Ngokuqinisekileyo uye wabona imifanekiso (okanye nokuba kukho ilungu labo) labantwana kwindawo yoluntu. Kufanelekile ukuba umama angavumi ukukhathazeka kwi-chad into ethengiweyo, umntwana ewela phantsi kwaye aqalise ukugungqa emilenzeni yakhe. Abazali abancinci bahlala phantsi kweyona ntxuwa elinjalo, kwaye amava ahlala efuleleka. Nokuba inketho yokuqala okanye inketho yesibini ayinakuthathwa njengechanekileyo kwaye, kubaluleke kakhulu, ibe nemveliso. Ke yintoni le meko ikwi-samonek? Akunjalongo noko. Siza kukuxelela indlela yokuphuma kule nto, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, imeko engathandekiyo.
Zama ukuphembelela ingqalelo
Umntwana omncinci, njengommiselo, kulula ukutshintsha ingqalelo yakhe. Kwaye kwasekuqaleni - umntwana ogudileyo uya kuhlanya uya kuba nzima ngakumbi. Ukuba i-hysteria yenzekile kwivenkile kwaye akukho nto inokuhamba kwindawo eninzi, hlala phantsi kwaye uhule umntwana, xelela ukuba uyayibona indlela ohamba ngayo ubuhle.
Musa ukuthintela yonke into ngokulandelelana
Ewe, kukho izinto ezinokuthi zithintele, kodwa zihlala zimangalisiwe esitratweni ezinjenge "sukutsiba kwi-puddles!" Okukhona uya kumvumela umntwana ngaphakathi komntwana osisigxina, umntwana omncinci uzakrola i-hysteria kwitrafi.
Ndithembise umntwana umdlalo owonwabileyo
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Sukuthula
Ukubanda kwakho "Hayi, akunakwenzeka!" Sukufuna nje ukuzola umntwana, kodwa ukhuthaze uhlaselo olongezelelweyo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba akufanelekanga ukudlala kule ndawo, ukucacisela umhlobo ngoba, kwaye wenze enye indawo oza kuyidlala, nokuba ibhetele kunale. Kubalulekile ukuba unganyanzelisekisi ngokuhambelana nemvakalelo yomntwana, kodwa ukumnika enye into, ukuze ingaqiniseki ukuba umntwana akanakubekwa esweni ngeminyaka.
I-akhawunti i-mntwana
Ukuhambisa enye, yenza ngenzondelelo ukuze umntwana "abe mlilo" umbono. Umzekelo, ukuba awukwazi ukuvumela ukuthenga iseti entsha yoqhawuko, unike umntwana ukuba aqokelele into kunye ekhaya ukusuka kwiinkcukacha ezikhoyo zomyili osele ukhoyo kumyili osele ekho. Ukubona indlela enomdla kumdlalo, umntwana uza kuqwalasela ngokukhawuleza isicwangciso sentshukumo entsha.