-Anna, iincoko ezininzi ziye zahlukana neGrachevsky. Kwaye: Sisiphi esona sizathu siphambili?
"Ewe, bekukho iingxoxo ezininzi, kwaye ioyile esemlilweni zazigalela amajelo eendaba. Babethetha kakhulu malunga "nengcambululo" - ngokutyhutyha "- banditshintsha ndatshintsha, kwaye watshintsha, ayisosizathu soqhawulo-mtshato. Izizathu zihlala zininzi, kodwa ezona ngxaki zibalulekileyo kwaye zimangalisayo azijamelana nazo nje, kodwa ezinye iintsapho ezininzi kuxa udonga lokungaqondani kunye nokuphazamiseka njengeliqhwa. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukwazi ukubiza ngokunxulumene nomnye ngaxeshanye, oko akuko oko. Ngaphandle koko, le bhola yekhephu iwela entlokweni yakhe, kwaye ngequbuliso iyavela ukuba kukho amabango amaninzi omnye komnye. Kukho ukungathembani kunye nokucaphukisa. Ngamaxesha anje, olona lwazi lububuxoki lubonwa njengenyani.
-Ubuhewuzi otyholwa ngokuqhawula ukuthandana nomfana oselula, kwaye wawungowokuqala ukuhambisa umyeni wam ukuba athobele ...
-Ngaba ayinyani. Ngapha koko, uqhawulo-mtshato lwalusisigqibo. Amarumkazi amaninzi kubalulekile: kwaye uBoria wahamba kumfazi omkhulu, umntu esimthandayo amantombazana amancinci. Kwaye naluphi na unxibelelwano lwam nabameli besini esahlukileyo baqonda njengokungcatshwa, nokuba ndinxibelelana ngokudibeneyo kubasebenzi. Babesithi ndinomnye umfana oselula. Ngelishwa, yonke le nto ichaphazele ubomi bethu obudibeneyo. Kwaye, ndothuka, ngakumbi kwi-borola. Ekuvutheni komntu ovutha ngumsindo, kwishishini asingonyaka wokuqala, kodwa basabela kakhulu kwaye bangakulungelanga. Ukuba kunjalo nakwiminyaka emininzi yobomi, ukungazinzanga kuphume kuye, ke awunayo. Njengoko bendingacaphuki kuphela ebomini bosapho - andizange ndixelele mntu ngayo. Kodwa ngoku ndingandixelela ngokusandulileyo ukuba ndithumele iileta kwaye ndixela amanenekazi amancinci, aphikisa ukuba afunyanwa eBorea. Ndibonise nje imifanekiso. Kwaye ndakwazi ukufumana amandla okumelana nale nto. Ndikhumbula umyalezo weza: "Kufuneka sidibane." Ndidibene - nentombazana yandixelela, ndijonga emehlweni, zonke iinkcukacha ngento eyenzekayo apho kwenzeka khona i-borya xa ndikhulelwe. Ndizamile ukuvala amehlo am kwaye ndiqonde ukuba abantu "abalungileyo" bazele. Kwaye kum yayikukubetha ukuba uBhoria wasabela kumahemuhewu enye kwidilesi yam. Ndacinga ukuba indoda yam ibiza kuqala kuyo yonke indithethe kwaye ndingakholelwa kumaphukene kunye neeperes. Yonke yaba sisinye isitena sokuqhawula umtshato, kwaye sasamkela esi sigqibo.
-Ukuthatha isigqibo malunga nokuhlulela kuwe ngobunzima?
-Yiba nzima. Ngelo xesha, ndinamacala ahlukeneyo: Uninzi lwabantu luphelile kum. Kwaye isangqa sayo sonxibelelwano ikakhulu ngabahlobo bakaBrina, kuba bonke abantu ababathandayo baphila, ubukhulu becala eKharkov naseStersburg. Umntwana onesiqingatha sahlala ezandleni zakhe: awudingi mntu, akukho msebenzi, akukho uzinzo, kwaye umhlaba uphuma phantsi kweenyawo - ke kwakunzima kakhulu. Imeko ye "Wayeka" umfazi weBoris Grachevsky "wenze kancinci, ngaphandle kolawulo kunye noncumo ebusweni babanye. Kwaye, ewe, i-wave yoomatshini ophuzi, ukucaciswa, ukungcungcuthe kwakudala. Ndiqhume phakathi kwamagqwetha, ndikhangela umsebenzi, kunye nokuhlaselwa kwengqondo kuwo onke amacala kunye nengcinezelo evela kuBori. Kwakukufa okuncinci, nangona ndandineminyaka engama-28 kuphela ubudala. Kodwa yayingamava anjalo endenza lukhuni ubomi. Ndiyazisola ngokuba ndiyithandile le ndoda kangangokuba wayelahle. Nditsho nomama wathi: "Ungumntu wobudala, kufuneka uzikhulise, kwaye umntu wakho uyayibulela ngakumbi! Ungcungcutheka ngaye, njani umntwana? " Ndaye ndatshoyo! Le ndawo yepropathi yam kukunyibilikisa umntu othandekayo, ulibale ukuba kukho obunye ubomi, ngaphandle kobudlelwane. Kwaye le yimpazamo enkulu, kwaye andisoze ndiphinde ndimvumele.
