Akukho mfihlakalo yokuba bobabini abazali abayimfuneko kuphuhliso olupheleleyo lomntwana, kwaye indima kaBawo ekukhulisekeni ayiphantsi kwendima kamama. Nangona kunjalo, kwiLizwe lanamhlanje, iintsapho ziyafumaneka, apho umntwana ephakamisa khona umntu omnye, enamathuba athile anamathuba "overdoe". Ke uza kwenza ntoni ukuba umntwana uvele kwintsapho yakho, kwaye ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba iqabane lakho liya kujamelana nendima entsha? Siza kukuxelela indlela yokunceda indoda yakhiwe ngaphandle kocalucalulo kwi-psyche.
Nika indoda ithuba lokuchitha ixesha elininzi nomntwana
Ukuba uhlobo lomfazi lunika uthando ngalo mntwana nangexesha lokukhulelwa, indoda iya kudinga ixesha emva kokuzalwa komntwana ukuba iqhele ukubonakala kwi-in vem ye-Natick. Emva kokubuya kwakho esibhedlele, umntu makafunde umntwana, ukuze akwazi ukwahlula kwabanye abantwana aze akhe unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo.
Ukuchukumisa kubaluleke kakhulu
Amadoda amaninzi ayoyika ukuthatha izandla ezisandul 'ukuzalwa ngenxa yobungakanani bayo obuncinci-ngequbuliso benze umonakalo? Ukuchaza ngokuchaza umntu ukuba ayikho ngokupheleleyo into eyoyikayo, chitha iklasi enkulu, indlela yokuthatha, gcina kwaye ulale umntwana. Ekuqaleni, umntu unokulala nje ecaleni komntwana, ambethe kwaye ayeke ukoyika ukwenza into engalunganga. Mnike ixesha.
Thembela ukhathalelo lwendoda
Njengoko ihlala yenzeka, eli bhinqa aliqinisekanga ukuba le ndoda iyakwenza ukuba i-qubming / ityibilike / i-sweddling, kwaye ke izama ukwenza yonke iqabane okanye lokuhlambela. Njengoko besitshoyo, nikela indoda inkululeko engakumbi yokunxibelelana nomntwana, vumela ukubhukuda imihla ngemihla ngaphambi kokuba kulale, umzekelo, uTata uvela emsebenzini.
Sukuphulukana nokunxibelelana nendoda yakho
Ewe, ngokufika komntwana, ubomi bakho bomtshato buza kutshintsha. Umsebenzi wakho kukuthintela ukwaphula. Isibakala sokuba ngabazali musa ukurhoxisa into yokuba ungabantu ababini abanothando. Ukugcina imeko ehlelekileyo ngaphandle komona wendoda eyakhenkethi, chitha yedwa, cela izalamane zakho ubuncinci ngenyanga kunye nomntwana, kwaye qhubeka ngomhla.