Rhoqo ungava: uxabana ukusuka ekuqaleni. Kodwa akukho mpindezelo ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngamanye amaxesha isizathu asicacanga. Emva koko ungqina iingxaki kubudlelwane. Umzekelo, umyeni wabuya emva kwexesha, kodwa wayengafuni ukucacisa ukuba uphi. Umfazi wayethule, kodwa waphosa isono, awayephaphazela kamsinya okanye emva koko ugqabhuka ngohlobo lwengxabano. Isizathu sokuxabana sinokuba ngumnqweno wethu wokuthintelana iqabane, kwaye enyanisweni - ukwenza kube lula ngakumbi. Okanye umnqweno kwiqabane leVulnery, bonisa ukuphakama kwakho, nangona kuncinci kwizinto ezincinci, njl.
Ungakuyeka njani ukuxabana emtshatweni? Ngenxa yoku kufuneka uqonde izinto ezimbini. Okokuqala, umtshato liqela lakho elidibeneyo. Okwesibini, phakathi kwenyaniso kunye nolonwabo kubhetele ukukhetha ulonwabo.
Ubudlelwane emtshatweni ngumsebenzi wamaqabane omabini. Akunakubakho umtshato owonwabisayo ukuba umntu uzama, kwaye okwesibini ibhekisa njengefanelekileyo okanye ayikhathali kwaphela malunga neqabane. Ukwenza umtshato, omabini amaqabane kufuneka 'atyalomali. " Akukho mfuneko yokuba ucinge: Ndinomtshato ongonwabisiyo, andizukusebenza kuwo. Kungenxa yokuba ongonwabisiyo kuba akukho namnye usebenza phezu kwakhe. Kodwa ukuba ukufika kwangaxeshanye, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba kunye nesizathu esiqhelekileyo, kuya kuba lula ukusombulula naziphi na iingxabano. Ukuba kwangaxeshanye-oko kuthetha ukungathandani, kodwa nokuqonda nokuthathana, yihlonike iimvakalelo kunye nezimvo, ukuba ube nenjongo efanayo.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula: Abaxhasi aziyondlwanga, kodwa abalandeli
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Kunini kumatyala phakathi kwenyaniso nolonwabo kubhetele ukukhetha ulonwabo? Kwezo xa ungongezanga nantoni na. Khumbula indlela kwikhathuni ye-cartoon, ibhola yathi ukuthenga iibhutsi, kwaye wathenga. "Ndamxelela!" Amabinzana anjalo ngokwawo ahlala esisizathu sokuthintela ixabana, kuba enosukelo lwento enye - ukuba angaphezulu kwesinye esele iphosakele kwaye, inkohliso, iguqukile. Ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha, endaweni yokuxhasa nokunceda, uya kulukhuni kwaye uphucule, awuyi kwamkela iingqekembe zerente kuphela, kodwa nobudlelwane obubi. Ukuba kwiqabane lakho endaweni yotshaba oza kubona ngolungelelwano, uninzi lweengxabano ziya kusonjululwa ngokwazo.
Kunye nenqaku elinye elibaluleke ngakumbi. Ngubani ofanele axolise emva kwengxabano? Kweli nqaku kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo: Lowo uqalisa ukuxabana, owuqiqayo, njl. Kodwa ukuba sikhumbula ukuba bobabini baya kucela uxolo. Nokuba uthe walungileyo lowo ulungileyo, ngubani na obekekileyo, onobuchule. Xa bobabini baxolisa, Bona, bokuqala, buyisela intsebenziswano yabo, ukuLungisa i-PAINTRIA kwisibini, nakwesibini, saphinda saqonda ukuba bangaphindi baxabane. Kwaye mhlawumbi ziluxolo kwaye inguquko nganye iya kuzigcina kwixa elizayo ixabana.