UDavid Beckham, onje, mhlawumbi, uninzi lwabazali kwihlabathi liphela baziqhayisa ngempumelelo yabantwana babo. Kwaye ke kwiveki ephelileyo imbaleki yakhawuleza ukuqhayisa ngezakhono ezitsha zentombi yakhe.
Kwividiyo epapashwe kwinethiwekhi yoluntu, uDavid Beckham wabonisa indlela intombi yakhe enemigangatho emibini eqaqambileyo kwi-bich enamavili amabini ngaphandle kwe-vieds ye-Alley epakini. Umdlali webhola ekhatywayo othatha i-harper wanyanzelwa ukuba asebenze emva kwentombazana, ngaphandle kwexesha lokumbambe kwi-smartphone ye-smartphone. "UHarring okokuqala ngqa ufihla, ngaphandle koncedo," watsho uDavid. Kwaye wongeza athi: "Ndinebhongo ngawe, mntwana!"
I-Harper Beckham yaqala ukuhlala phantsi kwibhayisekile kwiminyaka emine
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Ngapha koko, uBeckham wabeka ibhantile ngebhayisekile ngo-2015, xa wayeneminyaka emine ubudala. Kwaye kungekudala wasusa i-vili exhasa iivili ukuze i-harper iye yafunda ukuze igcine ibhalansi.
Kwaye umzalwana wakhe ongumdala uBrooklyn, ebambe ibhayisekile xa ekhwela, esenza ukukhuselwa ekwenzeni intombazana.
Ungamfundisa njani umntwana ukuba akhwele ibhayisekile emibini enamavili. I-Engeny Ivanov, umqeqeshi, intshatsheli yaseRussia kwi-vkling vk, intshatsheli yaseRussia kwi-ntaba ye-cycling (uqeqesho lwebhayisekile):
- Olona khetho lubalaseleyo lwabaqalayo lucela. Le yimoto elula, enobuqhetseba, elawula ngokulula umntwana anokutyalwa iminyaka emibini. I-Beceovel iya kumnceda umntwana ukuba aqonde ukuba yintoni ibhalansi, kwaye iminyaka engamane ukuya kwezine okanye ezintlanu, uya kuba nakho ukudlulisela ibhayisekile emibini enamavili.
Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala uphoswe eli nqanaba kwaye ngoko nangoko uthenge ibhayisekile, ke icebiso lam yinto yokuqala yokungaguquli ivili elikutshiwo. Ndikuthengisela amavili enkxaso, kuba ke kufuneka uqhubeke. Inyani yile yokuba benze umsebenzi wokubamba, kwaye baguquke ngasekhohlo, umntwana uphumle kwivili elingasemva kunye ne-Vice, oko kukuthi, ayiyiqondi inkqubo yolawulo. Ke, ngokoluvo lwam, kungcono ukuqala ukukhetha iziseko kwaye usebenzise ibhayisekile ngokubaleka ukuze umntwana afundile ukulungisa i-aquilibrium.
I-Engeny Ivanov, umqeqeshi, intshatsheli yaseRussia kwi-vk ye-vk, intshatsheli yaseRussia kwi-ndulling ntaba
Ukubeka umva umva, umntwana kufuneka achazwe, bonisa indlela yokuwabhatala indlela. Umzekelo, xa kuthelekiswa nendlela ahamba ngayo amanyathelo, unyawo lwasekunene, ngasekhohlo, ngasekhohlo. Into ephambili ayityumkanga, musa ukuba nomsindo: ayingabo bonke abantwana abanokuyiqonda kwangoko. Ungayibetha umnqweno wokukhwela ibhayisekile kunokuba lula, ke kufuneka ube nomonde ekufundeni.
Xa uthenga ibhayisekile, into yokuqala kukukhokelwa, oku kukukhula komntwana. Thenga ibhayisekile ukukhula kwaye ixhomekeke kwinto anokuyikhupha iminyaka emininzi, ayinangqondo. Ukutyala umntwana ngebhayisekile yeyona ibaluleke kakhulu. Umntwana kufuneka ukhululeke, ehleli esihlalweni ngento etyekileyo kamva, umntwana ufanele ukuba achaze ngqo kwivili lokuqhuba, kodwa musa ukuzolula.
Kuya kufuneka ukhunjulwe ukuba eyona bhayisekile, engcono. Ikhilogramu nganye inzima kakhulu emntwaneni. Isakhelo sasingabikho kuphela, kodwa siqiniseke. Imodeli yokufumana isakhelo seklasikhi yeklasi (unxantathu) ngolona khetho lufanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana anyuke kwaye ahambe ngebhayikhi ngokuzimela, kwaye ngale nto, isakhelo esingaphezulu sinokungaphantsi. Abantwana abasayazi indlela yokuphosa umlenze ngevili elingasemva kwi-go kwaye bakhwela kwibhayisekile, bephosa umlenze nge-ofisi enye emhlabeni, ngesondo elingasemva. Umntwana uya kuziva eqinisekile ukuba unokufikelela imilenze emhlabeni okanye ubuncinci omabini onyawo emhlabeni. Ke uya kuziva elawula, kwaye ulawulo luthetha ukhuseleko.
Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu: Ukuthenga ibhayisekile yomntwana, ngoko nangoko zithembele isigcina-ntloko. Le yinxalenye ebalulekileyo, inkcubeko yokuhamba ngebhayisikile. Umntwana, ehleli kwibhayisekile, kufuneka aqonde ukuba akukho nto yaneleyo entlokweni yakhe. Emva kokuba ehleli kwibhayisekile-nxiba isigcina-ntloko!