Kukholelwa ukuba olona xanduva lubalaseleyo kwinkqubo yonke yesondo bulele kwindoda. Nangona kunjalo, umgangatho owomeleleyo kufuneka anyamekele iminqweno yabo, ukuba ukungafumani mali ithathele ingqalelo iimfuno zeqabane, ithuba lokuphuhliswa okulinganayo kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kuphantsi kakhulu. Ukongeza, imikhwa emininzi yabasetyhini ayinyanzelekanga ukuba itshise umnqweno wokulala ebhedini, sagqiba kwelokuba siyiqokelele ezona zibalulekileyo ukuba zikuncede ukuphepha iimpazamo kwaye wenze umntu wakho oyithandayo.
Umfazi udlule kakhulu
Ewe kunjalo, konke kuxhomekeke kubushushu bomibini, nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwamadoda lusakhetha abasetyhini abanomdla nabakhutheleyo abanokuyifaka umnqweno nakwiqabane elibandayo. Hayi, asikukhuthazi ukuba sikhale kwaye sigobe kwiikati ezingezizo zemvelo-uyoyikisa indoda. Veza ithathe inxaxheba elincinci kule nkqubo kunesiqhelo, indoda iyakuxabisa kakhulu kuwe.
Umfazi akanamdla wokuzonwabisa
Ewe, uninzi lwamadoda kudala lwazi ukuba yonke igxininiso kukungatsali umfazi ebhedini, kodwa ukunika ulonwabo kwaye ubale intlanganiso yakho ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buqala ukukhula. Kodwa oku akuthethi konke ukuba kufuneka ufune ukwaneliseka komntu ngobunzima, ngelixa ungabutyesheli ulonwabo lwakhe ngaphandle kokungenzi nto. Indoda ifuna ukuphinda amava asondeleyo kuphela kunye nebhinqa elalikwazi ukumkhulula kwaye alikho.
Cinga hayi kuphela ngolonwabo lwakho
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Umfazi ugxeka umntu rhoqo
Mhlawumbi eyona nto imbi kangako umntu anokuthi ave emfazini, "Khange ndiyithande." Nokuba iqabane lakho liya kuba nesibindi kangakanani, lubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukwazi ukuba uhlangabezana nomsebenzi osondeleyo. Ke ngoko, qhubeka ngobumnene nakweyiphi na imeko, ungathuki iqabane, nokuba isondo iguqukile ukuze singaphumeleli isondo. Yenza izigqibo kwaye usebenze kumgangatho wobomi obusondeleyo.
Inkosikazi iFrank
Khawufan 'ucinge: Ube nesini esimangalisayo, kwaye ngequbuliso wakhupha ukuba uthethe nendoda malunga namava akho adlulileyo. Awuboni kwanto enjalo, kuba olu bubudlelwane bakho bangaphambili, kodwa qiniseka - imvakalelo yeqabane lakho iya kuwa kwangoko. Amadoda ngokomgaqo engathandeki ukuva ukuba ibhinqa labo libudlelane namanye amadoda, kwaye isikhumbuzo sakho malunga nesoyikiso kuphela. Ukuba awufuni ukufumana ukuba ukuphoxeka rhoqo kulala kwaye uziva uphakathi kweqabane lakho, yabelana ngamabali afanayo nabahlobo bakho, hayi ngendoda.