Elena Kumkerenko-Igqwetha leHlabathi. Uthathe inxaxheba kwiingxoxo ezikwi-Russia ukufikelela kwi-WTO, esebenza kwi-UN, ngoku esenza amaxhala kwenye yemibutho yezizwe ngezizwe, ufundisa uMgimo.
"Uhlalutyo, uphuhliso lwezivumelwano, ukuxoxa, intetho yokufunda - yonke le nto yi-Elena," utsho uLena. "Kodwa ngenye imini, ikamva landizisa kwiZiko lethiyetha." I-Schukina, apho ndafumana imfundo eyongezelelweyo kwi uqeqesho "lobuchule bokuthetha". "I-Pike" Kwakukho ootitshala abamangalisayo, iatmosferal, yayiyindawo eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo: Ndabona abanye abantu 'emva kokufunda iindinyana, ndibandakanyeke kwi-ETDE, ndifunda iindinyana, ukuphucula iivesi .. . Kwaye ndandifuna mna, ukuze wonke umntu abe nethuba lokufunda ukuthetha kakuhle, zama ezinye iindima, ukuveza amathuba abo okudala - ke kwavela ikrelekrele ".
"Okokuqala, ndiza kuxelela ibali elibuhlungu, eliye landichukumisa. Ke, omnye wabahlobo bam yindawo entle, enobulumko, enomtsalane ngamehlo aluhlaza, ebizwa ngokuba "yindoda ekuphiliseni iminyaka," yasebenza kwinkampani yekhompyuter. Imisebenzi yomhlobo wam-uza kuyibiza ngokuba yiStanislav - iye yehla ukwenza iinkqubo zekhompyuter ukuba zeze kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zicebisa abasebenzisi. Kanye, intloko yabuza i-stanislav ukuya kwicandelo le-chamomas lemihlaba kwaye ichithe isemina kwiingxelo ezininzi ezintle. "Kulungile, akukho ngxaki," waphendula wathi: "Kulungile, akukho ngxaki." Ukucula ingoma, uza "kwintsimi ye-chamomy", engena kwiholo kwaye ebona ukuba akukho manenekazi ambalwa, kodwa yindoda yabantu ababhinqileyo abayi-10. Wayothuka, wafuna ngokukhawuleza ikhaya, "kodwa akanakwenzeka ukuba akhule ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ekuphela kwento awayeyifumana kuyo" uxolelo ":" Eeeeee, Unga ... imizuzu emihlanu ... ukulungiselela ". Wayishiya le holo, waya kwindlu yangasese, wathi ngokwasentlango: "UStanislav, uphilile, unguye, awuzukubaxelela ukuba basebenzise njani ikhompyuter." Ibuyile, yajonga emehlweni abantu abafazi, enxanelwe ukuba athethe nomntu, kwathi bilili, wangenakukhumbula, kwaye kutheni, enyanisweni, izwi lalingcangcazela wanyamalala. Wacela ukumnika eminye imizuzu emihlanu 'yokutshaya. " Kuyabonakala ukuba abafazi baqonda ubugqwetha imeko yemeko, kwavunywa ngokuzithoba. UStanislav uphume eholweni, wahlala phantsi kwindlela enkulu kwipaseji, waqala ukuzicenga esithi: "Masihambe, siye kubo, ndixelele. Isiqingatha nje seyure-kwaye ukhululekile. " Ndacela uxolo, ndaya kwindlu yangasese. Ukuqokelela yonke iminqweno kwinqindi, ebukhali, ukubuyisa amanyathelo akubuyela kwiholo, ngaphandle kokunyusa iliso eluntwini, laliphakamisa amaphepha, laza laqala ukuphakamisa amehlo, " Molo, hayi indlela endivuya ngayo ..., kodwa apha wayehamba ngenqanawa phambi kwamehlo akhe, waqonda ukuba wayengasakwazi kudlwengula, wabamba iholo.
Kwenzeka njani ukuba isiphelo seStanislav (okwangoku sitshatile) -Ndiza kukuxelela ngexesha elizayo, kwaye ngoku ndiza kuthetha kuphela emva kokuba "ifurora iveliswe", waya kwizifundo zamalungu athile.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba ngamnye kuthi unokukhumbula ibali elifanayo ebomini bakho. Ke indlela yokuzoyisa ukoyika intetho yesidlangalala, nokuba yinto yokusebenza phambi kwabaphulaphuli abaninzi okanye incoko kunye "nomphathi" owuthandayo "? Kuthekani ukuba unomzuzu "ngomzuzu omnye" ngaphambi kokuba ungene "kwikheji yehlosi"?
Khumbula ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuthi xa sisoyika into? Silwa noloyiko, umzimba uphela ujijekile, sihamba nzima nobunzima, "- siphefumla, sitshintsha, izwi ngokwalo liyatshintsha, asikho eluntwini.
