1. Malunga nam
Kubomi bokwenyani, ndaphuma ndaba nethamsanqa.
Apho ndazalelwa khona kwaye ndakhulela, isimilo sasilula: Amadoda alibaleka kum, kwaye abafazi bahleba.
Abazali bam bandinika izithembiso ezinje ngokwabo, ndinikela uthando oluninzi kangangokuba wandizalisa kwimiphetho, eye yaqina.
Ndinabahlobo abadalwe ngomtshato, ekhaya, ubune. Ndingathanda ukuba njalo, ukukhokela ubomi bokuzola, ukulinganisa ubomi. Kodwa ndinayo enye indalo. Ndingabonakala ngathi nditsalelekile.
Andazi nokuba kukucela njani into ethile endodeni. "Umxholo" eMantenalian Mantenawa, ogciniweyo "Lowo ugcinwe esandleni." Kwaye andifuni umntu andigcine esandleni sam.
Funda ngokwakho inomdla. Mhlawumbi ndiza kuyenza xa ndimdala.
2. Ngobuhle
Ubuhle lithuba elihle onokuthi lucele kuphela.
Indoda enye engathandekiyo yathi: "Kuphela yimizuzu emithathu kuphela enikwa isenzo sobuhle, kwaye ke kufuneka ukwazi ukugcina amehlo akho."
Ndikhe ndanyikima nje: "Abafazi abahle badalwe kubafana abangenantlonelo."
I-godym bomzimba iyathetha ngokufanayo nobuso bakhe. Esi sisixhobo sokusebenza, kwaye ndingayisebenzisa njengesifundo ukuze ndidlale indima yayo yomelele ngakumbi.
Ayiyonyani ukuba onke amadoda azama ukujikeleza inoveli kunye nam. Okuphikisanayo. Ubuhle ngamanye amaxesha bukoyika, kudala umgama.
3. Malunga nothando
Ngamanye amaxesha bendiyithanda i-Wenzan, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bendifuna ukuba ndibulale.
Uthando luhlala kuphela xa kukho inkululeko kunye nentlonipho omnye komnye. Umnqweno wokufumana abanye njengento ingekho ngqiqweni. Akukho mntu okwenye kuthi - okanye nabayeni bethu okanye abantwana.
Xa ulawula ukuphinda uqwalasele umntu, uyeka ukumthanda.
Mna no-Wennis saza sazala uthando lwethu, thina sobabini bahlala kuyo, kwaye sobabini sagqiba kwelokuba siyigqibe.
Isini esigqwesileyo sinokuba nomntu ongamthandiyo, hayi ulungile - kunye nomntu omthandayo.
Ndaqala ukusicekisa umntu, engafuni ukuba andikhusele, kodwa andime. Ndihlawule ixabiso elikhulu kakhulu inkululeko yam.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu intembelo kunye nentlonipho. Kum, kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokunyaniseka.
Ndingoyena mfazi wonwabe kakhulu emhlabeni. Ndinabantwana abahle kakhulu. Ndinomtshato omnandi-kwaye olu thando aluzange ludlule, uguqulwa waba yimvakalelo entsha.
4. malunga nabantwana
Amantombazana am awona mhle kakhulu emhlabeni. I-Virgo yi-Cocktail yokwenene kum kunye ne-Wenzen, kwaye uLeoni unolungelelwano olusezantsi omazantsi.
Ndingumama ongqongqo. Abantwana kufuneka babe nemithetho ecacileyo ebomini, kungenjalo kunzima ukulandela.
Ndiyakrwadwa kwimicimbi yasekhaya: Ndifuna abantwana batye kakuhle, babenxibe kakuhle, kodwa andisayi kuze ndizichaze into ekufuneka uyenzile, kodwa engazange yenziwe. Andifuni ukuba indlu yethu ihambe emkhosini.
Abantwana kuphela abakholelwa kubuchule bam.
Bendingayi kuba nako ukumhlonela le ndoda ukuba iguqukile ekubeni nguyise, engakulungelanga ukuncama ubomi bonke ngenxa yomntwana wakhe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungacwangcisi iidrama ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato. Abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuba iimeko zangaphandle zinokutshintsha, kodwa uthando lwakho kubo - kumacala omabini - ayiguqukanga.
5. Ubudala
Andimncinci, ngoko ndilwela wonke umzuzu wokuphila kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Ebomini bam bekukho umzuzu ofanayo wotshintsho olungaqhelekanga. Abantwana sele bekhulile. Kubonakala ngathi ndiphuma ndiphume kwinqanaba lokudibana nomama osebenzayo, ndibuyela kum njengomfazi.
Kungcono ndikwazi ngoku kunasebutsheni. Ndiyayazi into onokuyilindela kuwe kunye nendlela yokuhlangabezana nayo. Bendihlala ndifuna ukuba ngumfazi ovuthiweyo ngengqondo ethile.
Kukho kuphela amayeza asemthethweni. Nje ukuba inyamalale, uyeka ukuqaqamba ngaphakathi.