"Intombazana yandixelela ukuba ndijonga emehlweni, zonke iinkcukacha ngento eyenzekayo, apho kwakusenziwa iFris apho krwada khona."
I-Lilia Charlovskaya
- Ingaba uthetha ngantoni?
-Kwakukho okuninzi konke okulungileyo: kuba andizisoli ngento eyenzekileyo intlanganiso yethu. Ndinombulelo kuba sinombala omangalisayo uVasilisa, kwaye kwavela ukuba umbulelo mhle kakhulu enkosi kuye. UBoris yindoda enomdla, wandifundisa kakhulu. Ndifundile kakhulu malunga ne-cinema-ndisebenza kwi "Uralash", apho bendisebenza khona malunga neminyaka emi-4, ndandisazi umhlaba we-cranoksha, bendikwigumbi elinye nabantu abasebenza kweli shishini kangangeminyaka engama-40, kwaye yi Indizuko olukhulu kum. Kwaye ifilimu "yophahla", apho bendisebenza khona kwaye yayisisandla sasekunene sikaBhoris, siyeke intetho enkulu ebomini bam. Lo ayingomfanekiso nje, kodwa ngumsebenzi oguqula ubomi. Kwakulapho bendikufuphi bendiqhele ukuqhelana neBorea, kwaye ubudlelwane bethu bokusebenza baguqukela ekubeni ngumntu.
- Ngubani na intombi yakho iVasililisa injengakumbi?
"Nditsho ukuba ujongeka njengoTata, nangona kukho into eyam: Ngayiphi na imeko, xa sinokubonwa njengentombi yam. Ukusuka kum ndivela kwiVasililisa inzala yokudanisa, ukusuka kuPopu-ukuba umamela umculo noluntu - uyathanda ukunxibelelana nabantu. Kwaye ndaye ndayinika iqashiso lokulungiselela le-kindergarten. Ndiyayibona indlela enomdla ukunxibelelana nabantwana kunye nehlabathi elisingqongileyo. Iyayithanda kwaye ikhula ngesantya esikhoyo: Kubonakala ngathi akaneminyaka emibini ubudala, kodwa zone.
Ewe, le gefu bayithabatha eyabo, kwaye ungumntwana wokudala: sele ethetha kwaye efunda imibongo. Ngendlela, ngexesha elinye ngonyaka onesiqingatha, nangoko, imibongo evakaliswe ngokugqibeleleyo imibongo kwi-kindergarten kwindawo yokutyela. I-Vesilisa Loops ngokuzonwabisa, zezonde. Yena ke yena wazinxiba, uza naye zonke iintlobo zeecophu, wazibeka entlokweni yakhe, njengoko wangena ngaxesha lithile. Xa ndicela uVasi: "Kwaye ungubani?" Uphendula athi: "UCol, Chanel". Kuyo, ubuchule bungeyonto nje, kodwa buqinile. Kwixesha elizayo, ndicinga ukuba iya kuba mdaniso, umculo. Ngendlela, uVasya sele ethanda ukudlala ipiyano kwaye ngokwakhe ebuza "ukudlala ipiyano."
-Uvumela ukuba uBoris Grachevsky uya kumbona umntwana?
