Omnye wemisebenzi ephambili yabazali kukunceda umntwana ukuba akhulise ukuziqeqesha okuya kumnceda kubo bonke ubomi. Siza kuthetha ngezinto ezisebenzayo zokuphuhlisa le sichule siluncedo.
Yenza ishedyuli nomntwana
Rhoqo, abantwana kunzima ukugxila kuhlobo oluthile lwenyani, nokuba ucela umntwana ukuba alungiselele ibhedi, uya kufumana isizathu sokuphepha izinto ezingakhathaliyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ishedyuli inokunceda ukuguqula amatyala aqhelekileyo. Qala ngokulula: Bhala, ukuba umntwana uphuma, ukugcwala kwebhedi, hlamba, isidlo sakusasa ungayilibali iiyure ezimbalwa ukuze aphumle ukuze umntwana aphumle njengesohlwayo.
Cacisa umntwana umthetho ngamnye obekwe kusapho
Ukubeka umntwana etafileni, ukungawuvumeli de ugqibezele ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya - indlela ethe ngqo kuphuhliso lokungakhathali ngokufunda. Endaweni yoko, chaza ukuba nje ukuba umntwana enze into ebalulekileyo, akangekhe abuyele kuyo imini. Akukho bundlobongela!
Shiya ixesha kwiholide
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I-hyperopka ayikhokeleli kwiziphumo ezilungileyo
Ukuba umntwana uhlala ulibala izinto eziyimfuneko zesifundo ekhaya, kwaye uhlala wonwabile ngokukhawuleza, walifumana esikolweni, elindele ukuba umntwana uya kuba noxanduva, ngokuqinisekileyo akafanelekanga. Vumela umntwana kumava akhe makaqonde ukuba izenzo zakhe zineziphumo zayo, kwaye azisoloko zilungile. Umntwana makanelise iziqhulo ".
Sukuzama ukufumana iziphumo kwangoko
Ukuphuhliswa kokuqeqesha kunokufuna iminyaka eliqela, ke akufuneki ukuba ungaqeqesheni umntwana, ukuba emva kweeveki ezimbalwa zemizamo yakho, ayisetyenziselwa ukuhlamba izitya emva kwesidlo sasemini. Qinisekisa kwaye ungaguquguquki, kuphela kweli tyala unokumnceda umntwana wakho.