Ngamanye amaxesha nabahlobo ofuna ukwabelana nabo ngayo yonke into, bahlule uvuyo nosizi, hleba, nxibelelana. Yonke le nto, kunjalo, ingumlinganiswa ngakumbi wesini esifanelekileyo. Abasetyhini ababonayo abafana noodade kwaye bahlala betshisa, bejonge ukungcatshwa kwabo bathandayo. Ubuhlobo bokuthandabuza, kodwa ezinye izinto kufuneka zihlukane nabo. Yintoni ongayifuniyo ukusesikweni kunye neentombi?
Ukuhleba malunga nabanye abafazi
Amantombazana anjalo amantombazana. Ukudibana ngokuhlwa emthendelekweni okanye kwi-cafe, emva kwekomityi yekofu okanye iglasi ye-champagne, kwi-salon yobuhle okanye emsebenzini, uninzi lwabasetyhini ukwalukhuni. Akukho mfuneko yokuba inkcenkceshele udaka lomntu, oko kukukhokelela kuzo zonke izono, kodwa kwaphela kungakhange kuxoxe ngefoto engaphumelelanga kwinethiwekhi yoluntu okanye i-upep en eneneni. Ukusuka ecaleni bekubonakala ukuba ngabantwana, kwaye ngoku, ukuyifunda, usenokuba nengcinga: "Hayi indlela esisisidenge, ayikho ngam kwaphela!". Ke, njengokuba besitsho, Lowo ungakhange avile, owokuqala uya kuphosa ilitye. Masingaze siye kwiinkcukacha zenzako yenzala eninzi kubomi babanye, kodwa enye incinci ifanele iqatshelwe. Intombi, enamhlanje igijingxwa kwendlela yohlobo oluqhelekileyo, ingomso liya kuhlekisa ngalo, ngelixa uza kukuvuyela ukukuxelela indlela ongayithandi ngayo indlela oyithandayo ngayo. Abantu abazixhasa ngakumbi iingxoxo ezinjalo, kunye nethuba elikhulu lenze okufanayo kwisangqa apho bekuxoxa khona.
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Xoxa ngeziphumo zohlalutyo
Ukuba awuzanga ngapha ngaphandle kwenkxaso kwaye unentombi entle kwaye eyona ntombazana isondeleyo-olu lukhetho olukhethekileyo. Kodwa ukubhala iintombi zam, sisiphi isigqibo awazange asifikelele ugqirha. Khumbula, bonke abantu ababini bayazi, wonke umntu uyazi. Impilo yakho yebhinqa lityala lakho, elinokuchitha umntu osondeleyo, kodwa kungenjalo kubo bonke ngokulandelelana.
Iingxaki zomntu wakho
Ukuba ukwibumbano olunzulu kunye neqabane lakho okanye usapho lwayo luhlangabezana nobunzima, akunakwenzeka ukuba umazi nabani na ngaphandle kwakho. Indoda ayiziqwalaseli iintombi zakho, njengowakhe, akufuneki ukuba unqabile ukucinga ukuba banokumanyana ngandlela ngandlela. Amadoda amaninzi angabathandi abahlobo babafazi babo okanye amantombazana, abananto yakwenza nabo, ngaphandle kwakho. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba usasaza ulwazi malunga nolwalamano, ukuthembela kubudlelwane kuya kuncitshiswa ngonaphakade.
I-quidnings ye-sexy
Ewe, ngubani ongaxoxa ngesondo nabahlobo kunye neentombi? Ewe, i-sex yinto esempilweni nengaqhelekanga yobomi bomntu omdala. Unokuxoxa malunga nentombi kwisaqhwithi sesaqhwithi seemvakalelo ezintle okanye ezingalunganga kwinto eyenzekileyo, kodwa akufuneki ukuba uchithe nabani na kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Awunakuqiniseka ukuba umhlobo wakho akasayi kwabelana ngendoda ephathwe kakuhle, ayizukubeka njengomzekelo okanye ungabaleki kuyo nayiphi na enye imeko. Ifowuni eyaphukileyo ayinikanga nje ukuhleba, kodwa iwa neentsapho zonke.