"Guys Masibe ngabahlobo!" -Ubuze i-Toopold Cat kwi-soviet ye-soviet yegama elifanayo. Sinethemba lokuba ukhumbule ibinzana elivela ngaloo magama kwaye ngokwenene lingazami ukuba neengxabano, kodwa ukuzicombulula kwinqanaba lokuzalwa. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, kuya kukunceda unciphise inqanaba loxinzelelo kwiqela kwaye ujonge ukungaqondi phakathi koogxa bakho.
Nika ingqalelo kubudala
Abaphathi baqhele ukusebenza nesizukulwana sabantwana abaneminyaka engama-30 ubudala bonke abaneminyaka elishumi, ukusukela ekuqaleni komsebenzi, bafunda oogxa-qabane abaphezulu baphulaphule icebiso labo. Yintoni esele ethetha malunga nezo kudala zenzele ixesha elide. Aba bantu abayi kusala kwimbambano de bahlale kwithontsi lokugqibela. Ulutsha lwanamhlanje luyimvakalelo ngakumbi kwaye luhamba ngendlela eyiyo: iminyaka engama-20 ubudala ikholelwa ukuba inelungelo lokuvota kwaye alizukuthula ukuba liyayibona ingxaki. Sukubacela ukuba bakrexeze-ngcono banike ingqalelo kwimibuzo evavanywe ngabasebenzi abancinci ngohlobo olutsha. Chitha intlanganiso ngokudibeneyo kunye nokuhlekisa ngeengqungquthela ezishedini, ukufumana isisombululo esidibeneyo kwiingxaki.
Ukuxoxa ngeengxaki kunye
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Uthobela imilinganiselo yokuziphatha
Khumbula: Awunalo ilungelo lokuphakamisa izwi lakho ebantwini kwaye usebenzise iindlela zengqondo, ezinje nge-blackmail, isoyikiso njalo njalo. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uthatha indawo ephezulu, mdala okanye umvuzo wakho ngaphezulu. Hlonipha umnxibelelanisi ukuba ufuna ukuba aphulaphule uluvo lwakho kwaye asabele kuye. Ukuba bobabini abantu baphilile ngengqondo, abayi kuba nzima kubo ukuba bathethe naye ngethoni ezolileyo kwaye bafumane isisombululo kwingxaki, bengathethi ngokumangalisa kumnxibelelanisi. Oku kuyasebenza kuwe: Yiyeke incoko ngokukhawuleza, njengoko omnye umntu ezama ukukhulisa izwi kuwe okanye igunya.
Indumiso nabagxeki
Abaqeshwa akufuneki nje ukuba bagxeke ityala, kodwa nokudumisa. Abantu bahlala ngakumbi bethanda ukukhulula abanye ngeentsilelo, bengafuni ukulungelelanisa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ngamagama enkxaso okanye anobuhlobo ngemisebenzi yokusebenza. Ukuba ngokwenene unento yokuthetha "enkosi" kwintloko engaphantsi okanye entloko yesebe, ukuba izenzele iyure eyamkelekileyo: "Enkosi ngokuhlala ungoonobumba oqokelele itafile. Ngaphandle kwakho, ngewaye ndahamba kancinci. " Lumka kwaye ube nembeko kwabanye, ke awuyi kubalwa ngomzabalazo kwaye ukugxekwa kuya kuhambelana nomdla, kwaye ukoyike okanye ukungakhathali.
Dumisa abasebenzi bakho
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Sixelele ukuba ungakugxeka njani emsebenzini. Ucinga ukuba yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba ihlise abantu okanye ithe cwaka amaxesha amancinci?