-Ndikuyo yonke indlela "" ngayo lonxibelelwano. Nokuba ubudlelwane bethu buyenzile kangakanani, kubonakala kum ukuba iVasilisa ngumntwana ofuna amandla angamadoda. Ayiyontombazana eyaneleyo yanele nina noogogo kunye nootatakhulu. Unomdla kwihlabathi liphela, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba umntu oqaqambileyo ekukhuliseni ukho, ke ndixhasa unxibelelwano lwabo. Ngelishwa, akunjalo rhoqo, kuba uBoris unexesha elininzi lokunxibelelana nentombi yakhe, ngokungathi ndifuna. Sonke singabantu abaxakekileyo, kwaye oku kuyaqondakala, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba uya kuba nexesha elingakumbi lesimahla. U-Vasililisa uTata uthanda, uhlala elinde. Singathanda ukuzaliseka ngeVasya ukuba yenzeke rhoqo!
Rhoqo, iintlanganiso zibanjwa phantsi kweliso lam: bachitha ixesha kum ekhaya. Kwaye umntwana ukhululekile ukuhlala kwimozulu eqhelekileyo. Nangona kundinika ngokwakho ukungoneliseki kwangaphakathi, kodwa ngenxa yakhe bendikulungele ukuya kule minyini, ukuba yayilungile.
-Uye wanceda iqabane langaphambili kunye nezindlu? Ngaba ihlawulela i-alimony?
- Kukho imithetho ethile efunyenwe yipropathi emtshatweni yahluleke yaba yinxalenye. Kwaye xa kukho umntwana omncinci, iqabane lakho linyanzelekile ukuba limnike indawo yokuhlala. Kwaye ekubeni sinentombi encinci kakhulu, wayishiya indlu yakhe, nendlu, nentombi yakhe yafumana indlu, apho ihlala khona nonina - itsho umthetho. Yiyo loo nto yonke into eyenzekileyo, hayi ngaphandle kweengxaki, kodwa sonke sagqiba ngoncedo lukaKati Gordon. I-Alimony ihlala ihlawulwa ngaphandle kokulibaziseka. Utata uziphatha kakhulu!
Ngokuka-Anna, iVasililisa incinci ijongeka ngaphandle kwe-boris Grachevsky.
ISergey Ivanov
-Uyanele ubomi?
-Ngaba kubonakala kum ukuba akukho mxholo unjalo. Ihlala ilahlekile. Singamantombazana! Andihlali kwi-alwimony yomyeni wangaphambili. Ukuba imali isekhona, emva koko ihlehlisiwe kuVasilisa. Ndifumana imali ngokwam kwaye ndinike usapho lwethu.
-Anna, ngoku ubume bentombazana yasimahla. Yintoni kuwe?
-Imeko yentombazana yasimahla ayisebenzi kum, kuba ndixakekile ntombazana, kwaye andinaxesha lokulungiselela ubomi bakho: mna nonke ndichitha umsebenzi kunye nomntwana wam. Singatsho ukuba ndinesimo: "Sixakekile", kuba ngoku ngenxa yam ngoku ibaluleke ngakumbi kunosapho, umsebenzi kunye nokuzikhusela. Kwaye ubudlelwane nabantu besini esahlukileyo buhlakulela kuphela umntu ongumsebenzi, endivuya ngayo. Emva kobomi bosapho, ndifuna ukuziqonda kwaye ndifezekise impumelelo ethile, kwaye imka emvelaphi.
- Zithini izicwangciso zakho zexesha elizayo?
- Owu, ndinezicwangciso zeNapoleonovsky! Ndizama ukungaphumli. Xa iziphumo ziyavela, ukuqaqanjelwa kwam kuqala. Kubonakala kum ukuba ungazenza izinto ezininzi, fumana imali. Ndifuna ukuphuhlisa. Andizithandi iintsuku ezingenanto. Ewe kunjalo, ngeli xesha ndinokuchitha nomntwana, kodwa kuba ndingumsebenzi kamama, emva koko ndicinga ngekamva. Ndifuna ukufezekisa kakhulu, kwaye ndisebenzisa umzamo omninzi. Ukuba andiyi kufaka izinti ezindlini, kwaye baya kuyixhasa ngokuziphatha, ndoyisa ezintabeni. Amandla am anele kakhulu kangangokuba ndinokuwunika umzi. Ndifuna ukwenza ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ndizabalazela umabonwakude ukuya kuhlobo olubi kakhulu lomsebenzi. Ndifuna ukubuyela ekuqondiseni imisebenzi kwaye ndiye kwindawo yemidlalo yeqonga. Nangona ndiyakuqonda oko kuya kufuneka ukukhula kancinci, kodwa ndikulungele, kwaye yonke into izakulunga.
Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, unyaka omtsha uza kuqala ukumnika isangqa sentsapho, yenza iholide entle ukuya eVasilis, ukuze amkhumbule ubomi ...