Yonke imihla sitsibela ngesixa esikhulu solwazi, kwaye olu lwazi alusoloko lulungile. Ukongeza, iingxaki zobuqu zenze okungathandekiyo kwintloko, nto leyo ethintela ukuba isebenze ngendlela eqhelekileyo kwaye iphumle. Sigqibe kwelokuba siphonononge iingcinga ezine eziphambili ezipeyinta ubomi kwingwevu.
Andilunganga
Okukhona ixesha esilisebenzisayo kwinethiwekhi, esomeleleyo sinika imvakalelo yokupheliswa, ngakumbi xa sijonga impumelelo yokuqhelaniswa nabantu. Ibonakala kwangoko imvakalelo yokuba ungavumela, kodwa iimeko azivumelanga, kwaye ke ngoku ungaqwalaselwa kwimpumelelo yabanye. Iingcinga ezifanayo ngokuhamba kwexesha zingakhokelela ekuphazamiseni okwenyani kwaye, kunjalo, ukuncipha komgangatho wobomi. Eyona nto iphambili kukukhumbula ukuba ukuzithelekisa nabanye abantu ngumsebenzi ongenamsebenzi, kuya kuhlala kukho umntu ongcono kwaye uphumelele, kwaye ke ugxininisa kuwe kwaye ucinge ngento onokuyenza ukuze ube ngcono kunamhlanje.
Ndifuna okungakumbi
Nditsho nomntu ophumeleleyo onesifo esinengxaki ye-neurotic uya kuba nentembelo yokuba akwanele, kwaye izizathu zinokuba zininzi. Njengoko uyaqonda, ingxaki ilele kwindoda ngokwayo, hayi kwiimeko. Rhoqo kubonakala ngathi ukuba iVasi i-vasi enemiqathango i-Sasha inemoto, igumbi, umsebenzi onomdla, kwaye unokuthi kukho into elahlekileyo kolu luhlu. Kodwa cinga okwesibini - ukufezekise impumelelo kwintsimi yakho, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho abantu abafuna ukulingana nawe, kodwa awuyiboni kuba egxile kwabanye. Buyisela ingqalelo yakho kuwe, ukhathalele impumelelo yakho.
Sukukhubeka kwabanye
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Ndiyoyika
Imvakalelo yokungaqiniseki kunye noloyiko zihlala zingunobangela wokusilela okukhulu ebomini. Masithi ufunde eyunivesithi, ugqibelele kwishishini lakho, kodwa ngenxa yokoyika uswele inkalipho yokuthumela inkampani yephupha, kwaye ke kufuneka ubanikele . Ukuba ufumana iimvakalelo ezinjalo, cinga ukuba ungakanani na ukuba ungahlala kwiimeko ongafanelekanga, kodwa awuzange ungonwabi? Qala into yokutshintsha ebomini, musa ukoyika ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala kwaye emva koko utshintsho oluqinisekileyo aluyi kuyenza ilinde.
Ndikhubekile
Enye yezona mvakalelo zingathandekiyo kangangokuba iinciniba ezimbalwa zitshabalalisa ubuntu bakho. Cinga ngento yokuba xa usabile ukona, uqhubeka ephila ubomi obuzolileyo nogcweleyo, kwaye ke, nibandezeleke, nilindele ukuba umntu ave ityala lakhe. Akuzange kwenzeke nzima. Endaweni yokuchitha ixesha kunye neeseli ezinovalo kwisiseko sangaphakathi ngokwakho, xolela umntu, cela ithamsanqa kwaye uye phambili, "umntu" kwiphepha lobomi.