlala benyanisekile kwabanye, ukusinda akukho lula, kodwa mhlawumbi. Ngelishwa, le meko iya kuhlala kwimemori yakho yobomi bakho, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha uya kuba lula- iinkcukacha ziya kulityalwa, imbalelwano iya kucinywa kwaye kuphela kwemeko yemeko iya kuhlala. Sinethemba lokuba ezi zixhobo ziya kukunceda uyeke ityala kwaye uyeke ukufumana amandla akho.
Susa ityala
Ukuphendula kumbuzo omiselweyo ngaphezulu, sitsho ngokuqinileyo: Awunatyala kwanto. Khohlwa malunga namagama abo babiza ukuba "bahlala besola" omabini amacala "akunjalo. Ubomi bungalindelekanga kwaye buzithandabuzekayo ukuba ngamnye kuthi unokuba nento elindelekileyo, nokuba siziphatha kakuhle. Inye "intombi" izama ukuhambisa umyeni, abanye baxoxa emva kwetyala labo, umntu wesithathu ufuna ukufaka endaweni yebhodi yezilwanyana emsebenzini-kwaye ezi ziintyatyambo kuphela. Kubalulekile ukwahlula izenzo zakho kubantu ongabaziyo - awunoxanduva lokuziphatha komhlobo, ongesosazela esaneleyo nokukhulisa ngokunyaniseka malunga nomona kunye nomnqweno wokuyeka ukuncokola. Ukuba awukwazi ukuyiqonda le nto, ke le ngxaki ilele ngokuzithemba kwakho - sebenza phezu kwayo kwiofisi yengqondo.
Ngelixa uxoxa emva kwakho, qhubeka phambi kwento yokuhleba
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Uxolo kwindoda engenampilo
Xa ungaziqondi, abantu abangaziboniyo, banganingcatshanga, kunye nemigaqo yabo yokuziphatha, bazukiswa kwaye bonakalisa ubudlelwane nabambalwa ababathanda ngokunyaniseka. Kubonakala kubo ukuba baphume kwimeko yabaphumeleleyo: Ewe, baya kuqaphela isiphumo sexeshana, kodwa emva kwexesha labo, baya kugubungela intetho engenazintloni. Ndikholelwe, akukho namnye abangaboniyo abangayifumananga le "kara". Ke isikhundla nje somntu ongenzi amandla aneleyo okuthetha nawe okungenani ngokubhekisele kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Fumana ii-buddies ezintsha
Ungaphulukani nokholo ebantwini: Bonke abantu balungile, baninzi kuphela abaye bakhubeka enzonzobileni komphefumlo, babiza kwaye ngoku abanakukwazi ukujamelana neengxaki zengqondo ngokuzimeleyo. Uya kufumanisa iintombi zam zibhetele kunabo baxabisekileyo intliziyo yakho yobubele kunye nengqondo. Ukuzisa ukuqala kwalo mzuzu, ngakumbi ukuya kumaqela kubahlobo, bhalisa kwicandelo lezemidlalo okanye ukhumbule ukuzonwabisa kobutsha bakho - ukuzoba, ukudanisa, umbukiso kunye nezinye izinto. Abantu abanobuhlobo bakhe buqala ngokunomdla omnye komnye, kwixa elizayo kulula kakhulu ukugcina ulwalamano olufudumeleyo.
Jonga abahlobo abanomdla
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Musa ukubamba umsindo kumngcaki-ukuba ukwazi kuya kuza kuye kamva, kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku uchitha amandla okukhokelela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga. Phefumla igcwele amabele kwaye uphile ngokuzonwabisa, kuba wena ngokwakho kufuneka ube ngumntu ophambili ebomini bakho, nabantu abakungqongileyo.