Kubomi balowo wethu kwakukho amaxesha xa umnxeba ovela kumhlobo wasasazwa ebusuku, emva kokuba ezila zangaphambili, kwaye uyathuthuzela, kodwa kakhulu akuzange kuncede.
Akusoloko kulula ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo, ngokufuthi asinguye nje amabinzana angazalisiyo, kodwa ade asicaphukisi, nangona singayifuni. Siqulunqa uluhlu lwamagama aqinileyo esihlala sisebenzisa umntu, kodwa endaweni yoko sizisa iintlungu ngakumbi.
"Wasondela omnye komnye!"
Awukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yayihamba emva kweminyango evaliweyo yendlu yentombi nendoda yakhe yangaphambili. Mhlawumbi kwabonakala kuwe ukuba akunakubakho isibini esifanelekileyo, kodwa omabini amaqabane anokubandezeleka kolu lwalamano. Ngaphandle kweenkcukacha, zama ukuxhasa intombi ngaphandle kokunika uvavanyo lwakho nolu lwalamano.
"Andizange ndiyithande!"
Eli binzana ligxininisa kuphela ukuba bahlala bengowekhe ngokukhethayo, kodwa bathi cwaka ngayo. Indlela yokuthandabuza yokuxhasa intombi ecaphukisayo, ndiyavumelana? Zama ukungaqinisekisi i-datmosfera engalunganga, kungcono ukuguqulela yonke into evulekileyo ngoku evulekileyo ngoku abuthandele, kodwa intombi yasimahla.
Sukuvakalisa uluvo olubi malunga nomhlobo wangaphambili wentombazana yakho
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"Ngoku ungayenza le nto uyifunayo"
Mhlawumbi ngaxeshanye uxele esi sihlangulo xa ubudlelwane betyhefu bugqityiwe, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba konke okunemihlali umhlobo wakho, ubuncinci okwangoku, ukuyeka. Ukuba umntu akava umnqweno wokuhamba 'nokubhiyozela ukwahlula "kwiklabhu, akufuneki umnyanzele. Qokelela kwaye uhlale kwaye uxoxe ngale meko kunye.
"Unemfuno enkulu kakhulu"
Nabuphi na abahlobo abasenyongweni, izinto zakho zinokuthandabuza ngokupheleleyo. Ungathanda iibrunji ezinde, kwaye intombi yakho ngabafana bembonakalo kaScandinavia. Oku kuyasebenza nakwimeko yeNtloko yeNtloko: Akufanelanga ukuba uqokelelene nentombazana enokuthi uqwalasele i-guy kube lula, kwaye ayisiyonto entle kwiklabhu yeshishini, kwaye yafika kwangoko utsala umdla wentombazana. Intombi yakho ineendlela zabo zokukhetha, kwaye ke akukho nto isongekelo kukuba umfazi afune ukubophelela ubomi bakhe nendoda efanele emehlweni akhe.