Ipesenti enkulu yeentsapho ayifumani nyaka wokuqala womtshato. Inani loqhawulo-mtshato lukhula ngokuthe ngcembe, kwaye iminyaka eliqela kuluhlu lwentsapho luhlala lugqwetha kunemimandla emitsha equkayo. Sisiphi isizathu somfanekiso onjalo? Izinto zisetiwe, kodwa kwindawo yokuqala yimeko engenampilo kusapho ngokwalo.
Rhoqo imitshato ihlala ishenxisa uhlobo oluthile lwengxaki esele ikhona. Uninzi ngokwenene lukholelwa ukuba emva kobhaliso lwaseburhulumenteni, ubudlelwane bubekwe okanye nje, ngandlel 'ithile. Njengomthetho, yonke into iba mbi ngakumbi.
Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze kubudlelwane bakho kwiintsuku zokuqala. Sukwenza iimeko ezibangela ukungonwabisi iqabane, zibonisa imbeko. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngokuchanekileyo ngokubhekisele kubudlelwane bomntu, nokuba ngabalinganiswa kunye nexesha labo. Zombini kwiqela naphakathi kwabantu ababini.
Ke ngoko, eyona nto iphambili ekufuneka uyifundile kukuhlonipha kwaye umthande umyeni wakhe. Nokuba zineemvakalelo eziqinileyo, kusekho siqinisekiso sokuba kusapho kukho intlonipho. Akunzima ukuvavanya indlela oziphethe ngayo. Jonga umbuzo, ngaba wenza into evela Izinto ezidwelisiweyo:
- Cinga ngomyeni wentloko yentsapho;
-Zixabise uluvo lomntu wakho;
-Xeza izigqibo zeqabane;
-Ungazami ukufumana imiqondiso yobuthathaka ngamazwi akhe;
-Ukuqonda kwakhe usapho.
Njengomthetho, emva komtshato, ingxaki ikhule kuphela
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Ngapha koko, ukuba awukulungelanga ukwamkela isibakala sokuba indoda yakho yintloko yentsapho esandula ukwenziwa, kuthetha into enye. Awumhlonelanga. Uya kuhlala ujonge amazwi akhe qinisekisa ngoloyiko lwakho. Nokutolika isenzo ngasinye ngapha nangakumbi.
Kwaye ngoku cinga ngendlela ndikhululeka ngayo ukuba ndiphile nomntu otyibilikayo iqhayiya lakho imihla ngemihla kwaye likulinde kakubi? Ubomi balindele ukungaphumeleli - kungeyiyo yonke into esiyifunayo. Ukusuka koku, nangawo wonke umnqweno, akunakwenzeka ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhambelana noko.
Okokuqala kufuneka Qonda kwaye uthathe imigaqo elifutshane ebonakalayo:
-Um kuphela umntu emhlabeni.
-Kukhona abantu abajikelezileyo ngeemvakalelo neengcinga zabo.
-Ukhe ukhethe le ndoda njengesatellite yobomi.
-Akukhona ungayihlolisisa izisombululo zakho.
Uvelwano luncedo kakhulu ebomini. Uvelwano oluninzi kunye nokukwazi ukuzibeka endaweni yenye okanye ngokungekho mthethweni okanye ekusesaneni. Ukuba ufuna ukuba ube nobudlelwane obugqibeleleyo, zama ukuphucula lo mgangatho.
Zama ubuncinci kube kanye ukuba uthembe umntu okufutshane
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Xa uqonda ukuba nayo indoda yakho ineemvakalelo, iingcinga neminqweno, kuya kuba lula ukuhlala naye. Emva koko, kuyimfuneko ukuba bahlukane nomnqweno wokulawula yonke into ngeenxa zonke kunye neengcinga ezinokuthi uluvo lwakho lelona liyinyaniso. Mhlawumbi umyeni wakho uhlala ucinga ngendlela yokucombulula iingxaki, ungayiboni nawaphi na amagama nezenzo. Zama ubuncinci kube kanye ukuba uthembe umntu okufutshane. I-Miscelaneous ukuba ixhomekeke ekukhuleni kwakhe ukugcina inqanawa yakho edibeneyo.
Zama okungakumbi ukunikela ingqalelo kumkhethe wakho. Kodwa hayi ukuzama ukufumana into embi, ubone izibonelelo ezikhe zakunyanzela ukuba ukhethe ngqo le ndoda kwaye ubeke naye ubomi bakho naye. Ukuba uyathandabuza umyeni wakho ngoku, ithetha into enye kuphela - uthandabuza kuwe kwaye kubuchule bam ukwenza izigqibo.
Uthando ayisiyiyo into onokuyifunda. Uhlala esuka kwiintsuku zokuqala, okanye eza nexesha. Ngamava adibeneyo aqokelelweyo. Kwaye ngulowo usivumela ukuba siphile kwiziqhwithi zokwenyani kwaye zivele.