Ndiza kunika imizekelo embalwa yemithambo esebenzisa abantu boluntu ukuba banciphise uloyiko, imincili.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka yenziwe kukususa iziqwenga zomzimba, yiva umzimba wakho. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka wenze umthambo. Kubonakala ngathi ukungasebenzi, intetho yam ukuba yenze kwimizuzu emihlanu / umphathi abizwayo kwaye icela ukuba ihambe, luhlobo luni lweshaja esinokuluthetha? Kodwa asithethi ngokutshaja ekuseni, kodwa malunga nokususwa kwendawo yokuhlaselwa kweenkampani, ukususwa kwefuthe lokuqhekeza, elingasivumeli ukuba liphefumle, lenza intshukumo, alivumeli ukuba licinge kwaye lithethe.
Ke, ukuze kususwe inkqwitha yomzimba, ukulahla uloyiko kunye nokufumana ukuzithemba, kuya kufuneka ufumane indawo oya kuzifumana kuyo ngaphandle kweliso elongezelelekileyo, apho ubungayi kuphazamisanga ngokwakho kwaye wenze imisebenzi emininzi.
(a) "Peschinki". Yima, uqale ukuqaqamba kancinci ngezandla, imilenze, ngaphandle komzimba wonke, ngokungathi uyala usibale.
(b) Ukuphosa uloyiko. " Theleka endaweni, ngokungathi ufuna ukushukumisa zonke izimvo.
(c) "Guily". Ungavuma izandla zakho njengomoya, okanye, ukutsiba, ukubetha i-peary ye-pear, ngaloo ndlela "otgonit" kubo ukoyika.
(d) "Hlamba izandla zakho" - uloliwe ngezandla, iminwe-izandla zakho akufuneki zibenda, zimanzi.
Emva kolu vavanyo, kufuneka uziva ushushu, umzimba kufuneka "uthambile", uphumle.
Kutshanje ndibukele umfanekiso onjalo: Iholo yekonsathi kubo. I-Tchaikovsky, ngasemva kweziganeko kukho umdlali odumileyo osele ukho, mhlawumbi wangamashumi amahlanu, ukuba, ngokwahlukeneyo amava obukhulu kwiintetho zikawonke-wonke. Ke, lo mdlali watsiba, wenza i-mis yezandla zayo, wabetha ipere. Kwaye yonke le nto ayenzayo phambi kwentetho, eyathabatha imizuzu emihlanu!
Ukuba, umzekelo, base-ofisini kwaye awunalo ithuba lokutsiba okanye ukuhlamba izandla zakho, unokuhlala esitulweni, ulungiselele ngasekunene, emva koko kwigxalaba lasekhohlo. Kwaye ke izihlandlo ezilishumi nezilishumi elinesihlanu. Lo msebenzi, njengoko uMfundisi -muti wam waxelelayo, yenza abantu abathathe inxaxheba kwimbambano yokuzola.
Into yesibini iyimfuneko ukwenza - buyisela umphefumlo wakho. Xa sinexhala, sakhawuleza ukuphefumla, silitshiza ilizwi, sikhawuleza, sithethe ngamandla. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umamele umntu onjalo? Hayi! Kufuneka sizole umphefumlo wakho. Ukuba siyacotha kwaye siphefumla ngokunzulu, siya kuba nakho ukunciphisa okanye ukuphelisa ilizwe elothusayo.
Nantsi imithambo emibini yokuphefumla enokuphefumla enokwenziwa ngaphambi kokusebenza:
(a) "Ibhola yomoya". I-nyamaleles nzulu esiswini, ngokungathi upoling the the play pullen ukusuka kwintyatyambo, kwaye ukuphefumla kancinci kwaye ungenelele kancinci ibhola yoMoya. Ngokwesiqhelo lo msebenzi uphindwe kasibhozo.
(b) "Ukuphefumla ngamanqaku." I-Inhale, ithetha ngokwakho: "Kanye, ezimbini, ezintathu, ezine," ngokuthe ngcembe zalisa esona sisu esinomoya. Ngesichumiso esihlanu, emithandathu, isixhenxe, isibhozo siyithiye umphefumlo wabo. Emva koko, ukuthetha ngengqondo: "Kanye, zibini, ezintathu, ezine, zintlanu, zithandathu" zikhutshiwe ngomlomo. Ngokwesiqhelo lo msebenzi uphindwe kasibhozo.
Emva kokwenza le mithambo, unemizimba yasimahla, ilizwi elikhululekileyo, uyakwazi ukucinga nokulawula imeko, ulungele intetho / incoko enkulu. Uqala intetho yakho - kwaye uyakumkanikazi!