Ukuzincama kudala kuye kwaphela ukubaluleka. Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, amandla okukhusela umdla wabo ukhusela umdla wabo kwaye ancede abantu bajongane neengxaki. Nje ukuba uyeke ukukhetha izinto zakho, ubomi buba lula: unamandla kunye nexesha lokuphumeza izicwangciso zethu. Icacisa ukuba kutheni le nto ingumayelo kunye nendoda ethambileyo ngoku ithathelwa ingqalelo.
Sukuchitha amandla kwi-overneous
Ekuphela komntu ekufuneka uhlehlise ezakho izicwangciso ngumntwana wakho kwiminyaka emithathu yokuqala emva kokuzalwa xa efuna ngokwenene igxalaba langumzali. Ngenxa yomyeni wakhe, iintombi zakhe, oogxa kunye neminye imibingelelo kumaphupha kunye neenjongo azinakwenzeka - abantu abazaneleyo aziyifuni le. Qinisa ukuba yonke imihla uneyure ezingama-24 kuphela ukuba usondele kwiinjongo zakho - Ngaba kufanelekile ukuchitha ixesha kwiincoko ezingento malunga nomhlobo wakho wangaphambili okanye umntu ocaphukayo? Ewe, kubalulekile ukuba abantu baphulaphule, kodwa kungcono ubanike ingcebiso yokwenene, indlela yokwenza kwimeko, nokuba ungabi yinto enyibilikayo.
Ihlala ihleli yedwa kunye nawe
Kwinkcubeko yethu yamkelekile ukuba, enxulumene nomtshato, abantu baba nye. Ngeli xesha, umanyano olugqithisileyo kunye neqabane alikangenzi - emva kwakho, i-spark yokuqala ilahlekile phakathi kwakho. Thatha ixesha lokuba wedwa kunye nawe kunye neengcinga zakho: Yiya kwi-goouts kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, uqhuba epakini, yiya kwiholide ngaphandle kwenkampani. Ukwahlula kwindalo esiqhelekileyo kunye nokundwendwela yedwa, unokujonga kufutshane kwaye uqonde ukuba wonwaba ngokwenene, ecaleni kwabo.
Chitha ixesha ngenzuzo
Ifoto: HARTAHH.USPUS.com.
Funda ukuthi "hayi"
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uncede abazali egadini, hlalani nomntwana ongudade oselekhulile kwaye ukhwele umhlobo wakhe ukuba awufuni. Ewe, ekuqaleni ukusilela kwakho kuya kuthathwa njenge-riot: bekulungele ukuhlala entanyeni yakho kwaye kukusebenzise njengomsebenzi wasimahla kunye neqabane elimnandi lokuhamba. Abantu kufuneka baqhele ukuthwala uxanduva ngezigqibo zabo, kwaye bangayifikele abanye: Abazali akufuneki batyale imifuno emininzi njengoko bengakwazi ukukhulisa i-nanny qasha. Ukususa ngokwakho kwimvakalelo yokuziva unetyala, bhala yonke imicimbi yakho kwiveki, kwaye ke uyixabise ukuba lingakanani ixesha olichithe kuwe, kwaye malini.
Musa ukoyika kwinxalenye nabantu
Ubuhlobo nothando phambi kwebhokisi yebhokisi ayiyi kukwenza wonwabe ukuba ixesha labo liya kuqinisekiswa ngumonde wakho. Soloko uxelela abantu ngokunyaniseka, into ocinga ngayo - ungazami ukuba yindoda yehlabathi kwaye wenze abahlobo kwikhawunta nganye. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo xa kunye nexesha onomdla ngayo kunye nabantu obathandayo baphoxwe kwaye, ngaphandle kokuxabana kunye neengcikivo, kuyekani ukuchitha ixesha elinye lokungazisi ulonwabo lwentlanganiso. Chonga indlela oziva ngayo nomntu, nje: ukuba emva kwentlanganiso uziva unyukele amandla kunye nokuzalisa, emva koko umntu okufaneleyo, kuthetha ukuba nenxalenye naye.