"Ewe, ezi zinto zibunzima bokwexeshana, siya kujamelana," uzithuthuzela emva kwenye ingxabano nomfana oselula endaweni yokusombulula. Khumbula intetho ethi "Ukonga ukuntywila-Umsebenzi wokumangalisa"? Kwimeko apho imbambano yenzeka khona kubudlelwane bakho, kubalulekile ukuhlalutya i-gestrand edibeneyo ngentloko ebandayo kwaye iqonde ukuba ukhetha-tshintsha. Ukukhumbula malunga ne-axioms ezininzi zentsebenziswano kubantu abathathu ngokweemvakalelo.
"Unomsebenzi omninzi- uya kubhala xa enako"
Sika ngexesha lokusebenza kwamakhulu emiyalezo kunye nemiyalezo yelizwi ayilunganga ngenxa yengqesho. Kodwa ukuchitha i-1 imiz, ukubuza kwiThinte yakho "unjani?", Kwaye ukuza ngokuhlwa ukuya kudibana naye okanye iiyure ezimbini ngeyona ndoda ixakekileyo. Onke amagama aqokelela ingqesho ngokugweba igwala avume ukuba awusasebenzi kakuhle. Ngaphandle koko, wayekucebisa ukuba uphile naye ixesha de iprojekthi yangoku igqitywe, okanye ubuncinci ihlangane kwisidlo sangokuhlwa kwindawo yokutyela. Ngoobani abafuna, uya kusoloko elalifumana ixesha lomntu esimthandayo.
"Kubonakala kum ukuba akanamdla kum"
Ukuba umntu wakho akakwazi ukuthetha nawe, ngokuhambelana naye ngaphandle kokudlala isimaphambili okanye ukubhala kwakhona nabahlobo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalontle, emva koko unesithukuthezi kunye nawe. Zama ukuxelela umntu omthandayo malunga nento oyisebenzisayo ekungahloniphili. Ingxaki inokuhamba kwintsapho, apho phakathi kwamalungu osapho akamkelwanga kwitheyibhile ekwabelwana ngayo kwaye encokola nje yonke into esemhlabeni - endaweni yoko, wonke umntu uhleli kumagumbi abo. Kumbini apho abantu banomdla ngokwenene omnye komnye, banokuhamba epakini okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa kwindawo yokutyela kwaye bangayithathi ifowuni konke - lonke eli xesha bathetha. Ukuba indlela oziphatha ngayo ayitshintshi kwanto, ke ayikhathalelanga iimvakalelo zakho.
Amaqabane kufuneka ancede acele omnye komnye kwaye axhase, angazinzeli ngokwawo.
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"Ewe, ndiza kuzisa ezi phakheji, andizukuchitha"
Kunzima ukucinga ngendoda ephakanyisiweyo eya kuthi ivumele intombi yakhe ukuba ihambe neengxowa ezinzima kwivenkile yevenkile okanye ayiyi kumnceda ukuba asuse idyasi. Izinto ezincinci kunye zenza umfanekiso wokuba umfana ongowe-yintombazana ethandekayo okanye ihashe elaphulwayo. Ukuba utata wosapho lwakho wayesoloko enceda umama, njengaye, emva koko izijeku ezinjalo ziya kwaziwa kuwe njengeziphatha gwenxa, kwaye zingahambi kakuhle. Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo kwindoda yakho kwaye uswele ubuthathaka, kungenjalo kutheni ujoyina ubudlelwane nomntu obomi bakho ukuba ungabi lula?
"Yiza ngandlel 'ithile, ndisanamakhwenkwe"
Ukuba uyagula okanye ulusizi, kwaye umfana wakho endaweni yokuncedisa ukuba ujamelane nempilo-ntle, qhubeka unqanda iimvakalelo ezimbi kwaye ufuna ukukubona kuphela unodoli, cinga ixhoba. Ngaphandle koncedo olunye, akukho lwalamano lufanayo nabantu abadala abanakwenzeka. Kubomi bakho bexesha elizayo kuya kuba ngamaxesha amaninzi anzima xa ufuna inkxaso yeqabane lakho: Ngaba unokukunceda usombulule ingxaki ukuba "uyadibana" kwimozulu embi?
Sixelele amagqabantshintshi, ngaba ukhe wanamava njengakwimizekelo engasentla? Sisiphi isigqibo osithathileyo - ukusebenzisa iingxaki okanye inxenye?