Njengoko uyazi, uNysha uza kuphantsi kwesithsaba. Ikhethwe nguye uMcebisi Jikelele kuMongameli wentlangano yeHlabathi yeMidlalo ye-Igor SIVOV. Kuyavela ukuba imvumi, ngaphandle kokubaluleka kwayo, kudala ndaphupha abantwana. Kwaye akoyiki konke ukuba ukubonakala kweendlalifa kunokuphembelela ngandlel 'ithile.
-Umntu onyanisekileyo, ndiphupha ngokobuqu womntwana ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-18 ubudala. Kodwa ngelo xesha andizange ndidibane neqabane lam lomphefumlo. Kwaye kum, imbonakalo yomntwana ekukhanyiseni kufuneka kwenzeke kuphela emva kokuba umntu ebonakala ecaleni kwam, endifuna ukuyichitha kuye usuku okanye ezimbini, kodwa lonke ubomi bam obuseleyo. Enye ngaphandle komnye kum nje ayikho.
- Kodwa ngoku ngoku ungaqhelekanga. Awoyiki ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana kuya kuthintela umsebenzi wakho?
-Ungathinteli nakuphi na! Nditsho neengcinga zam azizange zivuke. UKILI UYA KUFUMANA NJANI UBOMI BAM ngandlela thile bunzima ngayo ubomi bam? Kungenxa yoko le nto bonke abafazi benziwe. Olu luphuculo olukhulu! Ewe, ukutyhubela iminyaka, kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuphila, kodwa nangona kunjalo yindlela eya phambili, yindlela yolonwabo.
- kwaye bashedleleni abantwana abaninzi?
- Apha kunzima ukwenza kube nzima ukuyenza, kodwa ndingathanda ukujongana nayo yonke into ebomini bam. (Uhleka.)
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-Ulungiselela umtshato, igama elikhethiweyo liyaziwa. Ndixelele, yeyiphi indoda yakho efanelekileyo?
-Ndicinga ukuba eyona ifanelekileyo ayinakuba njalo! Umntu ukwimigaqo-siseko engalunganga. Kodwa le ayisiyintlekele, njengoko abanye becinga, yinto nje ekhohlakeleyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukudibana nomntu oza kujonga kweli lizwe ngamehlo akho. Imbali yeHlabathi iyangqinelana neyakho, eyakuqonda. Yilo lonke loo nto iya kuba lulonwabo olukhulu!
-Uphawula njani amadoda namhlanje?
-Banamhlanje babe ngononophelo, kubonakala kum. Isizukulwana sam sibonisa ukuba abafazi bagqibe kwelokuba balibale ngokupheleleyo eli lizwe. (Ukuhleka.) Kulungile okanye kubi, andazi. Kodwa le yinyaniso! Kukho utshintsho olwenziweyo ngoku lonakalisa ibhalansi ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile. Ngapha koko, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ifuthe leminyaka yamaxesha laBafazi lavuya xa babeziva bexhaswa ngamadoda. Kodwa namhlanje banamabhongo kakhulu. Ngelishwa, ngamanye amaxesha iyamfama, kwaye abafazi bayagatya nayiphi na inkxaso eyindoda. Kwaye ungayiqondi into yokuphumla abantu. Kungenxa yoko le nto uluntu lujika lwajika kwelinye icala. Kodwa andicingi ukuba asinamandla. Ngamnye wethu nangaliphi na ixesha unokutshintsha eli lizwe. Ngokubanzi, imeko iyaqwalaselwa. (Uhleka.) Kodwa kungekuphela nje amadoda, kodwa abafazi batshintsha kancinci. Ndiyathemba ukuba kwimanyano yethu yonke into iya kuba yamkelwe yinkulungwane.