Usenokuba nolwalamano olumangalisayo, nangona kunjalo, lusebhedini, iinkanuko zenkanuko zitshintsha kakhulu. Kukho ukungahambelani ngokwesondo. Izizathu zokungahambelani zinokwahluka ngokupheleleyo, oogqirha bezengqondo babelanile izinto zengqondo, ezemizimba kunye nezomzimba kunye nokuziphatha esiya kuthetha ngazo, kwaye sizame ukufumana iindlela zokusombulula ingxaki.
Kubonakaliswa njani?
Nawuphi na ukhuphiswano lwe-Libi-lupedes oluqhelekileyo ngokwesondo lunokuchazwa kukungahambelani ngokwesondo. Ingabonakaliswa ngokungabikho kwe-orgasm, ukonakalisa umtsalane okanye ukucekiseka kule nkqubo ngokwayo. Rhoqo le ngxaki isonjululwe ngokuthetha kwemiphefumlo enesiqingatha sayo sesibini, nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko xa kufuneka ungenelelo lweengcali.
Zeziphi izinto eziphazamisayo ukuhamba okuqhelekileyo kobomi obusondeleyo?
Imfundo
Uninzi lwabantu abadala abade baphila nesonka esiya kwizimvo zabazali. Ukuzikhulisa ngokungqongqo kakhulu, okungaboneleli ngengxubusho yobomi obusondeleyo umntu, kukhokelela ekwenzeni i-libido kunye nolawulo oluqhubekayo lweminqweno yayo.
Zive ukhululekile ukufuna uncedo kwi-psychologist
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Umahluko kwiindlela zobushushu
Oku kungenzeka ukubini kobudlelwane nasemva kwexesha elithile ukuya kuqeqesha. Kwaye ukuba emva kwesini sokuqala, amaqabane aqonde ukuba nje akahambelani, utshintsha umgca wobomi kunye neqabane eliqhelekileyo akalula. Iimvakalelo zinepropathi esenza buthathaka, kuyafana nakwisidubedube.
Ubuvila
Ewe, ubudlelwane obuhambelana noko, kubandakanya ebhedini, ngumsebenzi onzima. Ukuba elinye lamaqabane elingasasebenziyo ukuqhubeka nokusebenza kwimozulu kwisibini, umsantsa usondele kakhulu.
I-AMSFNTES eyahlukeneyo
Akunakwenzeka ukukhankanya okwahlukileyo kwezaphulelo zomzimba. Sele ingenakukwazi ukufumana indlela yakho, kwaye ukungqinelani kwesondo akunto yakwenza nokubonisana nengcali elungileyo.
Ndingasoyisa njani iingxaki ebhedini?
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukufumana unobangela, emva koko unokuqhubeka nokusombulula ingxaki. Zive ukhululekile ukufuna uncedo kwi-psychologist yengqondo okanye ugqirha wezesondo, ukuba uziva ngathi akunakwenzeka ukusombulula ingxaki kuphela ngemizamo yakho.
Amaxesha amaninzi, iingxaki zesondo ziyavela ekufikeleleni, xa umngcipheko wokufumana amava obunikazini obungaphumelelani ubuninzi, emva koko isimo sengqondo sinokugqwetha ngokupheleleyo, kunye nomntu onokuthi afumane iingxaki zokwenyani, ngokungathi kwehla kwi-libi-kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle yokufumana i-orgasm.
Zama ukufumana ukubekisa ngesiqingatha sakho sesibini, masithi iqabane elifuna isondo yonke imihla, lingahamba lingaphantsi kovavanyo oluncinci kwaye livume ukubhengeza isiqingatha sesibini soxinzelelo. Ukuba ingxaki ilele kwi-phyology, ngaphandle kwengcali kunye nonyango olufanelekileyo, akukho mfuneko yokuba yenziwe. Amaqabane adiniwe kwaye aphulukene nomdla kwisondo ngenxa yeemeko zangaphandle, kufuneka azame ukwahlukanisa ubomi obusondeleyo noncedo lweethoyi okanye utshintsho lwexeshana.