Enye yeengxaki ezininzi zokukhuliswa kwethu kukunyamezela umkhwa. Abasetyhini bavuma ukunyamezela isimo sengqondo sokungahloniphi, ukubonakaliswa kobundlobongela kunye nokungakhathali, ukungahlali wedwa. Ilungiswe amabinzana aliqela ukuba yonke intombazana iviwe kube kanye.
"Kulungile, ndigculele!"
Ukuba emva kokuhlekisa uhlala ungathandekiyo, ngokungathi ugalelwe ibhakethi enodaka, emva koko kulwalamano lwakho lucacile into engalunganga. Okubi nangakumbi, xa ezo meko ziphindaphindwa kwaMaxesha ngamaxesha: Umfana uyakubona ukuba awuthethi izimvo zakhe eziqhubekayo, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza cwaka. I-Red Sign-Joses ekhubekisayo kwinkampani yabahlobo bakho. Emva koko sikucebisa ukuba uqokelele izinto ngokukhawuleza kwaye ushiye umntu. Uphambi kwakho ubuntu obuyindalo, nto leyo ngokuthotywa uzama ukugubungela iintsilelo zakho.
kwiziya zabantu kufuneka zihambe, kwaye zingakhathazeki ngenxa yazo
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"Ingasebenziyo ukuba indiguqule-ndiza kuhlala"
Yintoni engathethiyo, kodwa naluphi na ulwalamano ngumsebenzi wabantu ababini. Ukuba awukulungelanga ukuncama ixesha lakho lasimahla, ingqalelo kunye nenkululeko yentuthuzelo yabathandekayo, ke iqabane lakho alibalulekanga kuwe. Akukho mntu uthi kufuneka ivalwe kwiindonga ezine kwaye inxibelelane kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka usebenze kubudlelwane mihla le-ukuthatha amanyathelo omnye komnye kunye kwaye utshintsha ubengcono, wenze umntu omthandayo, kwaye ngenye indlela kutheni engena ubudlelwane kwaphela? Xa iqabane likuxelela ukuba ayikukutshintsha, akuyi kuba nomtsalane nayo kwaye cinga: "Wowu, into leyo eyomeleleyo ecaleni kwam ayisosithende." Ngapha koko, ibinzana elinje lithetha kuphela "andikhathali ngawe kunye neminqweno yakho, uya kunyamezeleka - siya kuba kunye, siya kugqobhoza okungenani ngoku." Yenza, amaxesha amaninzi kumagama anjalo kukho isiphakamiso senxalenye- le ikwangumqondiso obomvu.
"Okwangaphambili yayingakhange ndincedise kakhulu ukuba awuyonto"
Emva kokuva eli binzana, kufuneka unemibuzo emibini: Kutheni ethetha kakubi ngomntu, ngokunxulumene nowuphi oza ngokuzithandela? Kutheni le nto kufuneka ndingqine? Kumntu omnye, bambalwa ababeziqhelane nabo bahlukile kuphela kuba bajonga into awazisa ngayo kwii-engile ezahlukeneyo. Ngamnye wethu yindibaniselwano yeenzuzo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga, olwalo lwalo omnye okanye olunye udidi esichaza imigaqo esekwe eluntwini. Ungaze uzame ukubonisa ubungqina kwiqabane olungeleyo: Umntu oqhelekileyo uyathanda elinye ngaphandle kwe-borcht ene-borcht ene-borcht kunye nehempe ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa kunjalo, ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ungumntu kwaye unelungelo lokubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo - ungathandabuzi kwindalo yakho, kodwa uhlala uvavanya ukwanela kwezenzo.
"Abazali bacinga ukuba awusi sibini"
Hmm, indlela yokufihlakala kancinci kwintombazana, uceba ukuba nenxaxheba kuye? Luhlobo olunjalo lwamadoda angakwaziyo ukuthatha i-fist ibe yinqindi kwaye ngokunyaniseka yitsho iqabane ukuba alibalulekanga. Endaweni yoko, baya kuza nekhulu lokufakwa kweli likhulu - kwisimo sengqondo esibi esiya kunishiya moms ngaphambi kokungabizi abahlobo bakhe. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukutshintsha uxanduva ngokulula, kunjalo? Ibinzana ngalinye elinje lelona gama lingaphelelanga ukuba amantombazana anamava anokufumana okwesibini. Mema intanda ukuba ifudukele kubazali kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabo, kwaye ifumane iqabane elaneleyo.
Sukugcina ubudlelwane obufuna ukugqiba
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"Khangela, wanelise ntoni?"
Khumbula: Nokuba yeyiphi na, nayiphi na imeko inokusonjululwa ngaphandle kokukhwaza kwaye kukukhokelela ekusweleni kwengqondo. Ngaba ukophule imoto, yaphule intsimbi okanye yathulula iglasi ye wayini endleleni yesofa-yonke le nto kufanelekile ukuba ihlaze? Ngokuqinisekileyo hayi. Umntu ngamnye ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka i-NEAKURAT kwaye inomdla, kodwa ayimniki ilungelo lokuziphatha kakubi. Kuphela ngamaxesha okuya kubona umntu obonayo kwaye uqonda ukuba uyakwazi ukuzola ingxaki okanye uyakwazi ukuyifihla ingxaki okanye uyakwazi ukufihla njengomntwana.