Rhoqo, abazali abanakumthatha umntu omdala emntwaneni wabo onokuthi sele angaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30. Kunzima, abantu abaninzi kunzima ukuba bavele bekwinkqubo yokwahlukana nabazali, eso sisombululo saso Ingcali. Siza kubaxelela abazali xa unokuphefumla ngokuzolileyo uze uzixelele: "Akasengomntwana."
Abantwana babuza ukuba ishishini lakho
Njengommiselo, indalo ekhuthazayo yahlulwe kukugxila kuye nakwiminqweno yakhe. Umntu omdala uyayiqonda imida phakathi kwakhe nabanye abantu, kunye nendawo yokuthatha umzali njengomntu ohlukileyo. Xa umntwana wakho eqalisa ukuba nomdla ebomini bakho ngaphandle komxholo wosapho, siqinisekile ukubhengeza - akasengomntwana okungenasiseko sengqondo.
Akasabuyeli imali
Imali epokothweni-yinxalenye yobuntwana. Nje ukuba imfuneko yokucela imali kwizalamane ezindala, umntu anokuthi, umntu uyenzile njengomntu, okuthetha ukuba akukho ngqiqweni ukumjonga njengomntwana. Oku kuyasebenza kungekuphela kwinkcitho yenkcitho, kodwa intlawulo yeenkonzo zempahla - umntu okhulileyo uyakwazi ukuhlawula iirisithi ngokwakho.
Umntwana akasakhathaleli ngokusilela
Abazali benza yonke into njengenxalenye yobuchule babo, ukuba banyanzelise ukuba bagxeke ukusilela kwezemali nezothando - ubuntu obuninzi bokungakhuli. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba umntu okhulileyo ngokwakhe ugqwetha ubomi bakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba imbopheleleko ilele kuyo. Nje ukuba olu qalelo luza emntwini, biza umntwana wakhe akajiki ulwimi.
Abantwana abanyanzeli izimvo zakho
Njengommiselo, ukugculelwa ngaphezulu kwezihlobo ezindala kunye nemikhwa yazo zibonakaliswa ngabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo abafuna ukuthwala ingqalelo abazali ekucikideni kwabo ngokungacacanga kunye nethuba lokubonisa umbono. Indoda endala ayizukugxeka abazali ngokubukela i-Vible yeTV okanye ilungise izitya ezintsonkothileyo ezinokuthengwa esitolo.