Kubonakala ngathi ndikhathazeke malunga nentsebenzo-oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuwo nawuphi na umlingisi, imvumi, umdanisi. Imincili yomculi iyimfuneko, iyakhuthaza, ibonisa ukuba yonke imzuzu ichithwe kwinqanaba, uyayithanda into oyenzayo, kodwa Akunakwenzeka ukuba uveze ngaphandle koxinzelelo, kungenjalo ukunyaniseka kuya kulahleka.
Imincili yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yayo nayiphi na intetho yesidlangalala, eyona nto iphambili kukuba ayiphazamisi. Oku kufundiswa nje kwi-Studing Studis - Indlela Yokuloyisa uloyiko lwakho xa ikhulu lihleli kwiholo, okanye nangaphezulu, kwaye onke amehlo abhekiswa kuwe. Kwaye kuya kufuneka uzibonakalise, kuya kufuneka ucule, kuya kufuneka udlale, abaphulaphuli beza kusebenza ukuba bangayiboni indlela owoyike ngayo, kwaye ke iindima ngokwazo.
Ndingabelana ngeemfihlo zam. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni uyifuna. Iyintoni injongo yakho? Ndiyabuza, ndiyonwabela kuyo, ngaphandle kwendawo yemidlalo yeqonga andiyicingi ngobomi bam - ezi ziinjongo zam, ezikhuthazayo zam eziphambili. Unokuba neenjongo ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye akukho nto ibalulekileyo: umzekelo, ndifuna ukwenzeka kweli shishini, ndenza ingxelo yesayensi ekufuneka ndiyitshintshe ngayo umsebenzi wam. Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo malunga neethagethi, ungafudukela kwizinto ezincinci "ezibalulekileyo, i.E. indlela yokuzithatha ngesandla ngaphambi kokusebenza. Zininzi iindlela, kwaye umntu ngamnye une-actrist yakhe: I-Mantras, imithandazo, ukuphumla iti, ukuthambisa, uxinzelelo.
Khumbula, i-mantras kunye neti yokuphumla ayichaphazeli ukuba ungazikhathali. Phinda uziqhelanise, ulungiselelo lweentetho zikawonke-wonke, nokuba yeyiphi - le yeyona nto isisiseko, yintoni ekufuneka ibalulekile. Yonke into mayiqinisekiswe, ifundiswe: Umi njani, apho umi khona, indlela omele uhambe ngayo kwinqaku lokuqalisa ukudanisa.
Kukho enye imfihlo encinci: Ukuhamba kwinqanaba phambi kweholo enkulu, khetha umntu omnye umntu omthandayo kakhulu, uze uvumele intetho yakho kuphela, kuba ukuthetha Phambi komntu omnye akasoyiki, njengaphambi kweholo epheleleyo. Le yeyona ndlela yengqondo enjalo ihlala isebenza, bayonwabela ootitshala abaqaqambileyo kwizifundo, kunye nezithethi, kunye namagcisa.
Ngokubanzi, ndiyakholelwa ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kumlo kunye "nokoyika imeko" luthando lwento oyenzayo. Ukuba awukwazi kuphila ngaphandle kobuchule, ke unendlela enye kuphela - le yimeko, lo ngumbukeli kuba ngaphandle kwakho njengomlingisi akuyi kuba nakho ukwenzeka. Ke, kuyimfuneko ukulwa noloyiko lwakho, kwaye namava uloyiko lweentetho zikawonke-wonke, kunjalo, uya kuthi, kodwa ungafani ekuqaleni. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka udale, sebenzani ngokwakho kwaye wenze "andikwazi" ukuba umsebenzi wakho uxhomekeke kuyo.