Mhlawumbi enye yeengxaki ezinkulu kubomi bezesondo bomfazi wale mihla kukusilela kwe-orgasm. Ewe, umntu uza kuthi kwisibini sabo nangaphandle kwe-orgasm kukho indawo yothando kunye nokuqonda, kodwa kutheni ungazenzi ubomi obusenyongweni nokuba kukhululwe wena nobabini? Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukufumana isizathu sokuba ungafikeleli kwiincopho zolonwabo.
Uyazenza ngokwakho
Uninzi lwabafazi alonwabi ngokwabo, kwaye le yinyani. Beva amabali abahlobo kunye nabantu obaqhelileyo malunga ne-orgasms, umfazi uqala ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngokuthelekisa iimvakalelo zakhe- kutheni kungenjalo? Nam kanye into engalunganga. Ngenxa yokukhutshwa okungapheliyo kwemeko, awukwazi ukuphumla ebhedini kunye neqabane, kwaye ufumane i-orgasm kubalulekile ukuba unikezele ngokupheleleyo kulo mzuzu. Nceda wamkele inyani yokuba sonke sahlukile, kwaye ke oko akunangqondo yokuthelekisa nomntu, ngakumbi kuba awusoze wazi ukuba umntu omaziyo akhoyo 'ukuba umntu othandanayo' uyathandana njani.
Awuyifundanga ngokupheleleyo umzimba wakho
Njengoko besitshoyo, ngamnye wethu wahlukile, kwaye ke akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo indlela yokufezekisa i-orgasm kwimeko nganye. Kuya kufuneka uphendule lo mbuzo ngokwakho. Chitha uvavanyo xa ufumanisa wena wedwa, funda ngendlela umzimba wakho osebenza ngayo, kokuthetha ukuba izinto zichukumisayo kwaye zeziphi iindlela eziza kusabela kuzo iqabane xa uza kuzifumana ulala.
Kuya kufuneka uthembele iqabane
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Awuziva ukhuselekile
Isini esifanelekileyo-esikhundleni esikhuselweyo. Ukuba uhlala ucinga ngento onokuthi ukhulelwe, ukosuleleka okanye ulahlekelwe lulawulo lwemeko, awuyi kuba nakho ukuphumla. Ukuphepha nayiphi na ingxaki esondeleyo, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ngubani na kwaye uza kwenza ntoni: Kuya kufuneka uthembele ngokupheleleyo umntu ofuna ukujoyina unxibelelwano olusondeleyo. Ukongeza, ungaze ulibale malunga nendlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa, kule meko awuyi kuba nesizathu sokukhathazeka malunga neengxaki ezinokubakho kwaye iya kuphumla ngokupheleleyo.
Awuthandi ngokwesondo
Yamkela into yokuba isondo ayidlali indima enkulu kuwe kwihlabathi lanamhlanje - fumana i-gurry yemibuzo engathandekiyo kunye nembono engafanelekanga. Bambalwa abamele ubomi babo ngaphandle kwesondo, kwaye bangekulungelanga ukwamkela ukungabikho kwakhe ebomini bakho. Abafazi abaninzi baqhele ukunyanga isondo hayi njengovuyo oluvakalayo, kodwa njengendlela yokufezekisa iinjongo ezithile. Ukuba sicinga ngesondo phantsi kwe-engile, akukho nto iyothusa into yokuba umfazi ekunzima ukonwabele into ekufuneka uyenzile ngamandla. Zama ukutshintsha indlela yendawo evakalayo, kuba isini, okokuqala, yindlela yokumisela ukudibana kwemvakalelo kunye nomntu wakho omthandayo, kunye nayo yonke enye into.