Kubomi bosapho ngalunye, njengalo naliphi na ithambo lentlalontle, kukho amaxesha ezintlekele. Kwaye rhoqo ngokuchaseneyo nosapho kukhula ukuya kuthi ga kangangokuba abantu ababekhe bathandana baba ngabasemzini, kwaye nakwiintshaba ezibi kakhulu. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani ezisemthethweni, iipesenti ezingama-65 zemitshato eRussia yahlukana ngo-2018. Ukuba ucinga ngayo, luyinto eyoyikisayo: ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha seentsapho zaseRussia azikhange ziphumelele uvavanyo. Ngaphezu koko, icandelo elibalulekileyo lemibutho yemitshato iyabavumelani kwiminyaka yokuqala yobukho bayo.
Ezona zizathu zintathu ziphambili zoqhawulo-mtshato, ngokweenkcukacha-manani ezifanayo - intlupheko kunye nokungabinakho ukondla usapho, ukungakwazi nokungafuni ukungqinelana nokuhlonela, ikhwele lamaqabane. Ezi zizathu zinye zinokubizwa ngokuba zizinto eziphambili ezimisela ingxaki kubudlelwane bosapho, kunye nelona nqaku lihlala liba sisiphumo sengxaki ekhoyo, isiphumo sobudlelwane ngayo (ngokweemvakalelo , ngokwesondo).
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Kuyenzeka ukwahlulahlulahlulahlula kakhulu kweyona nto iyingozi ngokwendlela yokuvela kwengxaki kubudlelwane bezigaba kubomi bosapho. Okokuqala, lo ngunyaka wokuqala wokuphila kunye apho amaqabane aqhele uku (okanye angaqhelanga) ukuze aphile omnye komnye. Umzuzu wesibini oyingozi kukuzalwa komntwana kwaye unyaka omlandela-ezimbini. Ngeli xesha ukuba iphendule inani elikhulu kakhulu loqhawulo mtshato. Ingxaki yesithathu imalunga neminyaka engama-7-8 yomtshato. Ingxaki yesine yiminyaka eli-15 ukuya kwengama-20 yomtshato, xa abantwana bekhula, amaqabane ayakhula, hayi kuphela amaxhoba omnye alahlekileyo, kodwa kwanembono yangaphambili yobukho bosapho.
Kunzima kakhulu ukunika iingcebiso ngokusoyisa kwengxaki kubudlelwane, njengoko usapho ngalunye luphela. Ubudlelwane besibini ngasinye sinempawu zabo kwaye apho ibhunga elinye lifanelekile kwaye imodeli enye yesenzo ayinakuphuma nezinye iingcebiso. Elona gama libalulekileyo ngokuchasene nengxaki kubudlelwane kukukwazi ukumamela omnye komnye kwaye thethatheni. Nabuphi na ubudlelwane babantu omnye komnye - uhlobo lwentonga. Kuyimfuneko ukuba amaqabane, okokuqala, ukuba aqonde ukubakho kwengxaki, kwaye okwesibini, ukuba ufunde ukuzola omnye komnye kwaye athathe inqaku leqabane, nokuba luqhekene neyayo, okwesithathu - hayi Ukuthetha izisombululo phantsi kwempembelelo yeemvakalelo, ukona okoqobo.
Mhlawumbi le ngxaki ibonakala yoyisile, eneneni iyathetha kuphela ukuba ubudlelwane bosapho bakho bufuna uhlengahlengiso oluncinci, ukuphindaphinda kwakhona. Kwangelo xesha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungazenzi ubudlelwane bosapho kwingxoxo ngokubanzi, musa ukuvumela izalamane okanye izihlobo kunye nezintombi zokuchonga ezinye iindlela, zichaphazele izigqibo zakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuphela ebomini bakho kwaye uphile kuwe!
Elona candelo libalulekileyo lobomi balo naluphi na usapho yindawo esondeleyo yeemvakalelo. Ukuba amaqabane aphulukana nomdla wabo omnye komnye, ke loo ntsapho injalo iphoswe kukubola okusemthethweni, okanye ukugcina ukubonakala kobudlelwane phakathi kwabasemzini ezimbini ngokupheleleyo. Kuluntu lwanamhlanje, akukho nto yayithatyathwayo ekuxoxeni ingxaki omnye komnye kubuntu besini, fumana izizathu, zama ukusombulula ngeendlela ezamkelekileyo.
Ewe, bobabini umfazi kunye nomyeni wakhe babaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo bonke ukuba "bazigcine benethoni" ukuba banomdla kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini. Ukuguqula ubomi bentsapho kube yinkqubo yesiqhelo, kwi-oring of ngokungathandabuzekiyo kukhokelela kwi-rack. Ke ngoko, nxibelelana ngakumbi, yiza nento edibeneyo - yinto eqhelekileyo edibanisa amaqabane njengoko ingenakwenzeka, ihloniphane kwaye ungakhangeli izisombululo kwiingxaki zosapho lwakho ecaleni.