Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba imeko "ye-DASHA kwisebe elingabamelwane" libaleka ngemihla phantse ngeempelaveki, kwaye awukabi kuqalise incoko kunye neqabane lakho olithandayo. Ngapha koko, ubudlelwane bakho bexesha elidlulileyo abuzange kuhlala xesha elide, kwaye awunakusiqonda ukuba kutheni le nto indoda igqibe kwelokuba yaphule iManyano. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba yintoni ebandakanya umhlaba onamandla xa eqonda ukuba ukuba ubudlelwane kunye nomntu obhinqileyo musa ukubakhulisa, kwaye ngokubanzi, ukusuka kwinto umfazi engasayi kushiya.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba kufuneka ukhumbule-le ndoda ayiyi kumshiya umfazi onomdla. Yeyiphi imiqondiso esithi umntu obhinqileyo ngumntu onomdla? Masiyifumane.
Umfazi uyayazi indlela yokubonisa ingqondo yakhe
Ewe kunjalo, abantu basetyhini abaninzi basaqinisekile ukuba amadoda anyibilika kuhlobo lwamabhinqa osisidenge. Ewe, kukho, kodwa sifuna ukutsala indoda efanayo? Kule nto, akukho mfuneko yokuba ihambelane nohlobo lweqabane ozikhethele ngokwakho.
Akukho mfuneko yokwazisa le ndoda malunga neediploma zabo ezibomvu ngomhla wokuqala, kodwa yimfuneko ukuxhasa incoko enentsingiselo. Indoda ayiyi kuba nakho ukuphosa ibhinqa elinento yokuthetha.
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Inkosikazi iqinisekile
Amadoda atsala ngokuthandekayo komfazi, kwaye ayisiyo intembelo engathethekiyo, kodwa malunga nemeko evela ngaphakathi. Uyayazi ngqo into oyifumanayo ngcono kwaye uyalazi ixabiso. Ukuba uneentloni ngokwakho, iqabane linokugcina iqabane, indoda ifundela ngokulula imvakalelo yakho kwaye iba kukungathandabuli ukufunda umfazi, kwaye ke ithathe ingcinezelo yam kwaye icinge ukuba iyakukhulisa -Eetemm emehlweni akho.
Umfazi unezinto zabo
Xa elinye lamaqabane laso izilangazelelo, kwaye okwesibini alinazo, njengoko iqabane lesibini alicacanga ukuba ungalichitha njani ixesha kwenye into, ngaphandle kwento. Ukuba indoda ayinakuphila ngaphandle kweentlanganiso ezinokubakho kwikhosi yegalufa okanye ukuloba, eyona nto imbi kakhulu umfazi wakhe - qalisa ukugxeka izinto ozithandayo. Ukongeza, umfazi ongenamdla kuyo nayiphi na into engalindelekanga ukutsala umntu obaneleyo. Umntu obenzayo uhlala "uhlala", amehlo akhe avutha, kwaye umfazi ubonakala kude, ngokwemvelo, le ndoda iya kuba nomdla, nokuba ingaba unokubangela ishishini lakho.