Inkampani sele ikwazile ukuqhela into yokuba ukohlwaywa ngokwasemzimbeni kuthathelwa ingqalelo ngogonyamelo kwaye kuxhomekeke ekugwetyweni. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko oochwephesha bengqondo besithi, ubundlobongela abupheleli ekutyibilini kunye nabalandeli bodwa. Unezinye, iifom ezingabonakaliyo.
Ke, iingcaphephe zibanga ukuba ukukhala komzali kuzisa umntwana okungenani kunokubetha kwi-Pope. Zombini iintlobo zesohlwayo zingenabantu kwi-psyche yabantwana.
Phakathi kwemiphumo emibi yobundlobongela - ukulibaziseka kubuchule bengqondo nolwasemzimbeni. Umntwana uhlala evezwa ukohlwaywa siphazamisekile yindlela yokwenziwa kweziqhotyoshelweyo. Akakwazi nokuthemba nabazali bakhe i-100%.
Umntwana, ecinezelwe yindlela awasabela ngayo abantu abadala, akaqali ukufunda ngcono emva kokuba eso sikhule "siphindwe kabini" kwidayari. Ngokuchasene noko, ubuchule bakhe bokuqonda buthoba okwethutyana, ngenxa yoko abuphakamisayo ukuze afumane uvavanyo olubi.
Njengoko kunokubonwa, ukubonakaliswa kobundlobongela akukhokeleli "ukulungisa" komntwana, kwaye kuqhuba usapho kwisangqa esibi. Abantwana baqala ukoyika abazali babo kwaye baxoke kubo ukuba baphephe izohlwayo.
Ke ngoko, abantu abadala kufuneka basebenze ukuphucula ukulawulwa kweemvakalelo zabo, kwaye iingxaki zabantwana ngokuziphatha kunye nokusebenza zinokusonjululwa, ukuba kukho imfuneko, iingcali zengqondo kunye noogqirha.